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  • Episode 437: Living with a Narcissistic Partner

    Episode 437: Living with a Narcissistic Partner
    2025/04/18
    What if your exhaustion, anxiety, and chronic stress weren’t from your job or parenting—but from your marriage? 🎧 In this deeply personal and eye-opening episode, Dr. Cynthia Edwards-Hawver joins Rebecca Greene to share her journey through a toxic, narcissistic marriage and how it led her to a life-changing mission: helping high-achieving women break free from emotional abuse. Dr. Cynthia discusses the hidden signs of narcissistic relationships, how women can begin to set boundaries, and why healing starts with believing your own truth. Through raw honesty and expert insight, she offers hope, validation, and a roadmap toward thriving after surviving. 🖋️ 5 Key Takeaways: ➤ Narcissistic abuse often hides behind a charming public facade, making victims feel isolated and disbelieved. ➤ Chronic stress and burnout in women may stem more from emotional abuse than from external responsibilities. ➤ Boundary setting with a narcissistic partner must be clear, non-emotional, and above all—safe. ➤ Grieving a toxic marriage is valid and complex; healing requires time, compassion, and community. ➤ Helping children recognize unhealthy dynamics is essential in breaking generational cycles of abuse. 💬 Quote of the Episode: "You have to go through the grief to get to the other side. And on that other side—there’s relief, peace, and your true self waiting for you." – Dr. Cynthia Hawver 💡This episode is a must-listen for any woman questioning her relationship, feeling emotionally depleted, or silently wondering if something more is going on behind closed doors. Dr. Cynthia’s story reminds us that leaving isn't the end—it's the beginning of a stronger, freer version of yourself. 🌐 Connect with Dr. Cynthia Edwards-Hawver: 🔗 Website: www.drcynthiahawver.com 🔗 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drcynthiahawver 🔗 Facebook: facebook.com/drcynthiaedwardshawver 🔗 Instagram: instagram.com/dr.cynthiahawver Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    49 分
  • Episode 436: Inspiring Lessons My Husband Learned from Earning His Third-Degree Black Belt in Krav Maga

    Episode 436: Inspiring Lessons My Husband Learned from Earning His Third-Degree Black Belt in Krav Maga
    2025/04/16
    🔥 What does earning a third-degree black belt in Krav Maga teach you about discipline, perseverance, and becoming a better partner and parent? 🎧 In this heartfelt and inspiring episode, Rebecca Greene sits down with her husband, Seth Greene, to celebrate his incredible achievement: earning his third-degree black belt in Krav Maga. But this conversation goes far beyond martial arts. Together, they reflect on the lessons learned through years of training — lessons about discipline, mindset, emotional control, and showing up for your family. Rebecca shares her observations as both a proud wife and an insightful host. At the same time, Seth opens up about the mental and physical challenges of boot camp, the power of community, and how martial arts have shaped his personal growth. From staying calm in chaos to pacing yourself through pain, this episode is a masterclass in resilience — and in love. 💡 Key Takeaways: ➡️ Discipline is a daily practice, not a one-time decision. ➡️ Growth comes from pushing through the uncomfortable moments. ➡️ Strength includes knowing when to hold back and protect others. ➡️ Mental perseverance is more powerful than physical stamina. ➡️ Mastery is a mindset — there’s always more to learn. 🗣️ Quotes to Remember: Seth Greene: "Just one more move... I made every little step a win. Because if you think about everything you have to do, you get overwhelmed and want to quit." Rebecca Greene: "Perseverance is the real black belt. And what moved me most was not just that you passed, but that you helped others through it." 💕 Why This Episode Matters: This isn’t just about martial arts — it’s about showing up consistently, embracing growth, and becoming the kind of person your family can count on. Rebecca and Seth’s love and mutual respect shine through in every moment of this episode, reminding listeners that success is not just about the end goal. It’s about who you become along the way. 📢 Connect with Seth Greene: 🌐 MarketDominationLLC.com 🎙️ Co-host of The Sharkpreneur Podcast 📚 Author of 9 bestselling books 📷 LinkedIn – Seth Greene 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: Stream this episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or Facebook. Rebecca's Linktr.ee https://linktr.ee/whinypaluzamom 💌 Know someone who’s working toward a big goal or needs inspiration? Share this episode with them — it’s full of lessons on strength, humility, and heart. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    31 分
  • Episode 435: Women's Mental Health and Peak Performance

    Episode 435: Women's Mental Health and Peak Performance
    2025/04/11
    What if your trauma doesn't count you out, but actually gives you superpowers to achieve more than you ever thought possible? In this enlightening conversation, clinical psychologist Dr. Charlynn Ruan shares her expertise on women's mental health, especially for high-achieving women and female founders. She explains how trauma can become a catalyst for growth rather than a limitation, discusses the unique mental health challenges women face throughout different life stages, and offers practical advice for ADHD, insomnia, and reaching peak performance. Dr. Ruan provides insight into how our brains process trauma and how treatments like EMDR can help release trapped trauma. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, sleep issues, or simply want to optimize your performance, this episode offers valuable guidance on understanding your brain and body to create strategies that work for you. KEY TAKEAWAYS → Trauma can be a powerful catalyst for growth rather than a limitation - Post-Traumatic Growth is real. When we use difficult experiences to grow, we can become "wiser, faster, smarter" and accomplish incredible things. → EMDR therapy helps process trapped trauma by moving memories from the reactive amygdala to the "filing cabinet" hippocampus, making them less triggering. → Women's sleep struggles often stem from biological differences, hormonal fluctuations during perimenopause, and evolutionary roles as caregivers - understanding these factors is crucial for finding effective solutions. → ADHD presents differently in women than men, often overlooked because symptoms don't match the hyperactive stereotype - adult women with ADHD frequently internalize shame messages about being "lazy," "messy," or "unable to follow through." → High-achieving women need to treat themselves like race cars with proper maintenance and support teams - it's not about slowing down but ensuring all systems are optimized for sustained performance. QUOTES FROM DR. CHARLYNN RUAN "You know you have trauma if you feel like sometimes you lose your free will. You're walking along in the world, you see something, and then all of a sudden you interact with somebody, and then you feel like a child—feel like a child as opposed to the powerful woman that you are." "I see you're a race car, and the answer isn't going to be tootling down the back lane, but you have to know that you can't have these loose bolts on your car rattling, because that's going to cause a crash. Get early about listening to what your nervous system needs." CONNECT WITH DR. CHARLYNN RUAN https://www.linkedin.com/in/drcharlynnruan https://www.facebook.com/ThrivePsychologyGroup/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    45 分
  • Episode 434: The College Process So Far

    Episode 434: The College Process So Far
    2025/04/09
    Are You Navigating the College Maze with Your Teen? You're not alone! Join Rebecca and Seth as they share their emotional rollercoaster of helping their son Max through the grueling and inspiring college application process—with laughter, lessons, and a happy ending. From Ivy League dreams to strategic planning, Rebecca and Seth offer a candid look into their family's year-long college journey. They talk about safety in schools, rejection heartbreaks, and the ultimate joy of acceptance—all while juggling parenting and life. This episode will feel like a warm, wise hug if you're a parent going through this (or gearing up for it). Key Takeaways ➤ Every child is different—no cookie-cutter approach to college. ➤ Build a unique resume that sets your child apart. ➤ Apply to a mix of dream, target, and safety schools. ➤ Understand the difference between early decision and early action. ➤ Don't put all your eggs in one basket—emotionally or strategically. ➤ Essays and continued letters of interest really matter. ➤ Keep the conversation open—your child’s happiness matters most. ➤ Letting go is hard, but the growth is worth it. 💬 Quote from Rebecca "I kept my mouth shut at times when I shouldn’t have. I would have gotten a little more involved and explained to Max why I felt the way I did. That’s what I’m learning for next time." 💬 Quote from Seth "It has been over a year of tours, essays, applications, and stress—but hearing Max scream 'I got in!' was the best sound we’ve ever heard." 🎓 Rebecca and Seth invite parents to prepare early, stay informed, and breathe through the ups and downs of the process. From celebrating wins to learning from setbacks, this episode is packed with relatable insights, parental love, and real talk. Whether just beginning the college journey or nearing the finish line, you’ll walk away feeling seen and supported. 🔗 Visit https://www.whinypaluza.com/ and join Rebecca's community for support, laughs, and real-life parenting wisdom. 📬 Be sure to sign up for Rebecca’s 3x-a-week newsletter, and please like, rate, review, share, and subscribe. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    36 分
  • Episode 433: The Art of the Juggling Act

    Episode 433: The Art of the Juggling Act
    2025/04/04
    Ever feel like you’re juggling fire while blindfolded? You’re not alone—and you don’t have to do it perfectly. This week, Rebecca sits down with Sarah Armstrong, Google's Vice President of Global Marketing Operations and the powerhouse author of The Art of the Juggling Act: A Bite-Sized Guide for Working Parents and The Mom’s Guide to a Good Divorce. With warmth, wisdom, and lived experience, Sarah shares practical, real-world strategies to help working parents balance work, family, and self-care—without chasing perfection. ✨ In this empowering episode, you’ll learn: ✅ Why “balance” is an ebb and flow, not a fixed state ✅ The secret power of the compartmentalization muscle ✅ How to set and protect boundaries—and why you must communicate them ✅ How “Grace Time” changed her parenting—and can inspire yours ✅ The genius of the three piggy banks: Spend. Save. Give. ✅ Why volunteering doesn’t mean doing everything—just do one thing well ✅ Simple self-care reframed as a non-negotiable recharge Quote from Sarah: “Balance is different for everyone—we all have to define what it looks like for us. Don’t compare your juggle to someone else’s.” If you’re a working mom trying to do it all—or wondering how to let go of the pressure to be perfect—this episode is a must-listen. Sarah reminds us: We can thrive. We can be present. And we don’t have to do it all to do it well. 🎧 Listen now and tag a mama who needs this reminder! 📘 Grab Sarah’s book: https://thejugglingact.com/author/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    46 分
  • Episode 432: Lessons I’ve Learned from My Husband Seth – A Birthday Tribute

    Episode 432: Lessons I’ve Learned from My Husband Seth – A Birthday Tribute
    2025/04/02
    What lessons can we learn from the people closest to us? In this heartfelt episode of Whinypaluza Wednesday, Rebecca Greene celebrates her husband Seth's birthday with a special tribute, sharing the valuable life lessons she's learned from their 21-year relationship. Rebecca and Seth candidly talk about how their different approaches to life have complemented and strengthened each other. From handling stress to tackling projects, they reveal how their partnership has made them better individuals while showcasing the beauty of a supportive relationship. Key Takeaways: → Persistence and consistency are two powerful qualities Seth demonstrates daily, from his martial arts training to his work ethic, showing that small, steady steps lead to significant achievements. → Breaking down large goals into manageable tasks makes them less overwhelming - Seth's approach to everything from writing papers to cleaning the basement proves that partializing challenges leads to success. → Humor can be a powerful tool for diffusing tension in relationships and difficult situations, creating opportunities for better communication. → True love manifests in small, daily acts of kindness rather than grand gestures - from picking up coffee to helping with household tasks, these moments build the foundation of a strong relationship. → A positive mindset transforms everyday tasks from obligations to opportunities - reframing chores as privileges helps cultivate gratitude rather than resentment. Quotes from Seth and Rebecca: "Only failure if you quit, it's not a failure if you keep going and learn from it." - Rebecca reflecting on Seth's perseverance. "Love is in the little things. So like, when you pick me up a coffee or you do the dishes, or you ask if you can pick up Lily on your way home, like that's love." - Rebecca on appreciating daily acts of kindness "I just found that I would sit down to write a paper, and I get this flow going... You're the hare. I was the tortoise, but I love how you do that. Slow and steady wins a race." - Seth on his approach to breaking down big tasks Connect with Whinypaluza: Visit https://whinypaluza.com/ to find the link tree with all of Rebecca's resources, including her three-times-a-week email newsletter. Make sure to like, rate, review, share, comment, and subscribe to the podcast! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    28 分
  • Episode 431: Success Secrets from Seth on his Birthday

    Episode 431: Success Secrets from Seth on his Birthday
    2025/03/28
    How do successful entrepreneurs juggle multiple businesses, family life, and personal growth? 🎧In this special birthday episode, host Rebecca Greene interviews her husband, Seth Greene, a serial entrepreneur, podcast host, and marketing expert who has founded multiple businesses. They dive into business success, time management, and parenting while balancing an entrepreneurial lifestyle. Seth shares the myth of work-life balance, the importance of boundaries, and why mindset plays a crucial role in achieving success. 💡 5 Key Takeaways: ➡️ Boundaries over balance: Forget the idea of perfect work-life balance—success comes from setting clear boundaries and prioritizing what truly matters. ➡️ Be where your feet are: Stay present in the moment, whether at work, with family, or pursuing personal goals. ➡️ Mindset determines success: Focus on where you want to go, not the gap between where you are and where you want to be. ➡️ Entrepreneurship is a personal growth lab: Starting and growing a business will challenge and shape you in ways you never imagined. ➡️ Humor is a parenting superpower: Sometimes, the best response is a well-placed joke to lighten the mood when dealing with teenage attitudes. 🗣️ Guest Quotes: 📌 "Balance is a myth—boundaries rule." – Seth Greene 📌 "Focus on where you want to go, not on the gap between where you are and where you want to be." - Seth Greene 📢 How to Connect with Seth Greene: 🌐 Website: Market Domination LLC 🔗 LinkedIn: Seth Greene 🎙️ Podcast: Sharkpreneur with Kevin Harrington 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: Find this episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and Facebook! ✅Follow Rebecca Greene 💻Blog https://www.whinypaluza.com/ 🎧Podcast https://www.whinypaluza.com/podcast 📙Book 1 https://bit.ly/WhinypaluzaBook 📘Book 2 https://bit.ly/whinybook2 👤Facebook https://www.facebook.com/whinypaluzaparenting 📸Instagram https://www.instagram.com/becgreene5/ @becgreene5 📱TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@whinypaluzamom?lang=en @whinypaluzamom 📺YouTube https://www.youtube.com/WhinyPaluza Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    39 分
  • Episode 429: Exploring Psychological Safety At Work and Beyond.

    Episode 429: Exploring Psychological Safety At Work and Beyond.
    2025/03/26
    Why is female rivalry in the workplace so damaging, and how can we create psychological safety instead? In this eye-opening episode of the Whinypaluza podcast, host Rebecca Greene interviews Dr. Amber Tichenor, an organizational psychologist, psychological safety expert, and author of "Behind Frenemy Lines: Rising Above Female Rivalry To Be Unstoppable Together." Dr. Amber shares her expertise on female rivalry in the workplace, psychological safety assessments, and how to create healthier work environments. From her personal experiences that inspired her research to practical advice for both recipients and perpetrators of rivalry behaviors, Dr. Amber offers valuable insights into a topic that's often experienced but rarely discussed. Key Takeaways: → Female rivalry behaviors are often intangible and passive-aggressive, making them difficult to identify and address in the moment. Documentation is crucial if you're experiencing these behaviors. → Psychological safety in the workplace means people can be vulnerable, authentic, and speak up without fear - leading to higher productivity, better retention, and stronger teamwork. → "Women who like themselves like other women." Many rivalry behaviors stem from insecurity, jealousy, need for control, or negative childhood experiences. → Creating psychological safety requires open and transparent communication, continuous engagement, and leadership that practices what they preach. → When experiencing rivalry behaviors, remember it's not about you - it's about the other person's issues. You're not alone, and there are women out there who will have your back. Quotes from Dr. Amber: "If you don't like yourself, it's going to be really very hard to like other women." "When you feel psychologically safe in an environment, you want to do more for others. The productivity levels go up, you'll have less turnover, and you'll have people that want to stay." Connect with Dr. Amber Tichenor: Dr. Amber Tichenor is an organizational psychologist, founder of Dr. Amber Tichenor, PhD, and a psychological safety expert. She's an accredited facilitator for the Academy of Brain-Based Leadership, implementing the psychological safety assessment. Her book "Behind Frenemy Lines: Rising Above Female Rivalry To Be Unstoppable Together" addresses female rivalry in the workplace and promotes collaboration over competition. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    36 分