In this powerful Coach’s Corner conversation, Coach Frank Rich sits down with Drew Boa, founder of Husband Material Ministries, to dive deep into the root causes of porn addiction and what it actually takes to heal for good.

Drew doesn’t just coach men through recovery, he’s lived it. In this episode, he opens up about his personal battle with porn, the journey to emotional and spiritual healing, and how he discovered the power of inner child work, trauma healing, and safe, brotherhood-based recovery.

If you’re tired of white-knuckling your way through sobriety…

If you know your behavior is a symptom of something deeper…

If you’re ready to face your pain and start healing from the inside out…

This conversation will show you how.

🔥 Expect to Learn:

• Why healing your inner child is non-negotiable for lasting freedom
  
  

• How porn becomes both a pacifier and a predator in men’s lives
  
  

• The role of trauma in addiction (and what happens when it’s ignored)
  
  

• Why vulnerability is a superpower in leadership and healing
  
  

• The importance of safe spaces and community for real transformation
  
  

• How the recovery world is changing in the digital age
  
  

• The power of collaboration between leaders in this movement
  
  

• Why shame is one of the biggest barriers to healing
  
  

• And how to reclaim your identity as God’s beloved son
  
  

This isn’t just a conversation about quitting porn. It’s about rebuilding the man you were born to be.

About Drew:

Drew Boa is the founder and CEO of Husband Material Ministries, where he helps men outgrow porn. He is also the author of Redeemed Sexuality (IVP, 2017) and the host of the Husband Material podcast. Drew is a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional (PSAP) and a Certified Brainspotting Practitioner (BSP). Drew enjoys living in Colorado and going on adventures with his wife and kids.

Website - https://www.drewboa.com/

Husband Material Ministries - https://www.husbandmaterial.com/

Podcast - https://pod.link/1487724216

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In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich lays out a powerful 5-step plan for what to do immediately after a relapse. Because here’s the truth, relapse isn’t the end unless you let it be.

Most men spiral after slipping up because they fall into shame, isolation, and false identity. But with the right response? That same relapse can become the catalyst for your next breakthrough.

You’ll learn how to process the moment without self-destruction, trace the root of what really caused the fall, and use your next 24 hours to reset your momentum and get back to building the life God called you to.

Whether you’re on day 3 or day 93, this episode is a must-listen for every man who’s serious about quitting porn and becoming the man he was born to be.

👊 What You’ll Learn:

• Why relapse isn’t failure, but poor response is
  
  

• The difference between grace and excuses
  
  

• How to identify the hidden patterns that lead to relapse
  
  

• Why your choices in the moment of temptation matter more than anything
  
  

• How to make a plan that actually works next time
  
  

• Why taking fast action right after a slip is crucial to regaining control
  
  

• The neuroscience behind momentum (and how to use it)
  
  

• How to turn a relapse into a launchpad, not a death sentence
  
  

• Why doing hard things after failure rebuilds belief
  
  

• How brotherhood and accountability accelerate long-term freedom
  
  

⚡ Ready to Take the Next Step?

If you’re done going at this alone, it’s time to reset.

Join The 7 Day Porn Reset, completely free, and get instant access to:
✅ Our full step-by-step reset training

✅ 1 FREE week inside The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood

✅ Tools, trackers, and daily support from men who are winning

👉 Start now at www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

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In this raw and truth-filled episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich flips the script on porn addiction — and calls it out for what it really is:

Avoidance.

You’re not addicted to pixels.
You’re addicted to escaping life — pain, boredom, responsibility, silence.
Porn is just the fastest escape route.

Frank exposes the hidden hierarchy of addiction most men don’t see — where comfort, control, and fantasy keep you stuck, passive, and spiritually disconnected. This episode goes deep into the biological, emotional, and spiritual warfare behind your patterns — and reveals why your brain has been rewired to chase dopamine instead of purpose.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in the cycle of relapse, shame, and distraction… this is the wake-up call you need.

💣 Key Takeaways:

• You’re not addicted to porn — you’re addicted to avoiding reality.
  
  

• The real battle isn’t lust. It’s escape.
  
  

• Porn is just the symptom at the top — comfort, fantasy, and control run deeper.
  
  

• Dopamine overload is killing your clarity, discipline, and peace.
  
  

• Constant escapism weakens the prefrontal cortex — your willpower center.
  
  

• Real life includes risk, pain, and failure — and that’s where growth lives.
  
  

• Sitting with boredom and discomfort is your path to healing.
  
  

• Brotherhood and truth-telling are essential to freedom.
  
  

• You have the power to rewire your brain, reclaim your identity, and become the man God created you to be.

🔗 Free Resource:

Want to start your reset today? Join the FREE 7-Day Porn Reset Challenge + get access to The Brotherhood community.

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You love God…

You read the Bible…

You want to live with purpose and purity…

But late at night, when no one’s watching — you’re still losing the battle with porn.

In this powerful episode, Coach Frank Rich calls out the hidden struggle of Christian men who can’t reconcile their faith with their addiction. This isn’t just about lust. It’s not just sin. It’s slavery. And no amount of willpower, guilt, or prayer alone will break those chains.

Frank breaks down the truth most churches won’t tell you:
🛑 You don’t have a porn problem.
⚠️ You have an identity problem.

And until you stop trying to white-knuckle your way through recovery — and start becoming the man God actually called you to be — you’ll stay stuck.

You’ll hear real success stories from men who’ve gone through The Rebuilt Man program… men who once felt disqualified, spiritually dead, and beyond hope… but found true freedom by renewing their minds, building new disciplines, and finally stepping into masculine, faith-driven transformation.

If you’ve tried everything else and still feel trapped…

This might be your moment to REBUILD.

💥 Episode Takeaways:

• You’re not broken. You’re not beyond help.
  
  

• This isn’t just sin. This is slavery.
  
  

• You’ve tried to fight porn with willpower — but never rebuilt your identity.
  
  

• Faith without framework leads to frustration.
  
  

• You need more than prayer. You need structure, strategy, and brotherhood.
  
  

• The Rebuilt Man program doesn’t just change habits — it changes men.
  
  

• Real transformation happens when you become the man who no longer needs to escape.
  
  

• You weren’t meant to fight this battle alone.
  
  

• The 7-Day Porn Reset is your next step toward lasting freedom.

🔗 Join The Brotherhood:

Ready to stop fighting this alone? Join Coach Frank and hundreds of men inside The Rebuilt Man Skool Community for FREE.

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Porn addiction isn’t just real—it’s one of the most destructive forces keeping men stuck in mediocrity.

Worse than drugs. Worse than alcohol.

Why? Because of the 3 A’s that make it deadlier than anything else out there:

Affordability. Accessibility. Anonymity.

In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich exposes why porn addiction is hitting men harder than anyone wants to admit—and why breaking free requires more than willpower.

If you’ve ever wondered why you keep relapsing…

Why your drive is gone…

Why you feel ashamed, stuck, or secretly powerless…

This is your wake-up call.

🧠 Expect to Learn:

• Why porn addiction is often more dangerous than drug or alcohol abuse
  
  

• The truth about Affordability: how “free” porn is stealing your future
  
  

• How Accessibility turns your phone into a 24/7 dealer
  
  

• Why Anonymity keeps you silent, ashamed, and stuck
  
  

• The science behind shame, secrecy, and compulsive behavior
  
  

• Why you need a new identity, not just new habits
  
  

• How community and accountability lead to true freedom
  
  

• How to start your freedom journey with the 7 Day Porn Reset

🔗 Free Resource:

Want to start your reset today? Join the FREE 7-Day Porn Reset Challenge + get access to The Brotherhood community.

▶️ JOIN HERE: www.therebuiltman.coom/7dayreset

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👊 Ready To Experience This For Yourself?
Join us inside The Rebuilt Brotherhood for your FREE 7-Day Reset—a proven step-by-step plan to rewire your brain, reclaim your life, and surround yourself with men walking the same path.

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In this powerful “I Am Rebuilt” episode, Coach Frank sits down with Coach Arnold Czibrik, a man who battled decades of compulsive porn use before finding true freedom inside The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood.

Arnold’s journey is one that so many men will relate to: years of trying everything from self-help books, church, white-knuckling, and 12-step groups… only to keep ending up back in the same cycle of shame, self-sabotage, and frustration. But once he found Frank’s program and embraced the world’s only fully integrated holistic approach to freedom, everything changed.

Today, Arnold is not only free, he’s coaching other men through the same fire. He shares how healing required merging neuroscience with faith, journaling with identity work, and action with brotherhood. If you’ve ever doubted your worth or questioned whether true freedom was possible, this episode will speak directly to your soul.

🔥 Expect To Learn:

• Why willpower and white-knuckling never work long-term
  
  

• The real reason “rock bottom” doesn’t always wake you up
  
  

• How porn robs men of their leadership, presence, and power
  
  

• What true transformation looks like from the inside out
  
  

• The key mindset shift that broke Arnold’s addiction after 30+ years
  
  

• How his deepest struggles became the source of his purpose
  
  

• The exact moment he knew the program was different and what changed
  
  

• What happens when you stop overanalyzing and finally take action
  
  

🧠 Quote From The Episode:

“You’ll never walk in freedom if you don’t believe you’re worthy of it. You’ll self-sabotage every time and think the world is to blame. But it’s not the world. It’s you. And it’s time to reclaim your power.”

👊 Ready To Experience This For Yourself?
Join us inside The Rebuilt Brotherhood for your FREE 7-Day Reset—a proven step-by-step plan to rewire your brain, reclaim your life, and surround yourself with men walking the same path.

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In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich exposes the 10 biggest mistakes keeping men trapped in porn addiction — and why most recovery plans fail from the start.

It’s not that you aren’t trying hard enough.

It’s that you’re fighting the wrong battle.

Counting streaks. Watching motivational clips. Reading the Bible without living it out.

None of these will set you free if you’re avoiding the real work.

True freedom requires going deeper:
✅ Healing the root cause of your addiction

✅ Building emotional resilience and self-control

✅ Becoming the man who no longer needs porn to escape his life

If you’re tired of surface-level solutions and ready for lasting change, this episode is your wake-up call.

💡 Key Takeaways:

✔️ Most men stay stuck not because they’re lazy — but because they’re focused on the wrong things.

✔️ Counting days is behavior management, not identity change.

✔️ Motivational videos mean nothing without implementation.

✔️ Reading books without applying them keeps you trapped in your head.

✔️ Staying busy is just another form of avoidance.

✔️ Push-ups might burn off urges, but they won’t heal your heart.

✔️ Accountability apps block behavior, but they don’t fix your soul.

✔️ Prayer is powerful — but you still have to act.

✔️ Reading the Bible doesn’t work unless you actually live it out.

✔️ Lasting freedom comes from transformation, not just willpower and discipline.

🔗 Free Resource:

Want to start your reset today? Join the FREE 7-Day Porn Reset Challenge + get access to The Brotherhood community.

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Most men who can’t focus don’t have ADHD...

They have a porn problem. And it’s frying their brain’s ability to stay motivated, focused, and driven.

In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich exposes the truth behind dopamine dysregulation and how compulsive porn use hijacks your mind. What most men label as ADHD is often the byproduct of years of artificial dopamine spikes from porn, junk food, social media, and other modern addictions.

If you’ve ever wondered why you can’t finish what you start...

Why you can’t sit still and focus on meaningful work...

Or why life feels dull unless you’re chasing the next quick hit...

This is the episode that will flip your perspective.

You’ll learn:

• Why dopamine — not willpower — is the key to your focus
  
  

• How porn creates ADHD-like symptoms in your brain
  
  

• Why medication rarely fixes the real problem
  
  

• Practical daily steps to rebuild your focus, drive, and energy
  
  

• How community and daily action rewire your brain for purpose
  
  

If you’re done blaming your brain and ready to fix the real root cause, this episode will give you the playbook to get started.

✅ Key Takeaways:

• Most men’s “ADHD” is really dopamine dysregulation caused by porn.
  
  

• Porn hijacks your brain’s reward system, making real life feel boring.
  
  

• The ADHD label often masks an addiction to stimulation.
  
  

• Quitting porn and resetting dopamine can reverse focus issues.
  
  

• Medication treats symptoms but rarely solves the core problem.
  
  

• Daily goal setting and small wins rebuild motivation.
  
  

• Exercise, cold exposure, and deep work are natural dopamine resets.
  
  

• Brotherhood and community connection help rewire your mind for purpose.
  
  

🔗 Free Resource:

Want to start your reset today? Join the FREE 7-Day Porn Reset Challenge + get access to The Brotherhood community.

▶️ JOIN HERE: www.therebuiltman.coom/7dayreset

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