Episode #989

Can you stay calm and confident—even when your wife is testing your limits?

We're bringing this one back for a reason. If you've ever found yourself defending, explaining, or reacting in frustration during conflict… this episode is for you. Because how you show up in those moments—especially when your buttons are pushed—is the difference between a marriage that grows and one that keeps falling into the same fight.

In this episode, Doug and Brad break down what it really means to practice "engaged indifference." This isn't about being cold or checked out. It's about being fully present, fully grounded—and totally unshaken by someone else's emotional storm. When you lead this way, you become the lighthouse your wife can count on, no matter how rough the waters get.

They also dig into why being reactive turns your wife into your mother (yep, it happens), how to lead with curiosity instead of control, and how to stop tying your self-worth to your wife’s mood. You’ll hear personal stories, practical tools, and the exact mindset shift that makes deep intimacy—and real leadership—possible again.

Revisit this one. Because showing up as the lighthouse isn’t just about avoiding drama. It’s how you earn trust, spark connection, and lead from a place of strength—even when it’s hard.

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Episode #988

What if the reason you're burned out, disconnected, or stuck isn't because you're doing too much—but because you're saying yes to all the wrong things?

Most high-achieving men are secretly overwhelmed. They’ve built successful businesses, provided for their families, and checked all the boxes… yet deep down, something feels off. In this episode, you’ll hear how one man’s struggle to say “no” led to decades of hidden pain, poor decisions, and relationships that never quite fit.

In this episode, you'll hear a raw and powerful conversation between Tim Matthews, Mark Smith, and David Mason as they explore what happens when you stop hiding behind productivity and finally start honoring what you really want. They unpack how unresolved childhood trauma shows up in your “yes,” how saying no can feel dangerous when you were never taught it was safe—and how learning to say “yes” without a “but” can radically shift your business, marriage, and life.

You’ll also hear how David went from working 90-hour weeks to taking 3-day weekends—without losing momentum. And the surprising shift that made his business more successful while he finally felt at peace, connected, and fully alive.

If you’re ready to stop chasing validation and start leading with purpose, this is your episode.

Listen now. Your “yes” might be waiting.

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Episode #986

What if the key to stronger connection isn’t about trying harder—but simply remembering who you are?

Fresh off The Rising, Tim Matthews sits down with Mark Smith and Chris Cameron—aka “The Love Power”—to unpack some of the biggest personal breakthroughs that came from shutting out the noise and tuning in to what really matters.

They dive into the messy, beautiful process of self-discovery, and what happens when you finally stop running from your own patterns. You’ll hear how something as simple as saying “I love you” can completely shift a relationship—even in the middle of a heated disagreement.

In this episode, they talk about how knowing yourself can expose hidden triggers, like emotional eating, and how those subtle shifts can create massive change. They reflect on why real connection often gets lost in the day-to-day grind—and how men can reclaim it by owning their truth and leading from love.

This is one of those conversations that reminds you: the work isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being honest. With yourself first. Then with the people who matter most.

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Episode #986

You’re trying to move forward. You’ve apologized. You’ve changed. But the past keeps showing up in your marriage like it just happened yesterday. Every time things start to feel good again, she brings up the affair, the betrayal, or whatever broke the trust—and it knocks the wind out of both of you.

In this episode, Doug walks through exactly why that keeps happening and what you can do about it. Not with quick fixes or guilt trips, but with real tools that help her feel safe again. You’ll learn how to create the kind of emotional safety that allows her to finally exhale—and how to stay grounded when the past gets brought up, again.

This isn’t about defending yourself. It’s about leading the relationship forward, even if you're the one who caused the pain. If you're serious about rebuilding connection, this conversation is where you start.

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Episode #985

What does it really mean to be present for your kids—not just physically, but emotionally and mentally?
And how do you balance that presence with the pressure you put on yourself to be a better man, husband, and leader?

In this episode, one father opens up about the raw and honest journey of leveling up—not just as a dad, but as a man.
You’ll hear how stepping into deeper accountability led to a powerful realization: the standards we hold ourselves to can also become silent contracts that impact our relationships.

We dive into what happens when you stop trying to fix others and start leading with understanding.
The conversation explores how to break patterns of judgment, how to truly connect with your children (especially daughters), and why being the “lighthouse” for your family sometimes means taking time to recharge your own bulb.

You’ll also hear about the surprising shifts that come from doing men’s work—not just once, but consistently—and how doing this work together brings clarity, confidence, and a deeper connection to purpose.

No fluff. Just real stories from real men doing the work—together.

Feel like you're doing everything right but still drifting from your wife?
This free book will show you how to reconnect—without long talks or therapy.
📘 Get your copy here (just cover shipping):
https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/freebook

Think you're showing up—but not sure it's enough?
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Episode #984

Do you ever feel like it’s your job to make sure everyone else is happy—your wife, your kids, your team—and somehow, it never quite works? You’re not alone.

In this episode, we dive deep into a common (and exhausting) trap many high-achieving men fall into: trying to take responsibility for other people's emotions. It feels noble at first—like you're being a great husband, father, or leader. But at what cost?

You'll hear personal stories and hard-won lessons about how this pattern often stems from childhood conditioning, religious or cultural expectations, and the desire to create peace and safety. And more importantly, you'll learn what to do about it.

This one's a real conversation—unscripted, honest, and revealing. No fluff. Just the stuff that gets in your way and how to get past it.

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