In Episode 95 of The Blueprint Podcast, Jason sits down with licensed marriage and family therapist Talia Bombola for an honest, raw, and empowering conversation about personal growth, healing, and transformation. As the year comes to a close, many people set big goals for the new year, often aiming to “fix” everything at once. But Talia offers a refreshing perspective — it’s not about healing from being broken, it’s about learning to adapt and grow.

They discuss the power of radical accountability, how to navigate life’s inevitable challenges, and why "doing the work" doesn’t mean overhauling your entire life overnight. Talia breaks down the stages of conscious change, the concept of self-sabotage, and the need to stop viewing ourselves as "broken." Instead, she encourages us to see ourselves as people who are always adapting, always evolving, and always capable of more than we realize.

This episode will leave you with a powerful message: You are not broken. You are becoming.

If you’re stepping into a season of change, preparing for 2025, or simply want to understand yourself on a deeper level, this episode is filled with practical tools and thought-provoking insights. Listen now to learn how to:

• Shift from "healing" to "adapting"
• Navigate the tricky terrain of relationships when you grow but others don’t
• Recognize and break free from the victim mentality
• Develop radical self-accountability and personal agency
• Understand how childhood programming impacts adult decisions

This episode is a wake-up call for anyone ready to rewrite their narrative, drop the victim label, and step into their authentic, most powerful self.

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• Host: Jason Smith
• Guest: Talia Bombola, LMFT

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Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.

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Episode Description: In this powerful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, we’re joined by bestselling author, entrepreneur, and creative force Brittany Bacinski. Brittany’s journey is one of resilience, creativity, and bold defiance of societal expectations. She’s the author of Reaching for Driftwood, On His Way Back to Me, and co-author of Hippie Eats. Her works have captured hearts worldwide and are now making their way to the big screen.

We dive into Brittany’s incredible evolution from a small-town girl with big dreams to a self-published bestseller with a film deal on the way. She shares her journey through divorce, self-discovery, and the power of following her intuition—even when it defied logic. Brittany’s philosophy of "being a defiant human" is a recurring theme throughout the episode as she shares her lessons on love, independence, and creating a career outside of the traditional mold.

Key Topics in This Episode:

• Brittany’s journey to becoming an author: How she channeled childhood trauma into creative energy.

• Writing Reaching for Driftwood and On His Way Back to Me: The process of turning life’s hardest lessons into art.

• How Brittany’s Reaching for Driftwood and her upcoming TV/film adaptation came to be.

• Age-gap relationships, attachment styles, and the complexities of love and dating.

• Navigating the "fearful avoidant" attachment style and how it’s impacted her romantic relationships.

• The origins of "The Defiant Human" brand and how it became a driving force in Brittany’s life.

• Brittany’s disciplined approach to fitness, self-care, and life’s daily challenges.

• Her journey of self-publishing her books and how TikTok played a major role in building her audience.

• Manifesting dreams on your own terms and overcoming "gatekeepers" in traditional publishing.

Guest Bio:
Brittany Bacinski is a bestselling author, entrepreneur, and host of The Defiant Human podcast. Her books include the memoir Reaching for Driftwood, the novel On His Way Back to Me, and the co-authored plant-based cookbook Hippie Eats. Known for her unfiltered honesty and "defiant human" philosophy, Brittany’s story is a testament to the power of intuition, self-determination, and creative passion. From self-publishing success to landing a movie deal, Brittany’s path has been anything but ordinary—and she wouldn’t have it any other way.

Follow Brittany Bacinski:

• Website: www.brittanybacinski.com

• Instagram: @brittanybacinski

• TikTok: @brittanybacinski

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If you’re looking for inspiration to live authentically, take control of your story, and defy the odds, this episode is for you. Get ready for deep insights and candid moments that will leave you feeling inspired and ready to write your next chapter.

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Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.

Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.

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