Can’t Afford a House Without a Partner?
You’re Not Alone.
In this episode of the Gen W Podcast, Australia’s most followed mortgage broker Q Huynh and co-host Grace unpack a real client dilemma: Should first home buyers wait for a partner—or just buy solo? 💔🏠We dive deep into:Why more buyers are teaming up (romantically or with family) to enter the Sydney marketThe emotional cost of tying a mortgage to a relationship too earlyRelationship red flags, dating app chaos, and how rising living costs are warping modern love 💸❤️Personal stories from Q & Grace on buying property young—without help—and what they learnedThe 3 fights rule before you buy with a partner 👊💍Plus: Raw takes on feminist TikToks, gold digger discourse, and why some men are scared of the first date bill.🎯 Whether you're single, coupled-up, or just confused about love + loans in this economy, this one’s for you.Hit like, subscribe, and drop your wildest dating-property crossover questions in the comments.#ModernDating#DatingApps#RelationshipAdvice#LoveAndMoney#DatingInYour20s#FinancialCompatibility#RedFlags#GenWPodcast#ThatHomeLoanDude#QHuynh#GraceAndQ#MortgageBrokerPodcast#PropertyTalkAustralia#FinanceAndRelationships- NOT FINANCIAL ADVICE - 🙏Book a 15min or 60min call with me if you have any questions Go to: www.callhomeloandude.com

Hey friend,
You might be wondering why people are talking about Gough Whitlam again — after all, it’s been 50 years since his dismissal. But here's the thing: for first-generation Aussies like us, especially those from migrant backgrounds, this isn't just political history. It's personal.
Whitlam gave Australia free university and Medicare — sure. But he also rejected thousands of Vietnamese refugees, including families like mine. Behind closed doors, he called them names and shut the door on people fleeing war. That moment? It didn't just shape policy. It shaped the nervous systems of our parents — and us. Even if we didn’t live it directly, we carry it. In the way we save. In the way we fear debt. In the way we hesitate to invest or trust the system.
If you’re the child of migrants, you’ve probably felt it: the guilt around money, the fear of making a wrong move, the voice in your head saying, “Don’t be greedy,” even when you just want to buy a home. That’s not a mindset issue — that’s money trauma. And it’s not just about numbers. It’s emotional. It’s generational.
This letter — this message — is to remind you: we’re allowed to build wealth. We’re allowed to heal. And we don’t have to operate from fear or survival mode anymore.
If you’ve ever said, “I’ll wait till the market cools,” or “I’m just not ready,” maybe ask yourself — is it really about money? Or is it fear? Fear passed down from parents who were once told they didn’t belong.
There’s a path to healing. I’ve walked it. And I’ve helped thousands of other first-gen Aussies do the same — turning inherited trauma into clarity, confidence, and wealth.
You’re not alone in this. And you’re not broken. You’re just carrying stories that were never yours to begin with.
Let’s rewrite them — together.

Is Your Childhood the Reason You’re Still Broke?
You might know how to budget, save, and hustle — but if you grew up watching your parents stress over bills or fear mortgage repayments, you’re likely carrying money trauma, not just bad habits.
In this video, we unpack how childhood financial stress, intergenerational scarcity, and emotional dysregulation are quietly sabotaging your ability to build wealth — especially through property.
From why migrant kids overthink every money move, to how trauma shows up in your nervous system when applying for a loan, this isn’t just another real estate advice video — it’s a truth bomb.
✅ Why budgeting alone isn’t enough
✅ How trauma causes financial procrastination
✅ What to do if you feel stuck, anxious, or unworthy of wealth
✅ And how to finally shift from survival mode to strategic investing
Whether you’re a renter, first home buyer, or anxious investor — this is the healing-led money conversation you never knew you needed.
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📲 Watch now & grab your Money Healing Before Property Checklist below.
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