The holiday season is often painted as the most wonderful time of the year, but for many, it’s full of obligations, overindulgence, and emotional overwhelm. In this episode, I reflect on past Christmases—ones filled with boozy traditions, holiday parties gone that make me shake my head, and the crushing weight of loneliness, grief, and anxiety.

I share my journey of navigating the holiday pressures, breaking free from destructive patterns, and choosing a slower, more deliberate way of celebrating. With humour, vulnerability, and personal stories (like falling asleep in the boardroom after a Christmas party), I shed light on the deeper struggles many face during this time of year.

Now, five years sober, I talk about what the holidays can look like when we prioritize our well-being, set boundaries, and embrace presence over perfection. Whether you’re navigating family dynamics, loneliness, or the urge to “pour a little extra cheer,” this episode will inspire you to create a holiday season filled with intentional joy.

Key Takeaways:

• The pressures and pitfalls of the holiday season, from overcommitting to overindulging.
• How alcohol impacts our mental health and emotional regulation, especially during stressful times.
• The beauty of creating new traditions rooted in connection and self-care.
• Practical tips for setting boundaries, saying no, and navigating the holidays sober.

Let this episode be your reminder that you can rewrite your holiday story—and that "merry and bright" is within your reach, no champagne required.

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