Parenthood changes everything—your priorities, your perspective, and even how you see yourself.

In this episode of The Real Sh*t Podcast, Khalil and Jasmin get real about the struggles, joys, and unexpected lessons that come with parenting. From childhood trauma to dealing with rejection, we dive deep into how growth happens through discomfort and why losing yourself might just be the first step to finding a better you.

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Chapters:

0:00 - Welcome to The Real Sht Podcast*

0:33 - How Parenthood Forces Self-Reflection

2:00 - Childhood Beliefs vs. Reality: The Monsters in the Closet

4:15 - Jasmin’s Struggles with Being Let Down

7:20 - Revisiting Childhood Traumas and Stories We Misremember

9:30 - Are You Traumatizing Your Kids? Parenting Fears and Realities

12:05 - Jasmin’s Pep Talk: Dealing with Rejection and Self-Worth

15:00 - Khalil on Handling Rejection and Using It as Fuel

19:00 - Jealousy vs. Envy: The Thin Line Between Growth and Hate

23:00 - Shifting Mindsets: Building a Legacy for the Next Generation

30:00 - Embracing Discomfort: The Secret to True Growth

40:00 - Why Losing Yourself is Necessary to Find a Better You

42:15 - Wrapping Up: Change is the Goal

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Real Sh*t is a weekly podcast hosted by married couple Jasmin & Khalil Bass. Jasmin is a Instagram influencer turned Personal Trainer & Nutrition Coach. Khalil is a former Professional Football Player turned Personal Trainer & Nutrition Coach. Together they founded FitMama Coaching.

Each week Jas & Khalil will sit down to discuss Real Sh*t that they face in marriage, parenting, running a business, fitness & nutrition, and everything in between.

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What happens when life throws you curveballs like miscarriages, viral internet fame, and the dreaded roommate phase? In this episode, we dive deep into how a prank changed everything, the pain of pregnancy loss, and the honest realities of juggling marriage and parenthood. Plus, we answer the age-old debate: what comes first—the kids or the marriage? This is the real, raw, unfiltered conversation you’ve been waiting for.

Chapters:

00:00 – Intro: Balancing Marriage, Kids, and Viral Fame

00:04 – The Viral Prank: What Really Happened

03:00 – The Emotional Fallout: Roommate Phase & Distance

18:00 – Miscarriages, Infertility, and Finding Healing

29:00 – Parenting Lessons: When Kids Mirror You

37:00 – Marriage vs. Kids: What Comes First?

47:00 – Building a Mom Support Group for Shared Struggles

59:00 – Outro: Turning Hardships Into Growth

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Real Sh*t is a weekly podcast hosted by married couple Jasmin & Khalil Bass. Jasmin is a Instagram influencer turned Personal Trainer & Nutrition Coach. Khalil is a former Professional Football Player turned Personal Trainer & Nutrition Coach. Together they founded FitMama Coaching. Each week Jas & Khalil will sit down to discuss Real Sh*t that they face in marriage, parenting, running a business, fitness & nutrition, and everything in between.

SUBSCRIBE to get the latest Real Sh*t content: / @realsht-podcast

🎙 Listen to more episodes of The Real Sh*t Podcast: / @realsht-podcast

Follow Jasmin on Instagram: / @jasmin.elago

Follow Khalil on Instagram: / @khaliljbass

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Links The FitMama Channel / @fitmamacoaching

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Welcome to The Real Sh*t Podcast—where we talk about the sh*t you don’t want to hear, but absolutely need to. In this episode, Jas and Khalil hold nothing back, diving into strip club boundaries, trust in relationships, and those moments when life punches you in the face. Khalil opens up about growing up in a household with zero teamwork, while Jas gets real about losing—and finding—herself after becoming a mom.

From going through phones to rebuilding confidence post-relationship drama, this one’s packed with stories you’ll feel in your soul. And if you’re still out here falling for crash diets or toxic expectations, Khalil lays down some hard truths about why quick fixes don’t work—and what actually does.

Whether you’re single, coupled, a parent, or just trying to figure your sh*t out, this episode will hit home. Let’s get into it.

📌 Chapters:

0:00 - Would You Be Okay With Your Partner Getting a Dance? Strip club boundaries and relationship dynamics.

1:17 - Snooping Through Phones: Privacy, trust, and why some people always find what they’re looking for.

8:51 - Stay for the Kids? Khalil’s perspective on growing up in a toxic marriage and how it shaped his view on relationships.

36:02 - Identity Crisis After Motherhood: Jas opens up about losing herself post-pregnancy and the journey back.

51:10 - From Football to Fatherhood: Khalil reflects on leaving the game, career pivots, and starting over.

1:11:28 - Why Crash Diets Will Wreck You: Khalil breaks down the science of sustainable fitness and body recomposition.

1:20:55 - Taking Back Your Power: Jas shares how women can invest in themselves and regain their confidence.

1:36:02 - Fitness Myths Debunked: Why the scale isn’t your best friend and what actually gets results.

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Real Sh*t is a weekly podcast hosted by married couple Jasmin & Khalil Bass. Jasmin is a Instagram influencer turned Personal Trainer & Nutrition Coach. Khalil is a former Professional Football Player turned Personal Trainer & Nutrition Coach.

Together they founded FitMama Coaching. Each week Jas & Khalil will sit down to discuss Real Sh*t that they face in marriage, parenting, running a business, fitness & nutrition, and everything in between.

SUBSCRIBE to The Real Sh*t YouTube Channel: @realsht-podcast

🎙 Listen to more episodes of The Real Sh*t Podcast: @realsht-podcast

Follow Jasmin on Instagram: @jasmin.elago

Follow Khalil on Instagram: @Relentless_basstard2

Follow Realsht Podcast Clips on Instagram: @realshxtpodcast

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In this emotionally charged episode of Real Sht, Jasmin opens up about her childhood experiences growing up in a Filipino household where discipline often crossed the line into trauma. With Khalil providing a grounded perspective, the couple dives deep into the effects of generational parenting practices, the scars they leave behind, and the ongoing journey of healing and unlearning.

From dealing with people-pleasing tendencies to navigating conflict in their marriage, Jasmin and Khalil discuss how these early experiences shaped their lives and their parenting style. They explore the delicate balance between discipline and gentle parenting, touching on the societal shifts that have led to “softer” generations and what that means for raising resilient kids today.

This candid conversation also sheds light on forgiveness, understanding cultural context, and how trauma responses like shutting down can impact relationships. The duo doesn’t shy away from exploring their parenting journey with their son, the challenges of teaching him self-confidence, and the importance of raising children who can stand up for themselves.

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro: Jas’ Hesitation to Post About Trauma

4:00 - The Generational Cycle of Discipline and Abuse

12:00 - Unlearning People-Pleasing and Conflict Avoidance

19:00 - The Effects of Childhood Trauma on Marriage

28:00 - Gentle Parenting vs. Traditional Discipline

36:00 - Forgiveness and Cultural Understanding

45:00 - Building Confidence and Resilience in Kids

52:00 - Jas’ Reflections on Her Parents’ Transformation

1:00:00 - Closing Thoughts: Growth, Healing, and What’s Next

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