Thankfulness is rooted in perspective. When we focus on what we have instead of what we lack, we begin to see life through a lens of abundance. Start your day with a simple practice: list three things you’re grateful for before your feet hit the floor. They don’t need to be grand—sometimes the smallest blessings, like the sound of rain or a warm cup of coffee, are the most profound.

Confidence is rooted in a sense of self-worth, and as mothers, we are our daughters’ first mirrors. Praise her efforts, not just her outcomes. When she sees that her hard work, creativity, or problem-solving are celebrated, she’ll learn that her value is not tied to perfection but to her character.

Confidence without kindness can come across as arrogance. Kindness without confidence can feel like self-sacrifice. Show her how to walk this middle path. She can say “no” firmly while remaining respectful. She can lead with strength while lifting others along the way.

As we guide our daughters, let’s remember that they watch more than they listen. By living as examples of confident kindness, we show them what’s possible.

Holiday decorating is more than just putting up lights or trimming the tree—it’s about creating an atmosphere of warmth, love, and grace. The beauty of the season lies in the traditions we carry forward, whether it’s the ornaments passed down from generation to generation or the familiar glow of candlelight in the evening.

For me, decorating always begins with a sense of purpose. What feeling do I want my home to evoke this year? Cozy, joyful, serene? When you start with a vision, it becomes easier to choose what to include and, just as importantly, what to leave out.

One of the most meaningful ways to decorate is by honoring traditions. These are the pieces that tell a story—the heirloom nativity set, the ornaments you’ve collected over the years, or even the garland that always hangs in the same place.

In a world that constantly encourages us to want more, do more, and be more, simplicity is a quiet but radical choice. It’s a decision to step away from the chaos and live with intention, prioritizing faith, family, and the values that give our lives meaning.

But simplicity isn’t just about decluttering or cutting back. It’s a way of living that helps us focus our time, energy, and resources on what matters most. Today, we’ll talk about the beauty of simplicity and how embracing it can bring peace and purpose to your life.

Amid the twinkling lights, bustling stores, and endless to-do lists, it’s easy to lose sight of why we celebrate Christmas. This season, I hope we can step back from the noise and turn our hearts toward the reason behind it all—the gift of Christ.

Let’s begin with a question: When was the last time you were truly still? Not just physically, but in your heart and mind.

The holiday season is a time of joy, generosity, and celebration, but it can also bring the pressure to give lavish gifts, host extravagant parties, and decorate like a winter wonderland. This year, let’s reclaim the heart of the season by focusing on thoughtful simplicity, rather than overextending ourselves financially.

Let’s begin by rethinking what it means to give during the holidays. True generosity isn’t about the size or cost of a gift—it’s about the thought and care behind it.

Let’s start by redefining modesty. Too often, it’s portrayed as restrictive or outdated, but that misses the heart of what modesty really is. Modesty is about honoring yourself and others through your choices—whether it’s your clothing, your words, or your actions.

When we choose modesty, we’re saying, “I respect myself, and I respect the people around me.” It’s not about shrinking or hiding; it’s about shining in a way that reflects inner beauty, strength, and purpose.

Whether it’s staying up late with a sick child, putting others’ needs ahead of your own, or quietly supporting your family through difficult times, sacrifice reflects love in action. It’s a gift that says, “I see you. I care for you. You matter to me.”

But even the most generous heart needs tending. Just as we care for our homes and families, we must also care for ourselves—not in a selfish or indulgent way, but as faithful stewards of the bodies and spirits God has entrusted to us.

When we neglect this care, we run the risk of burnout. And when we’re depleted, it becomes harder to serve with joy, patience, and grace.