Let’s talk about what it really means to lead with purpose—and still take care of yourself in the process.

In this episode of Operation Be, I sit down with the powerhouse that is Monica Adams—a woman who’s spent over 30 years making bold moves in the TV and radio world, and now, she’s flipping the script with a morning show that’s all about positivity, intention, and impact.

We get into so much more than career highlights. We talk about what it takes to hold your own in male-dominated industries without losing your softness. We go deep into why kindness and integrity aren’t weaknesses—they’re your edge. We cover how the real work of staying grounded in a world that’s always pulling you in a hundred directions.

Monica shares how she’s stayed organized, clear, and aligned—even in the messiest seasons. Her take on mental and physical health, and how they’re non-negotiable for true success, is something every high-achiever needs to hear.

If you’ve ever felt like you had to choose between being powerful or peaceful… ambitious or authentic… this conversation will meet you where you are.

This one’s for the women rewriting the rules. For the ones leading with heart, and refusing to shrink.

🎧 Tune in now. You don’t have to hustle to prove your worth—you just have to BE.

00:34 Meet Monica Adams

01:09 Monica's Broadcasting Journey

01:58 Transition to Streaming

02:49 Positivity and Integrity in Media

06:46 Challenges in Male-Dominated Industries

09:59 Maintaining Integrity and Respect

12:48 Personal Growth and Resilience

19:52 Daily Practices for Success

28:44 The Impact of Authenticity in Public Speaking

30:07 Personal Experiences and Lessons from Speaking Engagements

32:43 The Importance of Consistency and Small Steps

33:30 Forming Habits and Building Core Strength

35:19 The Mental Game of Fitness and Adaptability

38:14 The Value of Flexibility and Well-Rounded Training

43:58 Balancing Multiple Roles and Time Management

44:28 The Power of Respect and Gratitude

51:50 Closing Thoughts and Encouragement

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https://www.therealmonicaadams.com/

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Let’s get real for a minute...if you’re someone who constantly feels like you need to do more, be more, check more boxes—this one’s for you.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on something I don’t think we talk about enough: how list-making and over-planning become a crutch…a way we try to cope with deeper stuff we don’t want to face.

I dive into my own journey with hustle culture, navigating chronic illness, and the deep-rooted need for control that kept me stuck in cycles I didn’t even realize I was in. We’ll talk about why creating a symptom timeline was a game changer, and how understanding your patterns can lead to real, sustainable healing.

This isn’t about shaming your coping mechanisms—this is about getting honest. It’s about learning to sit with the hard feelings instead of avoiding them. Because growth doesn’t come from checking boxes. It comes from getting in tune with yourself.

Let’s go deep, let’s get messy, and let’s actually heal.

🎧 Listen now. Your peace is worth it.

01:40 Tony's Impact and List Making

02:53 The Hustle Culture and Health

05:03 Reflecting on Past Experiences

08:39 The Importance of Timelines

13:16 The Power of Lists

16:46 Understanding Avoidant Behavior

20:07 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Mentioned in this episode:

Episode 18: Navigating Chronic Illness and Relationships: with Tony Twist

https://youtu.be/I2lWGS3hdmg

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In this episode of Operation Be, I introduce my first guest ever on the podcast-my partner in life, Tony Twist. Join us as we dive deep into the complexities of living with chronic illness and how it has affected our relationship over the years.

Tony shares his perspective on supporting a loved one through health challenges, the evolution of our relationship, and the lessons we've learned together. Whether you or someone you know is dealing with similar struggles, this conversation offers valuable insights and practical advice for navigating these experiences together.

Finding someone that is willing to navigate this challenging journey is HARD. Finding someone that has the strength to figure it out with you is HARDER.

I am honored to share from this perspective with gratitude for Tony, and complete encouragement that there are absolutely people out there who will do the work with you. Tune in…💋

00:33 Introducing: Tony Twist

01:18 Tony's Background and Expertise

02:27 Challenges and Growth in the Relationship

03:58 Managing Chronic Illness Together

14:22 Empathy and Relationship Dynamics

17:35 Adjusting to Different Backgrounds

26:05 Jeep Adventures and Final Thoughts

27:13 The Hard Work Behind a Successful Relationship

28:10 Adapting and Communicating Effectively

28:33 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence

29:51 The Power of Team Dynamics

30:27 Healing and Nervous System Triggers

31:55 Navigating Social Obligations and Personal Needs

33:06 Understanding and Supporting Each Other

34:49 Balancing Independence and Support

36:51 Evolving Together in a Relationship

44:13 Working with Family and Building Better Relationships

46:44 Final Reflections and Advice

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