Dr. Sue Johnson discusses the inspirations and mantras that have shaped her approach to therapy and to life. She highlights the concept of attunement, drawing parallels with Argentine tango and musical performances by artists like Isaac Perlman and Yo Yo Ma. Sue shares her personal mantra, which is inspired by Mary Oliver's quote about making one's life count, and recounts her thoughts on a friend's Everest expeditions and the meaningful prayers of a Christian group. Her reflections culminate in the belief that what makes life worthwhile is deeply personal and essential to one's mission.

Dr. Sue Johnson shares memorable success stories showcasing the transformative impact of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). One highlights the Hold Me Tight Education Program, which received a prestigious research grant from Canada Heart and Stroke. The program, Healing Hearts Together, helps distressed couples improve their relationships and, in turn, enhances individuals’ ability to manage stress and fear, reducing chances of recurrent heart attacks. Additionally, EFT’s positive influence extends to the US and Canadian military programs, aiding soldiers in their recovery from trauma. Dr. Johnson underscores how secure attachment nurtures mental and physical health, making it central to personal resilience and wellbeing.

Dr. Sue Johnson discusses her favorite non-therapy related books, particularly those focusing on historical accounts of women during the Second World War, such as those written by Kate Quinn. Sue also shares her admiration for Winston Churchill and his biography, The Last Lion, by William Manchester, as well as her appreciation for the wisdom of Buddhist abbess Pema Chodron. Additionally, she reflects on the novel Lessons in Chemistry and her own experiences as a feminist navigating chauvinism. Throughout, Sue emphasizes the importance of emotion in understanding human behavior, drawing on her personal and professional background.

Dr. Sue Johnson shares her journey to developing Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). She describes how observing transformational changes in couples through taped sessions and working with emotion led her to understand the significance of adult attachment and emotions in therapy. Dr. Johnson recounts critical milestones, including her first research verification, publication in a prestigious journal, and a revealing brain scan study, all contributing to the validation and advancement of EFT. She also reflects on her ongoing discoveries and the impact of these bonding conversations on clients.

In this episode, Dr. Sue Johnson delves into the personal inspirations that have shaped her career. She emphasizes the lessons learned from her clients that helped her to develop EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy), observing their patterns and emotional interactions. Sue also discusses the significant influence of attachment theorists like Phil Shaver and Mario Mikulincer, who have advanced the understanding of adult attachment. She shares personal anecdotes, including profound memories of her father's supportive voice and her grandmother's irreverent humor, highlighting how these internalized voices from key figures in our lives can offer strength and resilience. Sue's reflections culminate in the immense honor of receiving the Order of Canada, underscoring the emotional weight and significance of this recognition in her life. Packed with humor and some deeply moving moments, this episode reminds us of Sue’s extraordinary gifts of insight, teaching, and demonstrating the profound power of human attachment to steady us during some of life’s most challenging moments.