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In this episode of Dating with Borders, Teresa and Joe dive into the complexities of the holiday season and its impact on relationships. Joe kicks off the conversation by sharing his opinion that holidays can often act as "relationship killers," and he doesn't hold back in revealing which ones top his list. The discussion then takes a festive turn as they debate whether Christmas gatherings are the right setting to introduce a significant other to the family.

This sparks a lively conversation about how to determine the "right time" for such introductions—whether it’s based on a gut feeling, a specific milestone in the relationship, or simply the stage you’ve reached as a couple. Teresa doesn’t let Joe off the hook, putting him in the hot seat to reflect on his expectations versus the reality of meeting her family for the first time.

Joe also shares an amusing theory about the significance of a New Year's kiss, which leads to a broader conversation about navigating holidays in a new relationship. From gift-giving dilemmas to practical tips for surviving the season, Teresa and Joe offer heartfelt advice for couples in similar situations.

Tune in for real, relatable insights and plenty of laughs as this duo explores the highs and challenges of celebrating the holidays while building a cross-border connection.

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In this episode of Dating with Borders, Teresa and Joe dive into the ups, downs, and surprising nuances of cross-border and long-distance relationships. As per usual, Teresa comes prepared with the episode’s agenda while Joe is blissfully unaware of what’s in store. Together, they explore and debunk some of the common stigmas surrounding long-distance and cross-border dating.

The duo kicks things off by revealing just how far apart they truly are and what each of them considers "long distance." Unsurprisingly, their perspectives couldn’t be more different. Joe then offers an intriguing take, suggesting that some of the most challenging "borders" in a relationship aren’t physical at all but emotional and personal boundaries that exist regardless of geography.

They also tackle the big question: at what point in a long-distance relationship should couples discuss one person relocating? Teresa isn’t shy about asking Joe whether his friends or family have ever created a stigma about him dating a Canadian instead of an American.

To keep things light, Joe shares his “controversial” food deal-breakers—three specific foods that are completely off-limits for him and could even be relationship red flags if his partner loves them. Laughter and a little shock ensue as Teresa reacts!

The conversation then takes a more intimate turn as they discuss whether being in a long-distance relationship speeds up milestones like the first overnight visit or moments of intimacy.

Before wrapping up, Joe and Teresa share their top tips for anyone considering or just starting a long-distance relationship. Their insights, honesty, and humor make this episode a must-listen for anyone navigating love across borders.

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In this heartfelt and revealing episode of Dating With Borders, Teresa and Joe dive right into the juicy details of their early dating days, tackling the tender question: How many people were on their respective "rosters" when they first met? They explore when and why they decided to focus exclusively on one another. Joe firmly believes it’s not about how long you’ve been dating, but that “when you know, you know.”

Together, they reflect on how their long-distance connection allowed their relationship to blossom uniquely. With phone calls as their mainstay in the beginning, they built a strong emotional foundation that might not have been possible if they had the ease of seeing each other regularly. They even reminisce about their very first phone call—the feelings it sparked and Teresa’s surprising realization that Joe was American, not Canadian.

The couple shares invaluable advice for those in the early stages of a relationship: when something is misunderstood or feels off in a conversation, don’t let it linger. Address it immediately to keep the connection strong and open. Teresa offers a thoughtful analogy from her time as a single woman working to understand the dating world and her own desires.

In a lighthearted yet tender moment, Teresa recalls her early feelings about their relationship, and Joe likens it to her nonverbal way of giving him the green light to ask for a second date.

This episode is full of warmth, wisdom, and plenty of laughs, making it a must-listen for anyone navigating a budding romance, long-distance love, or simply curious about how to build a strong foundation with a partner.

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In this episode of Dating with Borders, Teresa and Joe take a trip down memory lane to when they first started exploring the world of dating apps. They laugh about how overwhelming it can be to navigate the endless "selection" of potential matches and dive into what actually makes them swipe "yes" on someone. With humor and honesty, they talk about what they were looking for on the dating scene this time around, including a refreshing focus on fun and playfulness.

As the conversation flows, they touch on the sting of rejection and how they each handled it after those initial first dates. Joe brings a dose of curiosity (and humor) when he asks Teresa about her worst date ever, and she doesn't hold back on the details. The two also discuss their "vetting" processes for online dating, sharing some of the strategies they've developed to find genuine connections and avoid disappointments, including the pitfalls of catfishing.

Then, they tackle the hot topic of who should pay for the first date—a conversation that brings out different perspectives but plenty of laughs. Teresa takes this as an opportunity to ask Joe directly about his first impressions of her, especially whether she looked like her profile photos in real life.

The discussion turns to how they each size up a first date, paying close attention to how the other person interacts with waitstaff as a measure of kindness and character. Joe recounts a memorable story of a time he walked out on a date due to their treatment of the staff, underlining his commitment to finding someone who values respect and decency.

Finally, Joe shares his non-negotiables, revealing what he considers essential in a partner. Throughout the episode, Teresa and Joe’s candid and witty insights provide an honest look at modern dating and what truly matters to each of them as they continue to navigate love across borders.

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Welcome to the debut episode of Dating With Borders, featuring Teresa and Joe, a couple navigating the complexities of long-distance love. In this episode, the pair introduce themselves, sharing the unique story of how they met and what inspired them to start this podcast. Teresa reveals that she had almost given up on dating apps altogether when she met Joe on Hinge, just as she was about to delete the app for good. Their meeting feels like fate and fuels the optimism they hope to inspire in listeners.

Teresa explains that one of her main goals with Dating With Borders is to give women hope by offering an honest and unfiltered glimpse into the realities of a new relationship. Together, she and Joe will share the joyful highs and inevitable challenges of dating across borders, showing that love is rarely perfect but always worth pursuing. The couple plans to explore themes of chemistry and compatibility, highlighting the important distinctions between these concepts as they share their evolving story.

Adding a lighthearted touch, Teresa makes a charming reference to how she had always envisioned herself hosting a podcast as a single woman, inspired by Sex and the City vibes. But instead, she’s thrilled to be creating this show with her “Mr. Big,” a testament to the unexpected and beautiful surprises love can bring.

The conversation turns to Joe’s perspective, where he expresses appreciation for how Teresa set the tone from the beginning, clearly showing him how she wanted to be treated. Her assertiveness was something he admired and gladly followed, proving that mutual respect and understanding are key elements in their relationship. They discuss the importance of keeping chivalry alive, emphasizing that both partners should never settle for less than they deserve.

Finally, Teresa and Joe touch on the idea of taking initiative in a relationship, sharing their experiences from both the male and female perspectives. They highlight how these small but meaningful actions laid the groundwork for the strong connection they continue to build. Join them on this exciting journey of love, as they provide a roadmap for singles and newly dating couples, encouraging everyone to keep an open heart.

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Ever swiped right and wondered—what happens next?

Two singles who met on Hinge and are diving headfirst into the world of modern dating. Welcome to Dating With Borders—the podcast where romance meets reality!

From virtual phone calls, to cross-border dates, to real-life connections, you’ll hear firsthand what it’s like to build something new later in life. Will their story be a heartwarming romance or another dating disaster?

Tune in weekly to see if this relationship will blossom or fizzle out. Will it be an ‘I do’ or a dramatic ‘We’re done’? Grab your headphones and join us on this rollercoaster of love and dating.

Subscribe now and don’t miss a moment! Let’s see where this story goes.