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In this episode of Dating with Borders, Teresa and Joe dive into the complexities of the holiday season and its impact on relationships. Joe kicks off the conversation by sharing his opinion that holidays can often act as "relationship killers," and he doesn't hold back in revealing which ones top his list. The discussion then takes a festive turn as they debate whether Christmas gatherings are the right setting to introduce a significant other to the family.

This sparks a lively conversation about how to determine the "right time" for such introductions—whether it’s based on a gut feeling, a specific milestone in the relationship, or simply the stage you’ve reached as a couple. Teresa doesn’t let Joe off the hook, putting him in the hot seat to reflect on his expectations versus the reality of meeting her family for the first time.

Joe also shares an amusing theory about the significance of a New Year's kiss, which leads to a broader conversation about navigating holidays in a new relationship. From gift-giving dilemmas to practical tips for surviving the season, Teresa and Joe offer heartfelt advice for couples in similar situations.

Tune in for real, relatable insights and plenty of laughs as this duo explores the highs and challenges of celebrating the holidays while building a cross-border connection.

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In this episode of Dating with Borders, Teresa and Joe dive into the ups, downs, and surprising nuances of cross-border and long-distance relationships. As per usual, Teresa comes prepared with the episode’s agenda while Joe is blissfully unaware of what’s in store. Together, they explore and debunk some of the common stigmas surrounding long-distance and cross-border dating.

The duo kicks things off by revealing just how far apart they truly are and what each of them considers "long distance." Unsurprisingly, their perspectives couldn’t be more different. Joe then offers an intriguing take, suggesting that some of the most challenging "borders" in a relationship aren’t physical at all but emotional and personal boundaries that exist regardless of geography.

They also tackle the big question: at what point in a long-distance relationship should couples discuss one person relocating? Teresa isn’t shy about asking Joe whether his friends or family have ever created a stigma about him dating a Canadian instead of an American.

To keep things light, Joe shares his “controversial” food deal-breakers—three specific foods that are completely off-limits for him and could even be relationship red flags if his partner loves them. Laughter and a little shock ensue as Teresa reacts!

The conversation then takes a more intimate turn as they discuss whether being in a long-distance relationship speeds up milestones like the first overnight visit or moments of intimacy.

Before wrapping up, Joe and Teresa share their top tips for anyone considering or just starting a long-distance relationship. Their insights, honesty, and humor make this episode a must-listen for anyone navigating love across borders.

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In this heartfelt and revealing episode of Dating With Borders, Teresa and Joe dive right into the juicy details of their early dating days, tackling the tender question: How many people were on their respective "rosters" when they first met? They explore when and why they decided to focus exclusively on one another. Joe firmly believes it’s not about how long you’ve been dating, but that “when you know, you know.”

Together, they reflect on how their long-distance connection allowed their relationship to blossom uniquely. With phone calls as their mainstay in the beginning, they built a strong emotional foundation that might not have been possible if they had the ease of seeing each other regularly. They even reminisce about their very first phone call—the feelings it sparked and Teresa’s surprising realization that Joe was American, not Canadian.

The couple shares invaluable advice for those in the early stages of a relationship: when something is misunderstood or feels off in a conversation, don’t let it linger. Address it immediately to keep the connection strong and open. Teresa offers a thoughtful analogy from her time as a single woman working to understand the dating world and her own desires.

In a lighthearted yet tender moment, Teresa recalls her early feelings about their relationship, and Joe likens it to her nonverbal way of giving him the green light to ask for a second date.

This episode is full of warmth, wisdom, and plenty of laughs, making it a must-listen for anyone navigating a budding romance, long-distance love, or simply curious about how to build a strong foundation with a partner.