This episode dives deep into how mindset influences our self-esteem and relationships. I share my personal growth journey and statistical insights, noting that 85% of people experience low self-esteem. Discover actionable strategies to boost your confidence, improve self-worth, and enhance connections.

You'll learn why low self-esteem often leads to self-sabotage and how to combat these thoughts by focusing on your vision for relationships, avoiding comparison traps, and practicing gratitude. Let's debunk the myth that you need perfect self-love to have healthy relationships and embrace the notion that we are all worthy of love. Join me in transforming relationship doubts into clarity and confidence.

00:00 Introduction to Mindset

01:09 Understanding Low Self-Esteem

02:57 Personal Journey and Overcoming Self-Sabotage

04:13 Relationship OCD and Self-Esteem

06:24 Debunking the Self-Love Myth

13:22 Transforming Relationship Doubts

16:00 Gratitude and Positive Mindset

17:26 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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Mid-December can be challenging if you're dealing with relationship anxiety or relationship OCD. With the added pressure of holiday cheer and gift-giving, it can feel overwhelming. In this episode, we explore what's normal versus obsessional in relationship concerns, provide behind-the-scenes tips, and offer a quiz to help you determine if your concerns are reasonable.

Learn how to differentiate between typical relationship doubts and obsessional worries and find strategies to overcome them. We also discuss a study highlighting the higher stress and depression levels in those with relationship OCD and introduce a 12-week program to help build true fulfillment in your relationship. Tune in next week for a discussion on self-worth and mindset as we head into the new year.

00:00 Introduction to Types of Worry and Holiday Stress

02:06 Understanding Relationship OCD

02:45 Quiz and Self-Assessment

03:26 Research Insights on Relationship OCD

06:12 Typical vs. Obsessional Relationship Worries

07:06 Information Seekers vs. Reassurance Seekers

10:01 Examples and Scenarios

19:35 Conclusion and Next Steps

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Hey there, does your partner constantly ask for reassurance with questions like 'Do you love me?' or 'Are we meant to be together?' If so, your relationship might be haunted by relationship obsessions. Buckle up for this episode where I dive into how these obsessions impact your relationship and what you can do about it. Stick around for pro tips to help restore trust and peace. I'm also chatting about the movie 'Silver Linings Playbook' and how common interests like dancing can strengthen bonds. Spoiler: You can't talk your partner out of these obsessive thoughts, but there are ways to cope and grow. Tune in for insights, strategies, and a dose of empathy to tackle relationship OCD head-on.

00:00 Understanding Relationship Obsessions

01:52 Impact on Trust and Exhaustion

02:31 Introducing the Obsess Less Love More Program

03:21 Silver Linings Playbook: A Case Study

06:46 Common Misunderstandings in Relationship Obsessions

11:04 Strategies to Support Your Partner

16:40 Setting Healthy Boundaries

20:07 Encouragement and Patience

22:31 Summary and Next Steps

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