What if healing isn’t just about feeling better—but about finally knowing you belong?

In this powerful episode, Elliot Sands sits down with author and speaker Amy Julia Becker to explore the intersection of disability, grace, identity, and healing. Drawing from her books To Be Made Well, White Picket Fences, and A Good and Perfect Gift, Amy Julia opens up about her daughter Penny’s Down syndrome diagnosis, how it reshaped her understanding of wholeness, and what it means to truly belong in a world that often values perfection over presence.

They explore:

• The power of showing up for someone instead of trying to fix them

• The difference between brokenness and limitation

• How psychosomatic pain can reveal emotional imbalance

• What it means to practice grace as a daily rhythm, not just a doctrine

• And why acknowledging unearned privilege can become a doorway to healing and reconciliation

This episode is tender, honest, and beautifully anchored in the belief that we are all deeply loved—just as we are.

• Wholeness through community

• Parenting a child with special needs

• Privilege as invitation, not shame

• Psychosomatic healing

• Grace for ourselves and others

• Belonging beyond performance

Amy Julia Becker is an award-winning writer, speaker, and disability advocate who speaks widely on faith, family, and social healing. A graduate of Princeton University and Princeton Theological Seminary, she brings theological insight and personal vulnerability to themes like belonging, privilege, healing, and grace.

She’s the author of several books, including To Be Made Well, White Picket Fences, and A Good and Perfect Gift. Amy Julia’s work has been featured by The New York Times, TIME, Christianity Today, and NPR.

Elliot Sands is the host of the Live Faith First podcast—a dynamic space where faith meets real-world challenges. With a rich background as a pastor, school principal, health-tech co-founder, and now Executive Director of Live Faith First, Elliot brings deep wisdom and practical insight to every conversation.

As a husband, father, and grandfather, he weaves personal experience with thoughtful discussion, tackling tough topics with clarity and compassion. Live Faith First is all about bridging divides—whether in society or the church—encouraging listeners to step beyond echo chambers and build real, meaningful relationships across the aisle, the street, or the table.

This conversation is raw, hopeful, and incredibly practical for anyone who’s tired of faking it and ready for a more honest walk with Jesus.

Let’s All Live Faith First!!!

Connect with Amy Julia Becker

🌐 Website: amyjuliabecker.com

📘 Books: To Be Made Well; White Picket Fences; A Good and Perfect Gift

🎙️ Podcast: Reimagining the Good Life

📷 Instagram: @amyjuliabecker

📘 Facebook: @amyjuliabeckerwriter

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