If you’ve been through three divorces and you know full well your complicity in contributing to the sclerotic atmosphere of a doomed relationship right on through the divorce proceedings, how do you turn your life around and learn to become a more compassionate human being, devoid of all of the satanic toxicity that landed you in that dark, dark environment in the first place? This is Chip Farley’s story, as he tells it in this heart-to-heart episode of Divorce and Conquer with our host, Joe Staszak. 

Chip Farley is Joe’s spiritual guide and a man he credits as helping him turn his life around. He’s also Joe’s brother-in-law.  Chip’s humility shines through as he earnestly shares what he got wrong in his first few marriages (and divorces) — and how he has managed to redeem himself in a relatively short period of time as part of an ever-evolving process.

Faith and spirituality play a big role in Chip’s journey too, as he shares the power of becoming consistent by being accountable - And according to Chip this starts with reading the Bible every day. 

There’s a lot we can learn from Farley — and Staszak is experienced enough to be able to draw his unparalleled wisdom out of him, with both of them displaying great humility about their process stories of understanding the human condition as it relates to positive and productive interaction with other members of the same species.

“The only thing we can control is our reaction to what happens.” ~ Chip Farley

In This Episode:

- How to demonstrate power in a relationship with a woman

- What it means to be a jerk in a divorce

- Learning how to change yourself

- Having someone else’s back — the foxhole mentality

- Chip’s pull towards God 

- How to look at your divorce from a new perspective

- If your blood pressure is elevated, don’t respond

- The only thing we get to do is react to what happens

- What is ‘permissible free will’? 

- Learning to become consistent by being accountable

- The only baggage you can unpack is your own

And so much more!

Connect with Chip Farley:

Email: chipfarley@gmail.com

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