Special thanks to Mackenna for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show

Our conversation with MacKenna explores the journey of personal evolution through toxic traits, dating experiences, and finding authentic connection in Los Angeles.

• Every sign has their own toxic trait, and evolution means learning how to react differently rather than eliminating these traits completely
• McKenna identifies her attachment to past trauma and tendency to project as her most challenging patterns
• The psychology behind "fuckboy" behavior often stems from seeking validation after being hurt in the past
• LA club culture creates a survival-of-the-fittest dating environment that feels like returning to primal instincts
• Many women transition from dating hypermasculine men to "soft boys" seeking safety, but often miss the attraction
• Traditional relationship dynamics can provide structure and comfort when balanced with modern equality
• Finding someone who balances masculinity with emotional intelligence is rare but deeply fulfilling
• The challenge of dating someone who tries to "save you" when both parties aren't emotionally ready
• The question of whether some relationships fail because they're the wrong person or simply the wrong timing

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Tyler joins us to share her experiences navigating the dating scene after ending a six-year relationship at age 23. Her fresh perspective as someone who's never dated as an adult brings unique insights into the complicated world of modern relationships and self-discovery.

• Dating as an adult for the first time is confusing when you've only known one serious relationship
• LA dating scene presents challenges with narcissists, fuckboys, and people who are hard to read
• Finding balance between masculine and feminine energy can be difficult in relationships
• Social media dating advice often complicates relationships rather than helping
• Ambition matters more than current financial success when looking for potential partners
• It's important to maintain female standards in dating while understanding your own needs
• Tyler finds herself in a "villain era" after her breakup, learning more about herself
• The benefits of keeping things casual but still treating people with respect
• Defining what you want in a relationship is challenging but necessary for growth
• Marriage seems like a possibility, but children aren't currently in Tyler's plans

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Special thanks to Isabella for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show

We explore the contradictions in modern dating culture and share stories from the high-stakes world of bottle service, while discussing Isabella's journey from club life to real estate in Los Angeles.

• Red flags in dating often include people who immediately start talking about their exes
• The "three loves theory" suggests we experience puppy love, toxic love, and finally find our soulmate
• Bottle service culture involves absurd displays of wealth, with clients spending hundreds of thousands in a night
• LA dating scene features name-dropping, fake wealth displays, and surface-level connections
• Moving from small towns to LA creates both challenges and opportunities for personal growth
• The evolution from appearance-based jobs to skill-based careers represents important personal development
• Car culture and status symbols play different roles for men and women in dating dynamics
• Finding authenticity in cities known for superficiality requires discernment and self-awareness

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Special thanks to Julia for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show

Over centuries, societal pressures have dictated how we should behave, what we should value, and who we should become. We explore the liberating power of staying true to yourself regardless of external expectations.

• The toxic stereotypes that affect all humans regardless of background
• How actions speak louder than words when it comes to dating preferences
• The power of belief and manifestation in creating your reality
• The challenges of distinguishing between what you truly want and what others expect
• How synchronicity and spiritual experiences can provide guidance in unexpected ways
• The cultural differences between Brazil and Los Angeles
• Why mental health issues seem more prevalent in wealthy countries
• The challenge of maintaining authenticity in image-obsessed environments like Hollywood
• How arbitrary racial and cultural classifications can be across different societies
• Finding balance between traditional values and modern freedoms

When you believe in yourself and trust your actions are true to who you are, you'll attract people who value you for your authentic self, not despite it.

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Special thanks to Vikki for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show

We delve into the misconceptions about modern relationships and marriage, challenging traditional views of what makes partnerships healthy.

• Marriage isn't necessarily the natural next step - it's more important to build a healthy relationship first
• People who date successful partners often face unfair judgment and "gold digger" stereotypes
• Feeling an intense "gut pull" attraction might actually be a red flag rather than a sign of true compatibility
• A healthy relationship should make you feel calm and safe rather than constantly excited
• Money and status significantly impact dating dynamics, especially in major cities
• Networking in creative industries often comes with gender-specific challenges for women
• Many people develop unhealthy relationship expectations from reality TV and social media
• Finding authentic connection requires moving beyond superficial metrics of success and appearance
• Vulnerability and honest communication are essential for building lasting relationships

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Special thanks to Kendra for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show

Kendra Shoemaker shares how surviving a near-death experience at age seven fundamentally shaped her fearless approach to life and adventure. From leaving home at 16 to pursue ballet to building her own van to live in, her remarkable journey demonstrates how embracing challenges leads to personal growth.

• Surviving lacrosse encephalitis (brain swelling from a mosquito bite) at age 7 gave Kendra a unique perspective on life and death
• Left her small Minnesota hometown at 16 to attend pre-professional ballet academy in Pennsylvania
• Attended an "outdoor college" with 30-day backpacking and river rafting trips as classes
• Built and lived in her own van conversion during the pandemic, complete with power tools and custom furniture
• Prefers driven, ambitious partners over purely physical attributes in relationships
• Believes in manifestation from a philosophical standpoint - setting goals makes you more likely to make choices leading to those outcomes
• Values surrounding herself with like-minded friends who share her passion for outdoor activities

Life is too short not to embrace adventure – get out of your comfort zone and see what you're capable of achieving.

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Special thanks to Stephani for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show

We dive deep into modern dating standards and relationship expectations with content creator Stephani Nicole. Our conversation explores the challenges of finding partners who balance maturity with excitement, and the shifting priorities as we age.

• The struggle to find partners who are both mature and fun
• How pheromonal attraction plays a crucial role in relationship sustainability
• Shifting gender roles and expectations around financial responsibilities in relationships
• Dating preferences across different age groups and how they evolve over time
• The importance of emotional and social intelligence in potential partners
• Why connection alone isn't enough to sustain long-term relationships
• Setting clear standards in dating while recognizing your own value
• The balance between independence and interdependence in healthy relationships
• Cultural differences in dating between Midwest and coastal cities

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Special thanks to Daniella for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show

Daniella, a Spanish transplant living in LA, candidly shares her journey through toxic relationships, cultural adjustments, and surprising life choices that led her from Spain to Alabama and finally to Los Angeles.

• Describing herself as a "toxic Gemini" who becomes controlling when truly in love
• Preference for dating sweet, romantic men despite sometimes finding them boring
• Experience dating across cultural backgrounds and age gaps
• Insights into LA's "sugar daddy culture" versus genuine relationships
• Taking the blame for a boyfriend's DUI crash, only to later discover his infidelityx
• Growing up without a father and with limited family support
• Bold decision to move to LA with no connections, job, or housing
• Observations about the superficial nature of LA social life versus authentic relationships
• The contrast between European and American living, from tiny washing machines to massive mansions
• Having visited 46 out of 50 US states through an adventurous spirit

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