In this episode of we take a moment to own our sh*t.

In the past, we might’ve made it sound like there’s only one right way to start a non-monogamous relationship. But thanks to some wise friends of the show—and a little bit of grown-folks (Foxy) "magic"—we realized we goofed. Non-monogamy isn’t a one-size-fits-all situation, and there are many ways to build strong, thriving, sexy connections right from the start.

So, we gathered around the mic with our extended poly pod squad for a heartfelt (and hilarious) roundtable. We revisit the conversation, acknowledge the error, and explore the beautifully diverse ways people enter non-monogamy with intention, flexibility, and love.

Tune in for some laughs, lessons, and the reminder that getting it wrong can sometimes lead to getting it really right

It’s time to clear the air, and maybe burst a few egos along the way!

In this episode Pinky & Ava get real about one of the most frustrating misconceptions in the non-monogamous world — that being open means being easy......Spoiler alert: We Don't "F@(k" Everybody!!!

The ladies share some cringe-worthy, hilarious, and downright annoying stories of people who thought “non-monogamous” was code for “no standards.” From awkward assumptions to bold propositions, they set the record straight on what it really means to be selective — even when you live life outside the lines.

If you’ve ever been misunderstood in your open relationships — or just want to hear some entertaining tea — cozy up and press play. Pajamas optional… standards required.

What happens when your non-monogamy is no longer a secret?

In this episode, we go deeper with Mr. and Mrs. Jones of the We Gotta Thing Podcast to unpack the emotional journey of being outed to their church (and family)—and how they handled it with grace, honesty, and strength.

We share our own fears around exposure and talk about how to prepare for conversations you might never want to have.

Whether you’re out loud or staying low-key, this episode is filled with tools, perspective, and solidarity.

LINKS:

Three Shades Of Grey | Website

We Gotta Thing | Mr. & Mrs. Jones

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