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  • Is Recovery Without AA Possible? | Jenny's Naked Life | E792

    Is Recovery Without AA Possible? | Jenny's Naked Life | E792
    2025/04/12
    Is traditional AA the only way to find lasting change? Jenny experienced bullying, sexual abuse, and emotional neglect that left her seeking comfort in alcohol from an early age. Despite trying traditional treatment methods for decades and being told repeatedly that learning how to recover without 12-step programs was impossible, Jenny continued to struggle until discovering This Naked Mind and The Path. After 15 failed treatment attempts and countless hours of therapy, she finally found peace through its science-based approach that addressed the root causes of her drinking. In this moving conversation, Jenny opens up about loss, grief, and ultimately finding joy in sobriety. Trigger Warning: This episode contains sensitive content related to sexual abuse and suicide. Listener discretion is advised. In this episode, Annie and Jenny will discuss: Surviving childhood trauma, bullying, and sexual abuse How emotional neglect can lead to seeking comfort in alcohol The devastating cycle of relapse despite multiple treatment attempts Why traditional AA meetings caused additional trauma How to recover without 12-step programs using science-based approaches Rebuilding life after experiencing devastating loss The power of connection in The Path program Finding self-forgiveness for decades of drinking Why cognitive dissonance makes early sobriety challenging Making a “burn the boats” decision for lasting change Creating boundaries with difficult family members How joy and peace replace anxiety after quitting alcohol And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 550: Reader’s Question – Is there hope for long-time drinkers who keep relapsing? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-550-reader-question-is-there-hope-for-long-time-drinkers-who-keep-relapsing/ EP 324: Reader Question – Is AA Wrong? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-324-reader-question-does-annie-grace-think-aa-is-wrong/ EP 485: Happy Days with Gabby Bernstein – https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-485-happy-days-with-gabby-bernstein/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!
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    41 分
  • Is Organic Wine Better For You?: Alcohol Freedom Coaching | E791

    Is Organic Wine Better For You?: Alcohol Freedom Coaching | E791
    2025/04/11
    Is organic wine better for you, or is this just another marketing tactic keeping you tied to alcohol? Lois finds herself caught between wanting to make healthier choices and falling for the "better for you" wine aisle marketing. In this coaching session with Coach Cole, she explores the cognitive dissonance between knowing alcohol is harmful regardless of its organic status, while still being drawn to the perceived benefits of "healthier" wine options. Through mindful observation and intentional choice-making, Lois discovers how to navigate her evening rituals, experiment with non-alcoholic alternatives, and approach her relationship with alcohol from a place of curiosity rather than judgment. In this episode, Coach Cole and Lois discuss: Navigating the path toward a different relationship with alcohol Exploring the question is organic wine better for you or just clever marketing The cognitive dissonance between knowing alcohol’s effects and believing in “healthier” options Using non-alcoholic wines to maintain rituals while changing behavior How our beliefs about alcohol’s benefits (creativity, ease, fun) may not match reality The costs of drinking: memory gaps, health impacts, and lost vitality Approaching drinking like a science experiment with intentional awareness Creating a menu of evening ritual choices beyond wine The importance of self-compassion and non-judgment during behavior change Aligning choices with core values of health and vitality Cole Harvey is a certified Naked Mind Senior Coach. For years, he felt lost and used alcohol as a way to cope, until he decided to go alcohol-free and focus on finding his purpose. Through curiosity, self-compassion, and adventure, he transformed his life. As a habit change and mindset coach, Cole helps young men understand themselves, build better habits, and find meaning. Learn more about Coach Cole: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/cole-harvey/ Related Episodes: EP 709: Dealing with the Effects of Red Wine on Health- Maryanne’s Naked Life - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-709-naked-life-story-maryanne-p/ EP 584: Reader Question – Is red wine good for your heart? - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-584-reader-question-is-red-wine-good-for-your-heart/ EP 612: Reader Question – How To Avoid Drinking Alcohol in Social Situations - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-612-reader-question-how-to-avoid-drinking-alcohol-in-social-situations/ EP 274: Reader Question – My biggest obstacle is that I love the taste of wine, I understand I acquired the taste but I still love it!? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-274-reader-question-my-biggest-obstacle-is-that-i-love-the-taste-of-wine-i-understand-i-acquired-the-taste-but-i-still-love-it/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!
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    48 分
  • How to Stop Daily Drinking: Finding Happiness and Healing After 35 Years | Pierre’s Naked Life | E790

    How to Stop Daily Drinking: Finding Happiness and Healing After 35 Years | Pierre’s Naked Life | E790
    2025/04/05
    Can you really learn how to stop daily drinking after decades of alcohol use? Pierre's 35-year "drinking career" began at age 9 when adults first gave him alcohol in the Alps, a region where drinking is deeply woven into the cultural fabric. Despite recognizing his daily three-beer habit as problematic in his twenties, it took decades and multiple attempts before he successfully broke free. After discovering Annie Grace's approach, Pierre developed a long-term strategy to stop daily drinking and now celebrates a year of sobriety. In this episode, Pierre shares his journey from European drinking culture to peaceful sobriety, explaining how alcohol-induced depression lifted, why social pressure made quitting difficult, and how he finally created a life so beautiful he refuses to let alcohol steal even a day of it. In this episode, Annie and Pierre will discuss: First exposure to alcohol at age 9 in Europe's drinking culture The progression from social drinking to daily alcohol consumption Working in industries where drinking is normalized and accessible Multiple failed attempts at moderation and sobriety How to stop daily drinking with This Naked Mind How alcohol-induced depression and anxiety disappeared Developing a toolbox of coping strategies for life without alcohol The challenge of socializing sober in drinking-centric environments The power of curiosity in creating sustainable change Creating a life that doesn't require escaping through alcohol Finding self-love and self-understanding without alcohol The realization that "there is no love in that bottle" And other topics... Related Episodes: EP 244: Reader’s Question – Do other countries have as much of a problem with alcohol as we do in the U.S.? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-244-do-other-countries-have-as-much-of-a-problem-with-alcohol/ EP 578: Reader’s Question – Why is it hard to imagine being happy after going alcohol-free? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-578-readers-question-why-is-it-hard-to-imagine-being-happy-going-alcohol-free/ EP 737: Cole’s Naked Life - Healing Through Self-Love https://thisnakedmind.com/healing-through-self-love-coles-naked-life-e737/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!
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    39 分
  • Redefining Success After Quitting Drinking: Alcohol Freedom Coaching | E789

    Redefining Success After Quitting Drinking: Alcohol Freedom Coaching | E789
    2025/04/04
    Is true connection possible without alcohol, and how can you redefine success after quitting drinking? Julie grapples with the instant relief alcohol provides versus the long-term regrets, caught between the desire for relaxation and the pressure to be productive. Coach Cole helps her uncover the underlying emotions driving her drinking and find genuine ways to transition from stress. Cherie, on the other hand, questions the false connection alcohol fosters with friends and society. Coach Pam helps her reframe her understanding of social norms and connection, ultimately redefining success after quitting drinking. In Julie’s Session: Using alcohol to shut down constant thinking and overthinking Struggling with the transition from work to relaxation Exploring the instant relief versus long-term regrets of alcohol Challenging ingrained values of productivity and societal expectations Redefining success after quitting drinking by finding joy and peace Experimenting with new tools for relaxation, like writing and meditation Understanding the interplay of productivity and relaxation Learning to set boundaries for personal time Finding intrinsic markers of success and more… In Cherie’s Session: Confronting societal pressures and the illusion of connection through alcohol Questioning the concept of “normal” drinking behavior Reframing the idea of connection with friends and society Recognizing the false connection alcohol provides Redefining success after quitting drinking by choosing authentic experiences Overcoming the fear of “forever” and focusing on daily commitment Learning to choose better tools for social interactions Focusing on personal well being and other topics… Cole Harvey is a certified Naked Mind Senior Coach. For years, he felt lost and used alcohol as a way to cope, until he decided to go alcohol-free and focus on finding his purpose. Through curiosity, self-compassion, and adventure, he transformed his life. As a habit change and mindset coach, Cole helps young men understand themselves, build better habits, and find meaning. Learn more about Coach Cole: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/cole-harvey/ Pam McRae is a Certified TNM Coach, Master Life Coach, and Gray Area Drinking Coach. Since rethinking her relationship with alcohol in 2017, she considers herself a non-drinker. Pam empowers others through her Freedom Connection group coaching, where people support each other in their alcohol journeys. She also uses her experience and knowledge to guide you through tough times such as grief. Learn more about Coach Pam: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/pam-mcrae/ Related Episodes: EP 730: Alcohol Freedom Coaching – Progress Over Perfection, Learn to Embrace Self-Compassion - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-730-coaches-podcast-coach-ellie-with-lauri-m-tina-m/ EP 162: Reader Question – Why does alcohol get a free pass in society when it is so dangerous? - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-162-why-does-alcohol-get-a-free-pass-in-society/ EP 612: Reader Question – How To Avoid Drinking Alcohol in Social Situations - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-612-reader-question-how-to-avoid-drinking-alcohol-in-social-situations/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!
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    1 時間 13 分
  • Are Your Choices Really Yours? Kori’s Naked Life | E788

    Are Your Choices Really Yours? Kori’s Naked Life | E788
    2025/03/29
    What if everything around you has been designed to influence your choices? Kori grew up believing emotions were a weakness. As an adult, she used alcohol, food, and other substances to escape her feelings. When she focused on her health, she tried to change her drinking habits but kept falling back into old patterns, no matter how hard she tried. After joining The PATH, she uncovered the hidden thoughts shaping her choices and learned how to rewire them for lasting change. In this episode, Kori joins Annie to explore how advertising, social norms, and easy access to alcohol shape drinking and eating habits and how letting go of control helped her create real change and deeper connections. In this episode, Annie and Kori will discuss: - Growing up in poverty and learning to hide emotions - Using food, alcohol, and substances to cope - Experiencing drinking culture in the military - Feeling emotionally disconnected in relationships - Struggling to change habits while focusing on health - How the brain’s reward system shapes behavior - Why alcohol is more available now than ever - How social norms shape drinking and eating habits - Understanding liminal thoughts and unconscious decisions - Choosing self-compassion over self-judgment - Finding strength in emotional connection - Discovering the power of emotional connection - Taking small, brave steps toward lasting change - And other topics… Connect with Kori: Kori’s Website: https://korimcclurg.com/ Related Episodes: EP 162: Reader Question – Why Does Alcohol Get a Free Pass in Society When It is so Dangerous? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-162-why-does-alcohol-get-a-free-pass-in-society/ EP 649: Naked Life Story – The Food Code Interview https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-649-naked-life-story-the-food-code-interview/ EP 668: Reader’s Question – Why Willpower Fails: Cracking the Code to Emotion-Driven Behavior Change https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-668-readers-question-why-willpower-fails-cracking-the-code-to-emotion-driven-behavior-change/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!
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    1 時間
  • No Pressure, Just Progress: Alcohol Freedom Coaching | E787

    No Pressure, Just Progress: Alcohol Freedom Coaching | E787
    2025/03/28
    What if being present matters more than proving yourself? Joel considered himself highly functional despite his drinking, but deep down, he struggled with shame and being fully present. After years of using alcohol to manage stress and pain, he chose to take back control. His loved ones celebrate his progress, but their encouragement sometimes feels like pressure. Meanwhile, Kari is a lifelong overachiever. Since joining The PATH, she has set big goals but worries she won’t reach them. In this episode, Coach Zoe helps Joel and Kari reconnect with their self-worth. Joel learns to set boundaries with loved ones, focus on his journey, and embrace where he is. Kari learns to simplify her goals, trust the process, and release the pressure to do it perfectly. In Joel’s session: - Struggling to stay present while making changes - Reflecting on past shame and self-judgment - Using alcohol to manage chronic pain and stress - Facing deep feelings of unworthiness - Navigating pressure from loved ones - Setting boundaries and prioritizing his well-being - Embracing self-compassion and personal growth - Learning to express emotions openly In Kari’s session: - Struggling to stay consistent in her alcohol journey - Balancing big goals with daily progress - Feeling pressure to improve quickly - Realizing how high expectations create stress - Learning to hide struggles as a child - Wanting to set a strong example for her kids - Letting go of perfectionism and trusting her pace - Separating self-worth from actions - Forgiving herself and staying present - Choosing peace as a guiding value Zoe Ewart is a certified Senior Naked Mind Coach with four children and more animals than you can count. For 15 years, she has taught Pilates, speaks French and Spanish, and has been living alcohol-free since March 2020. Zoe’s coaching helps people take control of their relationship with alcohol in a fun, enjoyable, and safe environment. Learn more about Coach Zoe: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/zoe-ewart/ Related Episodes: EP 638: Reader’s Question – Why Is It Difficult to Put Myself First When It Comes to Alcohol? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-638-readers-question-why-is-it-difficult-to-put-myself-first-when-it-comes-to-alcohol/ EP 654: Reader’s Question – Overcoming Subconscious Beliefs Around Self-Worth https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-654-readers-question-overcoming-subconscious-beliefs-around-self-worth/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!
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    1 時間 13 分
  • Finding Peace Within: Cindy’s Naked Life | E786

    Finding Peace Within: Cindy’s Naked Life | E786
    2025/03/22
    What if everything you’ve been searching for has been within you all along? Cindy had a traumatic childhood, with a violent father who was in and out of her life and a mother who coped by drinking. As a child, she cared for her younger brother, took on adult responsibilities, and learned to suppress her emotions. As she got older, alcohol became her escape from stress and emotional pain. She searched for peace in achievements, relationships, and self-improvement, but nothing brought lasting joy. After losing her brother, she knew something had to change. In this episode, Cindy joins Annie to share her powerful journey of self-discovery and how she rebuilt trust in herself, set boundaries, and embraced emotions instead of avoiding them. In this episode, Annie and Cindy will discuss: - Growing up in a chaotic, violent home - Taking on adult responsibilities as a child - Coping with childhood trauma and an absent father - Struggling with trust and emotional disconnection - Seeking belonging through partying and drugs - Dealing with a complex relationship with her mom - Navigating loss, custody battles, and divorce - Searching for peace in self-help and retreats - Facing anxiety, exhaustion, and deep unhappiness - Finding support and clarity through The PATH - Discovering inner peace, self-love, and joy - Setting healthy boundaries with loved ones - Embracing emotions instead of numbing them - And other topics… Resources Mentioned: The Path Website: www.nakedmindpath.com Related Episodes: EP 158: Reader Question – How Do You Deal with Stress Without Alcohol? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-158-how-do-you-deal-with-stress-without-alcohol/ EP 689: Interview with Dr. Melissa Kalt https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-689-interview-with-dr-melissa-kalt/ EP 744: Is Alcohol Blocking Your Peace?: Alcohol Freedom Coaching https://thisnakedmind.com/is-alcohol-blocking-your-peace-alcohol-freedom-coaching-e744/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!
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    57 分
  • The Cost of Fitting In: Alcohol Freedom Coaching | E785

    The Cost of Fitting In: Alcohol Freedom Coaching | E785
    2025/03/21
    What if fitting in isn’t the key to real connection? David has always used alcohol to handle stress and social anxiety but hides it from friends who see him as a “non-drinker.” As an introvert, he worries that not drinking at social events will make him seem like a “party pooper.” Stephanie is known for being fun and agreeable but often changes how she acts to meet others’ expectations. Growing up, she lacked a safe space to be herself, and as an adult, she is afraid of truly opening up. In this episode, David and Stephanie learn to build confidence and embrace their true selves. Coach Cole helps David set boundaries to navigate social events, while Coach Hayley guides Stephanie in healing her inner child, embracing vulnerability, and rebuilding self-worth. In David’s session: - Using alcohol to ease stress and boost confidence - Realizing alcohol numbs both stress and joy - Hiding his drinking habit from friends - Managing social anxiety without alcohol - Fearing being seen as a "party pooper" - Building confidence as an introvert - Setting boundaries in social settings - Choosing curiosity over self-judgment - Embracing real, authentic connections In Stephanie’s session: - Struggling with feelings of not being enough - How childhood experiences shaped her beliefs - Adapting to others’ expectations to feel accepted - Feeling uncomfortable with being her true self - Using alcohol to fit in and appear fun at work - Balancing authenticity with social expectations - Confronting her fear of vulnerability - Healing her inner child through self-love - Building self-worth beyond external approval - Learning to be kind to her future self Cole Harvey is a certified Naked Mind Senior Coach. For years, he felt lost and used alcohol as a way to cope, until he decided to go alcohol-free and focus on finding his purpose. Through curiosity, self-compassion, and adventure, he transformed his life. As a habit change and mindset coach, Cole helps young men understand themselves, build better habits, and find meaning. Learn more about Coach Cole: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/cole-harvey/ Hayley Scherders is a certified Naked Mind Coach with training from the Canadian Addiction and Mental Health Association. Drawing from personal experiences, Hayley understands how tough change can be and provides a safe, compassionate, and judgment-free space where her clients can feel supported. She believes that with the right mindset, anyone can change their life at any time. Learn more about Coach Hayley: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/hayley-scherders/ Related Episodes: EP 342: Reader Question – Is Life Boring Without Wlcohol? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-342-reader-question-is-life-boring-without-alcohol/ EP 591: Naked Life Story – Thomas M. https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-591-naked-life-story-thomas-m/ EP 735: Find the Courage to Choose Yourself: Patrick’s Naked Life https://thisnakedmind.com/find-the-courage-to-choose-yourself-patricks-naked-life-e735/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!
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    1 時間 14 分