In this episode of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes welcomes Devin Schubert, whose signature orange attire symbolizes his refreshing authenticity in a world of convention. Devin shares the devastating moment he discovered his ex-wife's infidelity and how that crisis became just the beginning of an even more challenging journey. The conversation takes a dramatic turn as he recounts caring for his adopted son who faced severe behavioral challenges, leading Devin to the brink of death with a CPTSD (Complex post-traumatic stress disorder) diagnosis and just months to live. During this dark period, Devin describes a supernatural encounter that reframed his purpose and transformed his trauma into heightened spiritual awareness. Now a successful entrepreneur who reached six figures and conquered 100 speaking stages in a single year, Devin explains his mission through 'Stories to Stages' - helping people craft and share their stories across media. This episode showcases how extreme adversity can forge an unshakable identity and purpose that extends far beyond personal success.

In this episode of The Unsidelined Life, host Eileen Noyes welcomes Dr. Dequies Lanier, who opens up about her personal healing journey and the unexpected ways God revealed her true calling. Dequies shares how her attempt to control her environment actually masked deeper emotional wounds that needed addressing, particularly in the areas of love and relationships. She explains how a series of life challenges—including a diagnosis of OCD, surgery for fibroids, and emotional struggles—became the catalyst for authentic healing and self-discovery. The conversation explores the difference between isolation and true healing, with Dequies revealing how she moved from merely avoiding pain to actually working through it in community with others. Listeners will gain practical insights on recognizing when fear drives behavior, distinguishing God's voice from destructive thoughts, and the importance of emotional stability even during difficult seasons. This episode beautifully showcases how our deepest wounds often become the foundation of our purpose, as Dequies describes transforming her women's empowerment platform "WE Suite" into a space for authentic vulnerability and connection.

In this solo episode of The Unsidelined Life, host Eileen Noyes takes listeners behind the scenes of NFL life, sharing her top 10 things she never saw coming as an NFL wife. From losing her sense of identity to navigating instant public scrutiny, Eileen offers an unfiltered look at the challenges that come with the territory. She discusses the competition that emerges from unexpected places, including fans, other women, and even family dynamics. Eileen addresses the extreme highs and lows of NFL life, from draft day celebrations to financial pressures and exploitation from those with ulterior motives. This episode provides essential insights for current WAGs (Wives and Girlfriends), those entering the pro sports world, and those transitioning to life after football. As Eileen introduces her new "WAG for Life" community for Women After God, she promises in her follow-up episode will cover strategies for successfully navigating these challenges.

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In this intimate solo episode of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes opens up about her journey toward emotional healing a decade after her divorce. She explores how childhood experiences and relational patterns created subconscious beliefs that impacted her current marriage, particularly the damaging idea that "all relationships eventually end." Eileen shares her recent breakthrough at a women's retreat where she confronted unexpressed anger and grief she had suppressed during her "soldier mode" phase of divorce recovery. Through practical exercises involving timelines and identifying negative thought patterns, she offers listeners tools to recognize their own emotional landmines and life commandments. This episode serves as both a personal testimony and a practical guide for anyone struggling with trust issues or emotional blockages. Eileen specifically addresses fellow NFL wives, encouraging them to pursue healing before sharing their stories publicly, while emphasizing that freedom comes when we refuse to let past wounds dictate our present relationships.

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In this episode of The Unsidelined Life, host Eileen Noyes sits down with Julie Sanford, creator of the Secret Struggles Summit and founder of Married to Addiction. Julie shares her journey as the wife of a recovering alcoholic and how God transformed her family's darkest moments into a mission to help other Christian women facing similar challenges. She discusses the unexpected lessons learned through her husband's eight-year sobriety journey, including the importance of focusing on personal healing instead of trying to "fix" others. The conversation explores how Julie's experience with addiction led to creating a platform supporting Christian wives of alcoholics and eventually expanding to address other "secret struggles" in marriage. Julie offers practical wisdom on setting boundaries, managing expectations during recovery, and finding an identity beyond crisis. This episode introduces the Secret Struggles Summit, bringing together 15 speakers to address topics from infidelity and addiction to faith-based guidance for troubled marriages.

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In this episode of The Unsidelined Life, host Eileen Noyes welcomes Timera LaChae', a 6'3" former basketball player turned entrepreneur with an extraordinary story of faith. Timera recounts hearing God's voice at eight years old and remaining a virgin until marriage at 28, only to face multiple betrayals in what she describes as her "Hosea assignment." She shares the moment she discovered her husband's affair with her mentee while pregnant, yet chose forgiveness over bitterness. Now, as a founder of Increase Marketing and Consulting, Timera uses her experiences to help others heal from trauma and unforgiveness. Her testimony highlights the impact of our spoken words, the critical importance of investing in children ages 1-7, and staying faithful to divine direction despite seemingly impossible circumstances. This conversation offers listeners practical wisdom about transforming pain into purpose.

In this moving episode, host Eileen welcomes former NFL wife Monique Davis Dotson for an intimate conversation about faith, healing, and transformation after divorce. With raw honesty and profound wisdom, Monique shares how a divine revelation transformed her relationship with her ex-husband from one of pain to genuine family connection, even leading to shared holidays and podcast collaborations. As two women of faith, they dive deep into the unique challenges faced by NFL wives, from maintaining identity in the spotlight to navigating life's transitions with grace. The conversation takes an inspiring turn as Monique reveals how she rebuilt her life as an entrepreneur, author, and spiritual mentor, proving that our greatest challenges can become our most powerful testimonies. Through their shared experiences, both women illuminate the path forward for others facing similar struggles, offering hope and practical wisdom for turning pain into purpose. This episode is more than just a conversation – it's a masterclass in forgiveness, resilience, and the transformative power of faith-centered healing.

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Julie Wells, wife of former Green Bay Packers center Scott Wells, opens up about her remarkable journey from being a young NFL wife with a six-month-old to navigating life with six children, including three adopted from Uganda. In a conversation with host Eileen Noyes, Julie shares how the strong support system of NFL wives in Green Bay helped her through personal losses and major life transitions, while contrasting it with the more isolated experience she faced during their final years with the St. Louis Rams. The episode takes an inspiring turn as Julie discusses their family's decision to adopt across racial lines, offering candid insights into the challenges and joys of raising biological and adopted children as teenagers in today's world. Through her reflection on marriage, faith, and personal growth, Julie reveals how she maintained her identity through eleven NFL seasons and found her own path in real estate after football. This conversation breaks down stereotypes about NFL wives while celebrating the beauty of choosing an unconventional path and embracing life's unexpected seasons.