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Hey friends, this one’s for all the hardworking parents out there trying to figure out how to juggle a busy career and the emotional rollercoaster of divorce and custody.

Let’s be real: divorce is tough enough, but when you’re the breadwinner, it can feel like you’re being pulled in a million directions.

You’ve poured a lot into your career—long hours, late nights, sacrificed weekends—and now you’re asking, “Is all of that going to work against me when it comes to custody of my kids?”

This week, we’re tackling the real struggles of balancing work and family during a divorce. I’m breaking it down in plain English, including what the courts actually look for in custody cases and how to set yourself up for success—while staying connected to your kids.

Here’s what we’re talking about:

• How to build trust with your kids, your co-parent, and the court.
• Joint custody, sole custody and physical custody - what do these terms really mean and how do they affect you?
• “Status quo” in custody cases (and why it’s a big deal).
• Parenting plans that actually work for you and your kids.
• Why staying close to your kids’ primary residence could make or break your case for more parenting time.
• How tech tools can help you stay connected, even when work takes you away.
• The lowdown on mediation vs. court battles, and how mediation can save you time, money, and stress (while keeping the focus on your family’s best interests).

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the tug-of-war between work, divorce court, and quality time with your kids, this episode is your realistic guide to getting through it.

Hosted by Kelly A. Bennett, Esq., a family law attorney and mediator with over 30 years of experience in the family law trenches.


RESOURCES:

Struggling to bring up mediation with your ex? I have a free resource that gives you easy scripts, smart tips, and a quick video to help you start the conversation.

Get it here

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An ending is a new beginning,

Hey friends, this is it—the grand finale for On Fire Empire! Next stop? Our big, bold rebrand to The Splitting Smart Podcast! But before we fully dive into this exciting new era, we need to tackle something major: how to keep your career or business thriving during a divorce.

Let’s face it—divorce is messy. But here’s the deal: it doesn’t have to take down everything you’ve built. Whether you’re a small business owner or crushing it in your dream career, you can safeguard the work you’ve poured your heart into.

In this episode, I’m sharing my go-to strategies to help you stay focused, protect your livelihood, and dodge the classic pitfalls that can throw you off track. We’ll cover why your business or work matters more than ever, how to schedule your energy (instead of letting divorce drain it), the power of having a flexible game plan, and how to build a rock-solid support system that actually lifts you up.

You’ll get real-world advice, a few ‘aha!’ moments, and plenty of tools to help you split smart without letting the chaos of divorce derail your life. You’ve worked too hard to let that happen. Let’s do this!"

What’s Next?

The Splitting Smart Podcast, launches January 6th. Get ready for all-new episodes full of tips, tools, and strategies to navigate family law conflicts with clarity and confidence.

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You talked, we listened.

Friends, I’m thrilled to have you back for an episode that marks a big shift in our journey together. Today, I’m giving you a peek behind the scenes as we prepare for an exciting rebrand of the On Fire Empire podcast. After hearing your feedback about what you truly need, we’re evolving to become The Splitting Smart Podcast.

This isn’t just a name change—it’s a new direction that helps you navigate life’s toughest conflicts, whether it’s divorce, custody battles, or managing other complex relationships… the smart way.

So, what is changing?

You’ll still get my insights, guidance, and expert advice from 30 years in the trenches, but now with an added focus on real-life conflict resolution. (I mean, there’s a reason I’m called “The Breakup Artist”, right?). We’ll tackle the unique challenges that come with splitting up and give you practical tools you can use to stay out of court.

What’s in it for you?

Whether you’re going through a divorce, supporting a friend or family member who is, or even facing conflict in business, this podcast will give you the tools to split smart…. protecting your family, giving you peace of mind, and going easier on your wallet.

Here’s a glimpse of the future:

Expect monthly episodes that focus on building your skills in mediation, conflict resolution, and smart decision-making. Plus, we’ll have bonus episodes featuring guest experts (Sapere Pros) who will empower you to manage the changes you’re facing.

Join me as we turn the page on the On Fire Empire and start a new chapter together with The Splitting Smart Podcast.

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Are you living and running your business with INTENTION?

You may be asking...what actually is Intentional Living and how the heck do you achieve it?

As we roll into the holidays and into the new year, I thought this would be a timely topic to discuss.

This week on the On Fire Empire Podcast, we talk about intentional living. Living with intention is first knowing what you want! Think about that for a moment, do you know what you want...honestly? Are you actively going after what you want? Are all of your daily thoughts and actions intentional to get you one step closer to the life you want?

Listen to today's episode and start living with INTENTION. You can do this!

LISTEN IN TO HEAR:

• What the heck living with INTENTION actually means.
• How to define your own intention(s).
• How do I use my intentions in my personal and business life, to live authentically.
• How to access my free resource to get started living with Intention.

You won’t want to miss this episode – It is one thing to have an Intention, in the middle of intention and what you want, is the why. This is what drives your motivation. Meaning is everything!

Happy listening,

Kelly

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Are you dreading the holidays?

I know sometimes we think, "oh I have to see that odd ball family member that has such weird views and if I have to listen to them again..."

Let's turn that on its head and get intentional about how we roll into the holidays.

This week on the On Fire Empire Podcast, we are getting personal. With the holidays coming up it is a good time to practice keeping ourselves open to new perspectives and becoming intentional in managing challenging situations. Just as we do in business we must adapt and understand how to pivot.

The majority of modern holidays were born from a religion or faith-based idiology, and there was INTENTION behind their creation.

LISTEN IN TO HEAR:

• The difference in feeling gratitude vs. showing/LIVING in gratitude.
• How we can step back and listen and gain a new perspective before judging others and their point of view.
• A new fresh perspective on the holidays and maybe a theme for you and your loved ones to follow this season.
• How you can become intentional through practical application this holiday season.

You won’t want to miss this episode – We can't control every situation; we CAN control our reaction and perspective on them.

Happy listening,

Kelly

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This week on the On Fire Empire Podcast, I am discussing Quiet Quitting, a new trend that has been in the news since summer 2022. It all started with a seventeen second video on Tik Tok. (I know right!?)

Simply, Quiet Quitting is when someone is not outright quitting their job, but they are quitting the idea of going above and beyond; still performing their duties, only doing the bare minimum.

We cannot let this trend invite scarcity into our lives and businesses.

LISTEN IN TO HEAR:

• What is Quiet Quitting, what it is NOT, and is it happening in my business.
  
  
• Strategies and things you can do to prevent or stop your employees from doing this.

You won’t want to miss this episode – We can't change the world if we have a team that is doing the bare minimum.

This new trend is the anti-work life balance. Learn how to take charge and help support your employees so everyone can serve your clients and customers while being ALL in.

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On this shorty-episode, Kelly takes a call from Christy. Christy and her husband have a rocky marriage, and he won't go to counseling. Christy's thinking that maybe a trial separation is in order - but hubby is super prickly and she doesn't know how to broach the subject.

With her lawyer hat squarely in place, Kelly hears Christy's question for the first time and gives Christy practical advice that only a super-seasoned divorce and mediation lawyer can give. Listen in and learn:

. . . Why ultimatums don't work, and the smarter approach that does.
. . . What Empowerment Zones are, and how to live in those zones.
. . . How to approach a spouse who views hard conversations as personal attacks.
. . . How to set yourself up for a productive conversation by leading with love, sticking to facts over feelings, choosing a smart location for the discussion and using time limits.

Is legal separation right for Christy? You be the judge.

Disclaimer . . . The content presented here and on the podcast are not intended to be legal advice, nor does it create an attorney-client relationship. Such content created by Kelly Bennett is for informational and educational purposes only. Legal advice happens when the lawyer is given the opportunity to hear your specific situation and give you advice based on your unique facts, after a conversation with you about those facts.

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RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Kelly's book, Victim is Not Your Name, pages 84-88.
(Circles of Influence; Empowerment Zones).

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Are you stuck with bad hiring decisions because you’ve been in desperate need of employees? In the age of the “hiring desert” - not enough qualified job candidates to go around - this happens quite frequently. But there are steps you can take today to start turning your hiring practices around.

In this episode, Kelly shares three crucial components to hiring the right employees. These are tried and true methods learned over Kelly's 35 years in business.

1) Hire intentionally and methodically; and create a backup plan.
2) Hire for company culture.
3) Develop a hiring process. You can’t afford to wing this.

You'll also learn:
How to get out of the “any warm body” danger zone when hiring.
How to use pre-framing when hiring. What do you want your team to look like? What are your team’s core values?
How a screening system gives you a more complete picture of candidates while freeing up your time.
How a 90 day probationary period should be the minimum, allowing time for the new hire shine and polish to wear off.
Plus, you’ll get a peek into how our entire hiring process works. It’s involved yet streamlined, and very effective in helping us hire the right people.

If you’re struggling to figure out how to hire the right people, this episode's for you!

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RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Clifton Strengths Assessment (StrengthsFinder)
https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/252137/home.aspx

Myers Briggs Assessment (16 Personalities)
https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

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