• Making Friends with Anxiety: How Mindfulness Changes Our Relationship with Anxiety
    2025/06/12

    What if the anxiety that feels like it's weighing you down could actually become your superpower? In this raw and insightful conversation, we explore the transformative potential of changing our relationship with anxiety through mindfulness and gratitude.

    We begin by sharing our personal journeys with anxiety – from full-blown panic disorders that led to self-medication and agoraphobia to the constant undercurrent of stress that masqueraded as "just being overwhelmed." Through these experiences, we unpack the crucial difference between experiencing anxiety and being controlled by it. The deer that shakes off stress after escaping a predator offers a powerful metaphor for how humans can learn to process anxiety rather than becoming trapped in recursive worry.

    The conversation takes a fascinating turn as we examine how reframing anxiety can actually enhance performance. Athletes who channel pre-competition nervousness into heightened awareness don't try to eliminate anxiety – they harness it. Research shows mindfulness practices can be as effective as medications like Lexapro for many people, not by eliminating anxiety but by changing our relationship with it.

    Perhaps most powerfully, we explore how gratitude practices create a cognitive shift where our brains begin actively seeking positive aspects in all experiences. One practitioner shares how teaching teenage athletes a simple gratitude journaling practice led to better sleep and the elimination of nightmares in just one week. With consistent practice, we can develop appreciation not just for life's blessings but even for our challenges – seeing anxiety itself as a teacher rather than an enemy.

    Whether you're experiencing occasional worry or battling a diagnosed anxiety disorder, this episode offers compassionate insight into how your perception shapes your experience. As the Buddhist teaching shared at the end reminds us: "Whether we experience what happens to us as an obstacle and enemy or as a teacher and friend depends entirely on our perception of reality."

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