You’ve done everything “right.” Career. Mortgage. Family. But somewhere along the way, something got lost—your sense of purpose.

In this episode of The Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, Pat and Chris dive deep into what purpose really is, how it quietly slips away during middle age, and how you can get it back—today.

You’ll discover why in middle-aged we often feel disconnected, what’s really behind that sense of drifting, and—most importantly—how to reignite the fire inside you.

Whether you’ve hit a plateau or feel like you’re just going through the motions, this episode will shake you awake and help you get back on track.

If you're ready to feel ALIVE again… hit play.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why purpose disappears in middle age—and how to spot the warning signs
• How lack of growth is the silent killer of your passion and drive
• Why scrolling, complaining, and waiting for retirement are the fastest ways to kill your purpose
• Simple, powerful actions to start feeling purposeful again—even if you’re stuck in a job you hate
• The one habit that will reignite momentum and direction in your life
• How to shift your focus and energy back into things that matter
• A series of life-changing questions to reconnect you with your passion

If you are interested in accelerating your professional success in your career or business and your wealth, we can help you. We do this by upgrading your unconscious programming, mindset and habits, so you can get the success you want (whatever that is for you).

To find out more about our valuable coaching program, email us at: coaching@patandchris.com

Also, check out our social media:
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Success rarely comes from talent or intelligence alone. The truth is far simpler — and far harder: success belongs to those who persist.

In this episode of The Middle-Aged and Miserable Podcast, we explore the often-overlooked factor behind every meaningful achievement: persistence. For many men, the desire to change careers, launch a business, or escape the rat race is quickly followed by a wave of doubt — “I don’t know how,” “I’m not smart enough.”

But what if none of that was the real problem?

This episode reveals:

• Why persistence outperforms education, connections, or intelligence
• The four predictable stages every long-term goal goes through
• How to survive the “nothing’s working” phase without giving up
• The difference between blind persistence and strategic pivoting
• Why your why is the single most important factor in staying the course

You’ll also learn how to reframe self-doubt, avoid burnout, and shift your mindset from short-term struggle to long-term vision.

Whether you’re building a side business, pursuing a new career, or simply looking to live life on your own terms, this conversation will help you stay focused — and finish what you started.

If you are interested in accelerating your professional success in your career or business and your wealth, we can help you. We do this by upgrading your unconscious programming, mindset and habits, so you can get the success you want (whatever that is for you).

To find out more about our valuable coaching program, email us at: coaching@patandchris.com

Also, check out our social media:
www.youtube.com/@patandchris
www.instagram.com/patandchris
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Are you unknowingly sabotaging your own success?

In this powerful episode of The Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, Pat and Chris dive deep into the world of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) and show you how your unconscious mind might be the biggest thing holding you back from the life you actually want.

They explain how your early childhood programming formed the beliefs that now run your life on autopilot—and how to finally take back control. Whether it's wealth, confidence, or relationships you're struggling with, this episode reveals the invisible patterns keeping you stuck... and how to break free.

If you’ve ever felt like you should be doing better by now—but can’t figure out why you’re not—this episode is a must-listen. You’ll walk away with clarity, actionable tools, and a renewed sense of control over your future.

Tune in and discover how to rewire your mind and redesign your life—starting today.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why your unconscious mind is running the show (and how to override it)
• The truth about beliefs and how they shape your results in life
• How NLP change patterns can rewire limiting beliefs in minutes
• Why success and failure are rooted in unconscious programming
• How to stop self-sabotaging your goals (without even realizing it)
• The link between early childhood and your current struggles

If you are interested in accelerating your professional success in your career or business and your wealth, we can help you. We do this by upgrading your unconscious programming, mindset and habits, so you can get the success you want (whatever that is for you).

To find out more about our valuable coaching program, email us at: coaching@patandchris.com

Also, check out our social media:
www.youtube.com/@patandchris
www.instagram.com/patandchris
www.tiktok.com/@pat_and_chris