Episode 165 - Bonus Friday Episode 2 - Doubt, not fitting in and no publishing deal

Welcome to a very special bonus edition of The Menopause and Cancer Podcast. I’m Dani Binnington — cancer survivor, menopause advocate, and founder of Menopause and Cancer — and today marks the start of something I’ve been quietly working on for years.

This is our second bonus episode, and I’m once again inviting you behind the scenes of my brand-new book, Navigating Menopause After Cancer.

I’ve shared bits of this story before — how the book almost didn’t happen — and how I’ve personally learned so much just from listening to podcasts like this one. Today, I want to take you deeper into that journey.

No one ever asked me to write this book. There was no agent or publisher knocking at my door with a deal. But over the years, as I kept meeting more of you — in person, online, through messages — I knew there was a real need for a go-to guide. Something that brought all the insights and expert advice from the podcast together in one place.

And… right at the end of today’s episode, I’ll tell you about a little turning point in my story - writing a paragraph for Davina McCall’s book Menopausing. It was a small moment that gave me a big push forward.

If you’ve ever wondered what it takes to turn lived experience into something that can help others — or you're just curious about what didn’t make it into the final version — this mini-series is for you.

I’m so glad you’re here.

Episode Highlights:

00:00 Intro

03:40 "Creating a Menopause Support Community"

07:52 Discovering Self-Publishing Opportunities

16:05 Writing “Navigating Menopause After Cancer”

19:59 Book Collaboration Breakthrough

22:30 Trust Your Intuition

Connect with us:

For more information and resources visit our website: www.menopauseandcancer.org

Or follow us on Instagram @menopause_and_cancer

Join our Facebook group: www.facebook.com/groups/menopauseandcancerchathub

In this powerful episode, we’re joined by Dr. Tiffany Troso-Sandoval — a leading medical oncologist with over 25 years of experience — for an honest and deeply empowering conversation about cancer, survivorship, and putting yourself first.

Dr. Troso-Sandoval shares her journey in oncology and her passion for helping women navigate not only treatment, but life after cancer. From the importance of second opinions to the psychological toll of survivorship, she offers both professional insight and heartfelt advice.

Her top tip for doing survivorship? Well (Hint: it’s in the episode title!)

This is a must-listen for anyone affected by cancer — whether you’re a patient, a survivor, or supporting someone through it. It’s about reclaiming your voice, prioritising your well-being, and embracing the idea that you come first.

You can find Dr Troso here https://www.winningthecancerjourney.com/

Don’t forget to tune into the bonus episodes released every Friday as I announce something I have been working on for years!

Episode Highlights:

00:00 Intro

06:06 "Advocating for Second Opinions"

10:50 Patient-Doctor Communication: A Must

14:02 Bridging Gaps in Patient Care

17:05 Prepare Questions Before Doctor Visits

27:50 Reevaluating Relationships: Finding Clarity

31:03 Track Symptoms Chronologically

Connect with us:

For more information and resources visit our website: www.menopauseandcancer.org

Or follow us on Instagram @menopause_and_cancer

Join our Facebook group: www.facebook.com/groups/menopauseandcancerchathub

Welcome to a very special bonus edition of The Menopause and Cancer Podcast. I’m Dani Binnington — cancer survivor, menopause advocate, and founder of Menopause and Cancer — and today marks the start of something I’ve been quietly working on for years.

In this episode, I’m inviting you behind the scenes of my brand-new book, Navigating Menopause After Cancer. This book didn’t just appear overnight — in fact, the journey started back in 2018, when I first signed with a literary agent and began dreaming of putting everything I’d learned into one place.

Over the next few Fridays, I’ll be sharing the real, unfiltered story of how this book came to life. From the challenges of getting published (and why I don’t think any traditional publisher would have taken this on), to the decision to self-publish, and even the surprising story behind the book’s cover — designed by a woman from our own community.

If you’ve ever wondered what it takes to turn lived experience into something that can help others — or you're just curious about what didn’t make it into the final version — this mini-series is for you.

I’m so glad you’re here.

Episode Highlights:

00:00 Intro

02:45 Cancer diagnosis whilst living in Austria on a gap year

05:28 Becoming a yoga teacher and creating a local community

10:30 First book proposal

13:12 Loss of confidence after surgery