You keep saying yes… even though you're exhausted.
You don’t want to let anyone down. You tell yourself, “It’s fine. I can handle it.”
But deep down, you know it’s costing you.

In this episode, I’m sharing my personal story of what I call The Yes Trap, that exhausting pattern of putting everyone else first until you have nothing left.

From people-pleasing to a wake-up call in a doctor’s office, I’ll walk you through what finally helped me stop living on empty… and start creating a life that supports me, too.
If you're a midlife woman who feels tired, resentful, and disconnected, this is your invitation to take your energy back without guilt.
What we cover in this episode:
✔️ The emotional cost of always being the strong one
✔️ How the Yes Trap leads to burnout and resentment
✔️ My hypothyroid diagnosis and what it taught me about ignoring my needs
✔️ The mindset shift that helped me stop apologizing for rest
✔️ How to set boundaries that feel kind but clear
✔️ Why you don’t need permission to care for yourself

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Chapters:
00:00 Prioritizing Self-Rest in Midlife
04:41 Permission for Self-Care Boundaries
06:36 Embracing Self-Care Transformation

Midlife Comeback: How I Rebuilt My Strength, Energy & Confidence After 50

Feeling tired, foggy, and like your body is working against you? You’re not alone. In this episode of The Menopause Method, I’m sharing the exact 3-step method that helped me rebuild my strength, restore my energy, and reclaim my confidence in midlife, without extreme workouts or complicated diets.

Whether you're dealing with menopause fatigue, midlife weight gain, or the emotional toll of feeling off, this episode walks you through the simple shifts that actually work.

We’ll talk about:

• Why your metabolism feels slower (and what you can really do about it)
• How to strength train in midlife (even if you're short on time or energy)
• A simple way to track your nutrition. No calorie counting required!
• How chronic stress affects your hormones, sleep, and cravings
• Why 60 minutes of strength training per week can protect your heart and your bones

My go-to strategies for managing stress and building resilience in perimenopause and beyond

This isn’t the beginning of the end. It’s your Midlife Comeback.

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Chapters:
00:00 Midlife Myths: Revitalizing Menopause
04:59 Photo Food Diary Method
07:20 Menopause Minis: Daily Strength Workouts
12:58 Building Resilience: A Three-Part Approach
14:15 Redefine Midlife with Self-Care

Midlife identity shift? You're not alone.
If you’ve ever said “I don’t feel like myself anymore,” or “I’m tired, stuck, or lost,” this episode is for you.

In today’s episode of The Menopause Method, we’re exploring the power of what you say after “I am.”
Because those two little words shape your menopause mindset, your habits, and how you show up for your health.
We’ll break down how your physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual bodies are impacted by your internal self-talk—and how to gently start rewriting your identity in midlife.

You’ll learn:

• Why “I am” statements are so powerful for women 40+
• How to spot unhelpful identity loops keeping you stuck
• What to say instead to feel stronger, clearer, and more like you

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Chapters:
00:00 "I Am" Identity Power
03:36 Aligning "I Am" Affirmations
07:01 Regaining Spiritual Alignment

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