You saw the red flags. You felt the gut punch. And still, you stayed.

If you’ve ever looked back on a relationship and thought, “How did I miss that?”, this episode is for you.

Hilary breaks down why smart, high-achieving women override their instincts—not because they’re clueless, but because they want love so badly they talk themselves out of what they already know. The chemistry was strong. The checklist looked good. And he did have potential. So you minimized, rationalized, and convinced yourself it wasn’t that bad… until it was.

Episode Highlights:

• What happens when logic wins out over emotion (and why that’s not always a good thing)
• The quiet ways high-functioning women betray themselves in love
• How “I see the good in people” becomes a self-sabotaging mantra
• Why your discomfort is more trustworthy than you think
• The link between intuition and emotional fluency
• How to stop brushing off the ick and start paying attention to it

Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Recognizing Relationship Red Flags

02:29 Reason 1: Desire for the Ideal Relationship

04:15 Reason 2: Disconnection from Emotions

06:05 Reason 3: Seeing Only the Good in People

08:09 Understanding and Trusting Yourself

09:23 Finding the Sweet Spot in Relationships

Whether you're single and hopeful or already in a relationship, this conversation will challenge how you listen to your instincts, manage discomfort, and define what “being a good person” actually means.

Ready to stop turning the wrong man into the right one? Start by learning how to trust yourself again.

Watch Hilary’s free masterclass for high-achieving women who are done ignoring red flags and ready to choose differently.

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If you’ve been told to "just be more feminine" to attract a high-quality man—this episode is your permission slip to roll your eyes and delete that advice forever.

In this episode, Hilary unpacks the real meaning of feminine energy for strong, high-functioning women who are tired of being told to play small. She’s calling BS on the idea that you need to be more “demure,” wear more pink, or act helpless so a man can feel useful. (Spoiler: You don’t.)

Episode Highlights:

• Why the “let him take the lead” narrative is secretly sabotaging your love life
• What feminine energy actually looks like when you’re powerful, grounded, and self-sourced
• The childhood beliefs that locked you into over-functioning and under-receiving
• One 30-second shift to move from drive into flow (no crystals required)

Episode Breakdown:

• 00:00 Feminine Energy Myths
• 01:37 Misconception #1:You need to Let Men Help You
• 02:15 Misconception #2:You Need to be Demure
• 03:31 The Deeper Truth About Feminine Energy
• 05:20 Becoming Magnetic in Love
• 06:36 Queens Don’t Chase

Ready to stop playing damsel and start sitting on your damn throne?

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They run companies, manage households, juggle a million responsibilities—and still find themselves accepting the bare minimum in love. Why?

In this Summer of Love kickoff, Hilary calls out the quiet epidemic of high-achieving women settling for less in their relationships. From doing all the emotional labor to accepting the bare minimum in return, Hilary spells out what “crumbs” really look like, and why so many women accept them without even realizing it.

The truth? Starving women eat crumbs. If you’ve spent a lifetime feeling emotionally underfed, even the smallest scrap of affection can feel like a meal. But that won’t get you the love you want, and it’s not your fault. The fix? Stop looking outward, and start filling yourself up from within.

If you’re ready to quit the chase and start receiving real love, this episode is your wake-up call.

Episode Highlights:

• The subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs you're accepting crumbs
• Why blaming men misses the point entirely
• How emotional deprivation starts early—and shows up in dating
• The difference between chasing love and attracting it
• What it actually takes to become the woman who won’t settle

Episode Breakdown:

• [00:00] Why Strong Women Settle for Crumbs in Love
• [00:56] Signs You're Settling for Less in Relationships
• [02:10] How It Feels When You Accept Less Than You Deserve
• [03:01] The Real Problem Isn't Him—It's You
• [04:07] How Early Experiences Shape Your Standards
• [05:32] The Solution: Heal, Fill, and Stop Settling
• [07:10] Learn How to Get What You Want

Stop chasing scraps and start receiving the whole damn cake. Hilary shows you how to go from starving to self-fed—and why you are the only one who can do it.

🔗 Ready to quit settling and attract real love? Grab Hilary’s free masterclass: https://hilarysilver.com/masterclass