For some of us, we never had that moment where we were ushered from boyhood to manhood, and not getting that affirmation sometimes leads to us looking for it in unhealthy ways.

My guest Steven Arms and his family have crafted a rite of passage that they have done in their family and I believe this is a message that will help us dads with sons prepare them and equip them to be men of stature.

Hope you enjoy this episode.

Below is a link to the book on Amazon

https://www.amazon.com/Milestone-Manhood-Christian-Passage-Boyhood/dp/B09XZD7BHL/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2F6LADV3PYWNF&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.wM0b0eO5sXsEwYmU9UftvJkDe93NVDymgcpThApquMChDIiZrsUwaYH86dr_Ad9Z_zeoGc5TDaFMYE4ffVN4h3KDZK1LFavsGa_p8ka0y4tPH0Q1-XToW5sghGtJA0NTSZgNcGUiKvfpvcrvEigVlQ.5vC3emv6oINfMobdUDubrRBx_gWiKSDgg3T9OyAy-i8&dib_tag=se&keywords=milestone+to+manhood&qid=1720453777&sprefix=milestone+to+manhood%2Caps%2C146&sr=8-1

Back from a good break, that has really allowed me to process life differently and gain perspective. Thank you all for your continued support in the podcast, I hope you find encouragement in this episode.

Journey well!

I had the honor of sitting with Nick Adams to discuss his book that is out now, and his story.

His story is truly impactful and its amazing to see how God has Fathered him and worked in his life.

This book is a testament to men who may have had a tough or traumatic upbringing that there is hope, and God does Father the fatherless.

You can get his book here

https://www.amazon.com/Being-Dad-You-Wish-Had/dp/B0CJ49HV8P

I realized that I was doing all the christian things except the one things that matters most. Seeking Jesus for Jesus. In this episode I unpack some of the things I have noticed in my own walk with Jesus.

Hope you enjoy this podcast, thanks for all the support!

If you would like my FREE course just email me @theheartworkingdad@gmail and I'll send it to you.

Here is the playlist on Spotify I talk about

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/74KSiX2vVL4EkF47ZOPKGb?si=f0e33e80612d4f8e

As first generation Christian fathers we will in no doubt have battles to face. Because the walk of christianity is new there will be a lot of things that we learned growing up, a lot of battles our parents couldn't have fought because simply. they knew not the battle they were in.

I was feeling discouraged and at the end of the day I just wanted tto get a Lego set and build. Why? Often times, I wish my faith my life was like a lego set. Do X,Y and Z and this will be the outcome, how I wish things worked like that, but God has better and bigger things in mind then simple to-do list.

"Ignorant people in preppy clothes are more dangerous to America than oil embargoes." V.S. Naipaul

There is so much confusion in America on the idea of masculinity and if the America is confused you better believe that our children can get caught up in that confusion.

As Dads and leaders of our family we have to be the ones to model masculinity and bestow masculinity to our sons.

This episode I'm sharing some thoughts of how I had to receive masculinity from other men and how I am trying to model that in our home

Lately I've found myself saying to my kids "I can't", or "I've got to do..." so busy that I can't do that one thing that i should not be to busy to do and that is hang out with my kids. Getting caught in the busyness of the day can happen to any of us and just want to share in my journey in hopes that it helps you in yours.