“Dating in Vietnam? Be prepared—sometimes you show up for a date, and she brings five friends. And yes, you’re expected to pay the bill.”

I’m joined by Rochelle Nguyen at 86 Proof to uncover an unwritten rule every expat in Vietnam should know. From navigating the quirks of dating apps to the cultural nuances of Vietnamese family gatherings and countryside weddings, this episode is packed with funny anecdotes and practical advice.

Plus, we dive into the art of making the perfect whiskey sour (spoiler: it’s all about the ice) and share stories of what makes expat life in Vietnam so uniquely unpredictable and rewarding.

– Niall Mackay

5 Key Takeaways (With Timestamps)
1.Unwritten Rule #1: Always Expect the Unexpected on Dates – Sometimes, a date might include her friends—and the bill. (00:01:00)
2.Tết Visits and Cultural Commitments – Why visiting a girlfriend’s hometown during Tết could lead to unintentional engagement rumors. (00:07:00)
3.Countryside Weddings and Rice Wine – Why being a Westerner makes you the life (and drinking buddy) of the party. (00:15:00)
4.Navigating Tinder and Dating Dynamics – How dating apps in Vietnam differ for expats and locals. (00:08:00)
5.The Legendary Whiskey Sour – What makes the 86 Proof Whiskey Sour a true Saigon icon. (00:05:00)

Episode Chapters

00:00 – Welcome to 86 Proof: Setting the Scene
01:00 – Dating in Vietnam: Expect the Unexpected
07:00 – Tết Traditions and Unintentional Engagements
10:00 – Cultural Curiosities: Family Questions and Wedding Shots
15:00 – Whiskey Sour Masterclass

Reflect with Me

From dating surprises to countryside weddings, this episode offers a humorous and insightful glimpse into the unspoken norms of expat life in Vietnam. Whether you’re new to the country or a seasoned resident, there’s something relatable—and laugh-worthy—for everyone.

What’s an unwritten rule you’ve encountered? Share your thoughts in the comments, and don’t forget to subscribe, follow, and stay tuned for more episodes of Saigon Sunday Sessions.

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