Hello, and welcome to this special holiday edition of The D Shift: Redefining Divorce And Beyond. I’m your host, Mardi Winder-Adams. Unlike our usual episodes where we delve into expert insights on navigating divorce and creating a fulfilling life post-divorce, today, I want to take a moment to thank you—all our incredible listeners—for your support throughout the year.

In this episode, we'll explore the emotional complexities that the holiday season can bring, especially for those who've recently gone through a divorce. Drawing from my own experiences, I'll share simple but effect advice on managing feelings of grief, loneliness, and pressure, while emphasizing the importance of self-care and setting healthy boundaries.

I'll share how to create new traditions, find joy in small victories, and remind you that healing is a unique, non-linear journey. Plus, I'll offer practical tips for navigating this challenging time and highlight the resilience we all possess.

Stay tuned until the end for exciting news about upcoming episodes, Real Divorce Talks, and even a sneak peek into my new book featuring transformative stories from women who've reinvented their lives post-divorce. So, grab a cup of something warm (or a glass of something cold !), get cozy, and let’s embark on this holiday journey together.

About the Host:

Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

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On this episode, I have the privilege of speaking with Neil Palache, an experienced divorce consultant and founder of the Wealth Creator Company for Women. Neil brings over 15 years of expertise in financial coaching, having transitioned from life insurance and financial services to a focus on guiding women through the financial intricacies of divorce. He has also founded Divorce Transition Professionals (DTP), a national network facilitating collaboration among divorce professionals.

Together, we look into essential financial considerations during the divorce journey. Neil outlines his holistic approach, encompassing pre, pending, and post-divorce phases. He emphasizes the importance of understanding your financial landscape before divorce proceedings begin, providing guidance on budgeting, asset division, and potential outcomes concerning spousal and child support.

Neil's insights include advice on hiring the right professionals to navigate complex financial scenarios and the significance of mutual respect between divorcing partners. He encourages a fair division of assets, enabling both parties to live reasonably post-divorce, and shares insights into maintaining civility for the sake of any children involved.

Neil and I both advocate for amicable resolutions, highlighting that animosity in divorce only depletes communal assets and strains future familial relationships. With practical examples and heartfelt advice, this episode offers invaluable guidance on managing finances and fostering healthier separations.

About the Guest:

A Divorce Consultant and Founder of The Wealth Creator Company for Women, Neil Palache has specialized in financial coaching for 15 years. He also founded the Divorce Transition Professionals (DTP), a national network, in 2017. Neil's financial experience stretches over five decades. He was an insurance agent, a financial advisor, and a registered investment advisor for 25 years. As such, when working with his female only clientele, on pre, pending and post- divorce financial issues, Neil's unique abilities and knowledge of 'all things financial' are put to good use. In addition, DTP provides an expansive network of professionals to handle all areas of the divorce process and beyond. Neil lives and works in the Conejo Valley in southern California. Married to Stacie since 1987, they have three children ages 21, 21 and 23. Neil was born and raised in London, England, and has been in the United States since 1979.

To book a complimentary session with Neil: http://www.thewealthcreatorcompany.com/

To connect with Neil:

Website: www.thewealthcreatorcompany.com

Group: www.thedivorcetransitionprofessionals.com

Website: www.divorcetransitionmastermind.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/neilpalache

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/neilpalache/

About the Host:

Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed...

Today, we are exploring the world of family mediation with a very special guest, Erik Feig. Erik is not just any mediator—he is a dedicated professional with extensive expertise, passion, and a genuine heart for helping families. He has carved out a niche in assisting families with neurodiverse children through the often-complicated mediation process, ensuring they receive the support they need and facilitating effective co-parenting arrangements.

We look into the challenges and nuances of creating parenting plans that are practical and adaptable to the evolving needs of children with special requirements. Erik also sheds light on the importance of mediation for families facing caregiver issues and elder care, emphasizing the deeply emotional nature of these discussions and the value of having a skilled mediator to support and guide them.

Throughout this episode, we explore why mediation is a powerful, flexible tool for resolving conflicts—whether you're staying together or going through a divorce. Erik explains how mediation can shift the focus from adversarial positions to collaborative problem-solving, ensuring that the best interests of the children and the family as a whole are prioritized.

If you're a parent or caregiver looking for better ways to support your family through difficult times, or if you're curious about how mediation can provide a more harmonious path forward in divorce, this episode is packed with practical advice and insights. Stay tuned as we uncover the many benefits of a child-centered approach to mediation and discover how it can make a significant difference in your family's journey.

About the Guest:

Erik M. Feig is a dedicated family mediator specializing in supporting families through pivotal life transitions, with a unique focus on working with parents of neurodiverse children and those with special needs. Erik’s approach fosters cooperation and reduces conflict, whether families are divorcing, navigating co-parenting after divorce, making post-divorce adjustments for changing needs, or aligning on key parenting decisions in intact families. In addition to his work with parents, Erik helps families address sensitive issues related to elder care, caregiving, and supporting the evolving needs of adult family members. Based in Bethesda, MD, and serving families nationwide, Erik is committed to helping families move forward with constructive solutions that benefit everyone involved.

To connect with Erik:

Website: https://www.feigmediationgroup.com

Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/FeigMediationGroup

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/erik-m-feig/ YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVC1GNypV9FRsS_mxVwF-Ew

About the Host:

Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

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