What do you do when you realize you were never really a partner — just treated like one?

In this episode of Art of Reading the Room, Gerard and Sarah talk through a defining moment in Gerard’s career — the day he walked into a meeting and realized it was time to walk away. From leadership breakdowns to ignored red flags, they unpack how to know when it’s time to leave, and how to leave with clarity, confidence, and no regrets.

Whether you're in a misaligned partnership, a job that no longer fits, or a situation that’s starting to drain your self-worth — this episode is a roadmap for reclaiming your values.

🧠 Learn how to spot subtle signs of disrespect 🧭 Know when compromise is over 💬 Why staying quiet can make you the victim

Key Topics:

1. Core values vs. compromise in professional relationships
2. The difference between being a “partner” and actually having decision-making power
3. How to confront exclusion and miscommunication in leadership teams
4. Practical lessons from Gerard’s business experience
5. Why staying silent makes you a participant in dysfunction
6. The importance of taking decisive action when alignment breaks down

Quote of the Episode:

"If you keep clocking in every Sunday after they told you you’d be working every Sunday — that’s not on them anymore. That’s on you." — Gerard

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In this episode of Art of Reading the Room, Gerard and Sarah dive deep into a struggle every leader faces — balancing hands-on involvement with strategic oversight. From Carl the fast food manager to lessons from UPS and real estate, this conversation explores how knowing when to step in and when to step back can define the success of your business.

You’ll learn:

• Why your team might respect you more when you “get in the fire”
• What a “crow’s nest” approach looks like in real businesses
• How to improve your operations without micromanaging
• The subtle signals employees give when a system isn’t working
• And why leadership is really about training, motivation, and accountability

If you’ve ever struggled with being too involved — or not involved enough — this episode is your blueprint for better management.

Topics Covered:

1. The myth of passive ownership — and when to get your hands dirty
2. Why smart bosses stay invisible until absolutely necessary
3. How to find your “perch” and run operations without micromanaging
4. Stories from fast food, logistics, daycare, and real estate
5. How to train, motivate, and hold people accountable — without burning out
6. The hidden value of doing every job yourself (at least once)

Quote of the Episode:

“If I have to come out and do your job better than you — why do I need you?”

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In this episode of The Art of Reading the Room, Gerard and Sarah dive into one of the most controversial topics in business and life: When do you reward bad service, and when do you walk away?

From tipping debates to frustrating experiences with vendors, this candid conversation explores the hidden emotional and financial toll of dealing with unreliable people — and the surprising lessons that come with paying someone just to leave.

We share real stories about trusting the wrong people, navigating work relationships with integrity, and the hard decisions every small business owner faces.

Topics Covered:

1. When tipping becomes emotional — ethics vs. customer service
2. What to do when vendors lie, underperform, or overcharge
3. How to exit work relationships without burning bridges
4. The danger of discounting your worth as a small business owner
5. Why communication failures ruin good working dynamics
6. How to set and revisit professional boundaries with clarity

Quote of the Episode:

“Don’t discount your rate and then get mad when you hate the work you’re doing.”

👀 Team Gerard or Team Sarah? Tell us in the comments: How do you handle poor service — pay anyway or push back?

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