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That's Where I'm At

That's Where I'm At

著者: Laura Richards
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Welcome to "That's Where I'm At" with your host, Laura Richards! Join Laura Richards, a survivor of narcissistic abuse with 33 years experience, as she guides you through the journey of identifying, healing from, and thriving after emotional and psychological abuse. With a mission to raise awareness, foster emotional recovery, and empower you to love yourself, Laura brings honesty, compassion, and a touch of humor to every episode. Dive into deep, meaningful conversations, tackle tough topics, and uncover moments of hope and healing. Our supportive community is here for you, offering insights, support, and a shared path to recovery and empowerment. Subscribe now and be part of a transformative journey that’s messy, real, and truly inspiring!2023 個人的成功 心理学 心理学・心の健康 自己啓発 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • It's Never Too Late: Finding Your Voice with Lori Daneke
    2025/05/28
    In this inspiring episode of "That's Where I'm At" podcast, host Laura welcomes Lori Daneke, a communication and relationship coach who discovered her calling later in life. Lori shares her powerful journey from being a people-pleaser trapped in a silent, emotionally abusive marriage to becoming an empowered coach helping others find their authentic selves. What started as a quest to improve her golf game led to a complete life transformation at age 58. Through candid conversation, Lori explains how 90% of our thoughts aren't our own, stemming from our imprint years (ages 0-7), and how breakthrough work can help us release the emotional baggage we've been carrying. Her story demonstrates that it's truly never too late to make changes, use your voice, and ask for what you want. Lori Daneke is a communication and relationship coach with master certifications in NLP, TLT, Hypnotherapy, Reiki Level 3, and Huna, as well as Advanced Trauma and Addiction training. With over 300 hours of training and having coached over 100 clients, she specializes in supporting women in creating the life they desire and deserve while embracing their authentic selves. Lori's journey into coaching began unexpectedly at age 58 when seeking to improve her golf game led to discovering that golf and life are direct reflections of each other. She is a proud grandmother of three (with another grandchild on the way) and finds her happy places playing with her grandchildren and going to the beach. Key Topics Discussed: The Connection Between Golf and Life: How Lori's quest to improve her golf game revealed deeper life patternsThe Four Voices in Our Head: Understanding the inner child, inner critic, inner ego, and intuition People-Pleasing Patterns: The dangers of living according to others' expectations rather than your authentic selfSilent Abuse: Recognizing emotional abuse through withholding communication and attentionThe 90% Rule: How most of our thoughts come from our imprint years (ages 0-7) rather than our true selvesBreakthrough Process: Lori's 10-step method for uncovering root causes and aligning conscious and unconscious mindsReleasing Emotional Baggage: Using the analogy of travel luggage to understand letting go of past traumaFinding Your Purpose: How it's never too late to discover your authentic calling and voice Powerful Quotes from the Episode "It'd be grateful for what you have experienced, take the learnings from it, so you can have even more gratitude and love yourself. Because truly, it's never too late to make choices and use your voice and ask for what you want." "In my marriage, I couldn't do that. I wasn't allowed. It was very transactional. And when I asked for what I needed or what I wanted, I got crickets. So that was the abuse that I tolerated. And I tolerated it is silence." "I discovered that not only that golf and life are direct reflections of each other. So what was going on in my golf game was going on in my life. I was angry, frustrated, felt like I was isolated and alone." "90% of our thoughts are not our own. They come from our imprint years or zero to seven... we learned what we learned from the people from the people that are closest to us." "I was the definition of a people pleaser. I did everything that everybody thought I was supposed to do and everybody told me what I was supposed to do." "You can't help other people unless you help yourself first... because you haven't released the blocks around what is actually holding you back from getting what you want." "Everything that happens to us, good, bad, or ugly, is there to teach us a lesson. And the lessons we learn is something positive and it's going forward." "It's never too late to discover that voice and that authentic you, your true purpose in life and what you were put on this planet to do." RESOURCES: MARRIED TO A "NICE" GUY: GETTING OVER NARCISSISTIC ABUSE: SHOP HEREPRIVATE FACEBOOK SUPPORT GROUP: https://www.facebook.com/groups/marriedtoaniceguy/FOLLOW THE PODCAST: http://www.thatswhereimatpodcast.comBOOKS & JOURNALS: https://www.amazon.com/author/laurarichardsRESOURCES FOR YOUR HEALING: https://www.thatswhereimatpodcast.com/resources FOLLOW LORI: EMAIL: hockeymomld18@rogers.comFACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/lori.danecke Loved this episode? Connect with Lori through her Facebook pages or email to learn more about her breakthrough coaching process. Don't forget to leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify to help others find these stories of hope and healing!
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    23 分
  • Rebuilding Self-Worth, Knowing Your Values & Setting Boundaries
    2025/05/21

    In today’s episode, Laura explores the important topics of self-worth, core values, and boundaries—three crucial elements of your healing journey after leaving a toxic relationship. If you're feeling stuck or questioning why you don’t feel "better" yet, this episode is for you.

    Laura breaks down three essential healing truths:
    💥 Healing doesn’t happen overnight—leaving the relationship is only the first step.
    💥 Rebuilding your self-worth is a process that takes time and practice.
    💥 Setting boundaries is an act of self-love, and it’s essential for protecting your peace.

    Expect real talk, actionable advice, and a dose of empowerment to help you move forward.

    What You’ll Learn:
    ✨ How to begin rebuilding self-worth after emotional abuse
    ✨ Why knowing your core values is key to making empowered choices
    ✨ Why boundaries are essential—and how to start setting them

    Resources & Support:
    💫 Ready to go deeper into this work? Join Laura’s Midlife Reset Masterclass—a 10-week journey to confidence, freedom, and joy.
    👉 Midlife Reset Masterclass

    💜 Need someone to talk to? Book your free discovery call, No More Sleepless Nights, and let’s explore your healing journey.
    👉 Free Discovery Call

    Let’s Connect:
    📸 Instagram: @thatswhereimatpodcast
    🌐 Website: ThatsWhereImAtPodcast.com
    📚 Read Laura’s bestselling book: Married to a "Nice" Guy
    👉 Book Store

    If this episode resonated with you...
    Please rate, review, and share! Every listen helps another woman feel less alone on her journey. 💜

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    9 分
  • Finding Freedom: Healing the Hurt Beneath Emotional Eating with Claudia Braun
    2025/05/14
    In this powerful episode host Laura welcomes Claudia Braun, a holistic mindset and lifestyle coach certified in Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT). Claudia opens up about her personal journey with emotional eating that began at age 10 when she discovered food could temporarily ease emotional pain. She shares how this coping mechanism followed her through adolescence, college, and into adulthood, creating a vicious cycle of stress eating and dieting. The conversation explores how our relationship with food often masks deeper emotional needs and how the cultural messaging around dieting affects women. Claudia offers practical insights on breaking free from emotional eating patterns by addressing the root emotional causes, embracing authenticity, and learning to own both your "yes" and your "no" instead of living to please others. Claudia Braun is a longtime Chicago resident, certified in Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), and works as a holistic mindset and lifestyle coach. With 30 years of yoga practice, she brings a wealth of experience to her approach to healing. Claudia has been a keynote speaker at several in-person women's events, hosted the Healing Summit, and been featured on the Holistic Monitor podcast. Drawing from her own journey of healing her relationship with food and emotional eating, Claudia now helps others break free from stress eating patterns and people-pleasing behaviors to live more authentically. She is also a dog mom to Jason, an avid gardener, and enjoys working with clay. Key Topics Discussed: Emotional Eating as a Coping Mechanism: How food becomes a "companion" to manage stress and difficult emotionsThe Vicious Cycle of Dieting: Why traditional dieting approaches often fail to address the emotional roots of eating habits People-Pleasing and Boundaries: The connection between people-pleasing, lack of boundaries, and using food for comfortEmotional Freedom Technique (EFT/Tapping): How this approach helps release trapped emotions in the subconscious mindAuthentic Living: The importance of being true to yourself rather than living based on others' expectationsOwning Your Yes and No: Practical strategies for honoring your own needs and setting boundariesHealing Through Vulnerability: The power of acknowledging and expressing difficult emotions rather than suppressing themCultural Conditioning Around Food: How societal and family messages about food and dieting affect our relationship with eating Powerful Quotes from the Episode "One of the things that I'd like to share with y'all is that I have these three strategies to own your yes and own your no. And part of that is kind of getting in touch with what do we actually feel." "I didn't know my yes. I didn't know my no. I knew other people's yes and other people's no. I was a master people pleaser." "It brings me back to that story with my boyfriend's therapist... I was saying to him, 'I don't know how to make my parents happy and my boyfriend happy at the same time.' And he looks at me and I could see that there was something about that statement I made that was really off... I'm not even in the equation." "You can't put a happy face in an empty tank." "I give people permission to say what they don't want to say." "When I work with clients, I have them write a letter to food, like say goodbye to your best friend. It is your best friend. It's been your best friend." "The only way out is through." "Can you imagine what life would be like if you were authentically you instead of constantly living life based on everyone else's judgments and expectations of you?" RESOURCES: MARRIED TO A "NICE" GUY: GETTING OVER NARCISSISTIC ABUSE: SHOP HEREPRIVATE FACEBOOK SUPPORT GROUP: https://www.facebook.com/groups/marriedtoaniceguy/FOLLOW THE PODCAST: http://www.thatswhereimatpodcast.comBOOKS & JOURNALS: https://www.amazon.com/author/laurarichardsRESOURCES FOR YOUR HEALING: https://www.thatswhereimatpodcast.com/resources FOLLOW CLAUDIA: WEBSITE: www.claudia-braun.com3 strategies to Own Your YES & Your NO (without the guilt, that’s held you back before) https://www.freebie.claudia-braun.com/
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    38 分

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