You’re awake. Again. You’ve tried deep breathing. You’ve tried mindfulness. Maybe it helped a little—or maybe it didn’t.

If you’re feeling restless, irritated, or just plain done with trying, here’s another option:

Pleasant distraction. In bed.

Not scrolling your phone mindlessly. Not doom reading sleep forums.

But doing something you genuinely enjoy, something calming enough to help you make peace with being awake.

Let’s explore how this works—and why it’s a surprisingly powerful step on your path to better sleep.

When you’re dealing with insomnia, every minute awake in bed can feel like failure.

The brain goes:

“I have to sleep. I have a meeting tomorrow.”

“This is going to ruin everything.”

That panic is your sleep-stopping force in action.

Here’s the truth: You can’t make yourself sleep.

But you can do something enjoyable to reduce the anxiety and stop the spiral.

The goal here is to shift your attention gently. Nothing too stimulating. Nothing anxiety-producing. Just something that occupies your mind enough to steer it away from worry.

Options include:

• Reading a book
• Listening to a podcast or audiobook
• Watching a show or documentary (if screens don’t rev you up)

Ideally, choose something you’ve already enjoyed before. Familiar = soothing.

If you feel your body start to relax—eyes drooping, yawns happening—that’s your cue.

Close the book, turn off the show, and let sleep come.

If sleep doesn’t show up? That’s okay. Just return to your calming activity.

You’re not “trying to sleep.” You’re making peace with being awake.

You’ve probably heard screens are the enemy of sleep.

Yes, blue light can suppress melatonin slightly. But that’s not what’s keeping you up.

Anxiety is.

If watching a favorite nature documentary helps you relax, that’s far better than lying in bed stewing.

Use night mode. Keep the volume low. Avoid scary or emotional content. But don’t stress too much about the screen itself.

When you make being awake less painful, your nervous system begins to calm down.

You stop feeding the “I must sleep or else” panic.

And that softening? That’s what creates the conditions for sleep to return—on its own, when your body’s ready.

It gives you agency, not control—but sometimes, that’s even better.

Next time, we’ll cover what to do when staying in bed isn’t working at all.

Until then,

To peaceful sleep,

Ivo at End Insomnia

Why should you listen to me?

I recovered from insomnia after 5 brutal years of suffering. I also wrote a book about it. I've now coached many on how to end their insomnia for good in 8 weeks.

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