What happens when you lose everything—your money, your identity, your sense of purpose?In this raw and powerful conversation, we sit down with a man who hit rock bottom: $200,000 in debt, lost in lust, drowning in shame. But instead of breaking, he broke open. What followed was a radical awakening through faith, fatherhood, and purpose-driven leadership.This video isn’t just about religion—it’s about what happens when a man stops performing, surrenders the ego, and starts leading with love.👊 Whether you're a high-performing man silently burning out…💔 Stuck in shame, porn, or emotional numbness…🙏 Or simply searching for a deeper sense of purpose…This story will meet you where you're at—and call you into who you’re meant to become.🔥 TAKE THE NEXT STEP→ Join the Brothrhood (Men's Community): https://www.brothr.life/brothrhood The arena where men break through performance and build lives of authentic power.📘 NOT READY YET?→ Get the Free Becoming Blueprint: https://www.brothr.life/your-blueprint A roadmap to reconnect with your purpose and break free from hollow achievement.ABOUT STU MURRAY & BROTHRI help high-performing men break free from the performance prison that's left them successful on the outside but hollow within. This channel is your roadmap from isolation to brotherhood, from achievement to fulfillment, from doing to being.Men who join us report deeper connections, clearer purpose, and the courage to lead from truth within 30 days.Connect with me: https://www.instagram.com/iamstumurray/ | www.stumurray.com🔺Key Timestamps : 00:00 Hitting Rock Bottom at 20 02:03 The Search for Meaning Begins 03:05 First Awakening: A Leadership Conference Changes Everything 05:59 Confessions of a Lustful Life & Financial Collapse 07:14 Second Awakening: A Leap of Faith into Christianity 11:31 What It Means to Lead With Love 15:00 Living With Faith in Business & Leadership 18:45 The Power of Transformational Leadership 25:18 Masculinity, Wounds, and the ‘Leader vs. Loser’ Framework 32:41 Message to My Son: “You Are Loved”

Most men don’t realize it—but the reason she’s pulling away isn’t about sex or success. It’s because she can’t feel you anymore.

Emotional repression, overthinking, or “being the rock”... it’s killing your connection.

In this video, I’ll show you why real strength isn’t about staying shut down—and how reclaiming your emotional power can actually save your relationship without making you weak.

This is for men tired of walking on eggshells, men who know there's more to life than checking boxes and numbing out at night.

🔥 TAKE THE NEXT STEP

→ Join the Brothrhood (Men's Community): https://www.brothr.life/brothrhood

The arena where men break through performance and build lives of authentic power.

📘 NOT READY YET?

→ Get the Free Becoming Blueprint: https://www.brothr.life/your-blueprint

A roadmap to reconnect with your purpose and break free from hollow achievement.

ABOUT STU MURRAY & BROTHR

I help high-performing men break free from the performance prison that's left them successful on the outside but hollow within. This channel is your roadmap from isolation to brotherhood, from achievement to fulfillment, from doing to being.

Men who join us report deeper connections, clearer purpose, and the courage to lead from truth within 30 days.

Connect with me: https://www.instagram.com/iamstumurray/ | www.stumurray.com

Key Timestamps

00:00 - She's Slipping Away

00:18 - What She Really Needs

01:33 - The Wake-Up Call

02:16 - Why She Doesn’t Trust You

05:10 - Reclaim Your Emotions (Breathwork)

07:38 - Lead With Presence

What happens when the life you built starts to feel like a prison?

In this raw and powerful conversation, Chris Goguen shares his journey from a decade working in corrections to rediscovering purpose, fatherhood, and emotional freedom.

He opens up about the cost of living out of alignment, the identity crisis that nearly broke him, and the healing practices that brought him back to life.In this episode,

we explore:

🔺The hidden toll of performing masculinity

🔺What it really means to rebuild your identity as a man

🔺How doing hard things with intention creates emotional resilience

🔺The power of brotherhood and being seen by other men

🔺Why nervous system regulation is the new self-mastery

🔥 TAKE THE NEXT STEP→ Join the Brothrhood (Men's Community): https://www.brothr.life/brothrhood

The arena where men break through performance and build lives of authentic power.

📘 NOT READY YET?→ Get the Free Becoming Blueprint: https://www.brothr.life/your-blueprint

A roadmap to reconnect with your purpose and break free from hollow achievement.

ABOUT STU MURRAY & BROTHR

help high-performing men break free from the performance prison that's left them successful on the outside but hollow within. This channel is your roadmap from isolation to brotherhood, from achievement to fulfillment, from doing to being.

Men who join us report deeper connections, clearer purpose, and the courage to lead from truth within 30 days.

Connect with me: https://www.instagram.com/iamstumurray/ | www.stumurray.com

🔶 Key Timestamps --00:00 – A Life Beyond the Conventional04:18 – Losing It All to Find Himself08:00 – Fatherhood, Faith, and Fitness17:41 – The Brotherhood that Healed Him27:10 – Masculinity, Feminine Energy & Toxic Labels38:00 – Validation, Spiritual Reckonings & Internal Worth46:47 – Daily Tools for Inner Peace57:15 – Needs, Boundaries & Better Communication1:17:00 – From Doing to Being1:30:00 – Final Reflections & Facing Fear