Episode 80 of the Schein On Podcast spotlights Nikki Tucker, a personal financial strategist and certified divorce financial analyst. Nikki shares her expertise on finance management pre- and post-divorce, emphasizing the importance of prenups, staying organized, and having open financial discussions in relationships. The show also delves into how public figures handle relationship scrutiny, the impact of social media on divorce settlements, and offers listener advice on navigating extended separations. Tune in for a blend of practical financial advice and engaging conversations on trending topics.

More on Nikki at https://thefiirmapproach.com/

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01:30 Halloween Highlights and Pop Culture

03:08 Daylight Saving Time Debate

04:29 Divorce and TikTok

07:34 Halloween Candy Controversy

10:41 Jessica Simpson's Marriage Rumors

12:37 Ask Evan: Legal Separation vs. Divorce

15:46 Interview with Nikki Tucker: Marriage and Money

20:05 Prenup Discussions: Protecting Each Other

22:07 Financial Transparency in Marriage

22:46 Common Financial Mistakes During Divorce

25:55 Rebuilding Financial Confidence Post-Divorce

28:24 Rewarding Financial Milestones

30:38 Nikki's Personal Philosophy and Advice

35:05 Famous Quotes and Financial Wisdom

40:28 Wrapping Up: Final Thoughts and Contact Info

A thought-provoking discussion on marriage, divorce, and mental health with Dr. Monica Vermani, a Toronto-based clinical psychologist and author of 'A Deeper Wellness.' Evan and Dr. Vermani delve into the complexities of emotional well-being during life transitions such as divorce. The episode features insightful conversation on topics ranging from the importance of tuning into one's authentic truth amidst external noise, to practical advice for those contemplating a move amidst a potential divorce. The episode also brings thoughtful commentary on the stigma surrounding mental health and the importance of resilience and self-compassion.

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03:00 Celebrity Divorce: Jeremy Allen White

06:52 Political Differences Leading to Divorce

09:47 Ask Evan: Moving and Divorce

12:17 Interview with Dr. Monica Vermani

37:02 Embracing Uncertainty and Building Confidence

37:45 Learning from Patients and Personal Growth

38:55 The Importance of Self-Care for Therapists

41:29 The Journey of Writing 'A Deeper Wellness'

42:54 Creating Accessible Mental Health Resources

49:10 The Role of Mentors and Personal Development

52:07 The Impact of Vulnerability and Resilience

59:22 Addressing Mental Health Stigmas and Narratives

01:04:59 Navigating Divorce and Its Emotional Impact

01:09:28 Conclusion and Resources for Mental Wellness

The guest is Rhonda Noordyk, a renowned divorce financial strategist and host of the podcast 'Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women.' Evan and Rhonda discuss the true meaning of disruption in divorce, emphasizing challenging the status quo for better outcomes. Rhonda shares her journey from the financial industry to specializing in helping women navigate the financial complexities of divorce. The episode covers crucial topics like the emotional and strategic aspects of divorce, the significance of understanding money stories from childhood, and practical advice on financial stability during the divorce process.

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01:54 July 4th Weekend Plans

03:20 The Role of a Divorce Lawyer

06:11 Client-Lawyer Relationship Dynamics

09:34 Gray Divorce Insights

12:35 Ask Evan: Legal Grounds for Divorce

14:33 Interview with Rhonda Noordyk

24:26 Strategic Thinking in Divorce

25:14 Misconceptions About Financial Stability

27:19 Building Financial Confidence

28:27 Handling Emotional Decisions

32:57 Changes Needed in Divorce Industry

35:19 The Women's Financial Wellness Center

38:26 Future Vision and Impact

42:09 Lessons Learned from Clients

44:59 Fun Segment: They Said It

50:54 Conclusion and Resources

Evan delves into intimate and profound discussions with Melissa Urban, the co-founder and CEO of Whole30, and a six-time New York Times bestselling author. The conversation covers a wide range of topics including Melissa's personal journey through divorce, drug addiction recovery, the growth of Whole30, and her new book, 'The Book of Boundaries.' They also discuss current events such as a Missouri law related to divorce during pregnancy, quick divorces post-wedding, and the possibilities of mediation and collaborative divorce. The episode ends with practical advice from Melissa on setting boundaries in various life scenarios. This episode is packed with profound insights and real-life experiences on life, relationships, and personal growth.

More on Melissa at https://www.melissau.com/

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01:06 Melissa Urban's Journey: From Addiction to Whole30

02:17 Discussing Divorce Laws and Social Etiquette

08:21 Ask Evan: Mediation and Collaborative Divorce

11:34 Melissa Urban on Personal Growth and Boundaries

27:24 Navigating Emotional Responses in Divorce

27:58 The Book of Boundaries: Concept and Format

30:23 Nature Church: Finding Peace in the Mountains

32:17 Whole30: Personalized Health and Wellness

33:33 Life Advice and Personal Legacy

38:00 They Said It: Boundary Setting Scenarios

48:07 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Find Lisa at https://lisasmithadvisory.com/

On IG: @girlwalksout

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Evan welcomes Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry, co-founders of 'Been There Got Out,' and acclaimed authors of the must-read book on navigating toxic relationships and high-conflict divorces. Their conversation delves deep into the indicators of toxic relationships, emphasizing the often-hidden nature of emotional and financial abuse. Lisa shares her personal story of living in an abusive relationship for two decades, highlighting the difficulty in recognizing and admitting to being in such a situation. Both Lisa and Chris discuss the concept of coercive control, explaining its detrimental impact on relationship dynamics and emphasizing the importance of conflict in healthy interactions. The discussion also covers the strategies for handling high-conflict co-parenting situations, underscoring the necessity of detailed and enforceable parenting plans to mitigate post-divorce manipulation. Finally, they touch upon the pervasive issue of legal abuse in the court system and share insights into navigating such challenges, including the empowerment found in self-representation and the importance of focusing on recovery and support.

More at https://beentheregotout.com/

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'Our Son' filmmaker Peter Nickowitz joins the show to talk about the film's themes of family dynamics, relationships, power struggles, love, intimacy, and passion. The film is groundbreaking in addressing a child-custody struggle for a same-sex couple.

Watch 'Our Son' on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/amzn1.dv.gti.35fc6343-49f9-4b0b-baaf-549559b93a89?autoplay=0&ref_=atv_cf_strg_wb