Does it seem like you disagree and argue about almost everything in your relationship? A listener writes in to ask how to get his point across without arguing with his wife. Maybe you've wondered the same. In this episode, I am sharing a powerful communication tool (also a conversation starter) called the Mirror Moment. This practice will help you to explain your perspective or opinion to someone else and help them to do the same.

Even when you disagree, you will both now see each other, not just the problem, and will be much more likely to come to a consensus without the need for arguing, yelling, or drama.

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Do you constantly second-guess yourself, shrink back in relationships, or feel like you’re never quite “enough”? Insecurity has a way of creeping into every area of our lives—our marriages, careers, friendships, and even our faith. But the good news? Confidence isn’t about perfection. It’s about knowing who you are and "whose" you are.

In today’s episode, I unpack the root causes of insecurity and offer practical, faith-based steps to start rebuilding your confidence from the inside out. You’ll learn how to identify the lies that fuel low self-worth and replace them with life-giving truth that aligns with your God-given identity.

If you've ever felt stuck in cycles of self-doubt, this episode will help you break free—and believe again in the version of you that God designed.

This episode originally aired on July 16, 2024 and is your sweet repeat for today.

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This was one of our highest-rated episodes of the Q & A series and, therefore, deserving of a "sweet repeat." Many spouses can relate to the feeling of "falling out of love" with their spouse, yet not wanting to divorce their spouse. If you have ever experienced prolonged resentment or boredom in your relationship, listen up. Learn how to overcome feeling stuck in your marriage while working on communication. If you're struggling to find motivation to stay married or are unsure about the next steps for your marriage, this episode is for you.

We discuss how resentment happens, its relationship to unforgiveness, and some practical steps to take when living in a boring marriage.

Links Mentioned in this Episode:

🔗 Ep. 88: The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse in Relationships

🔗 Protect or Rebuild Your Marriage from Infidelity

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Are you going through something in your life and need to be reminded that you're not alone? I am so grateful to know that God sees, provides, and is always with me. In this episode, I'm helping you to discover this God, to truly know Him intimately and personally—the difference between head knowledge and heart experience.

Drawing inspiration from a recent meeting with a group of women leaders I mentor, we'll explore some of the powerful names of God from scripture, illustrating how each name reveals a distinct aspect of God’s character that directly impacts our lives and marriages.

Key Points & Topics:

• The Meaning of "Knowing God"
• The Power of God's Names
• Affirmations from the Word of God
• Learning Through Trials
  
  

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• Video: When You Feel Unnoticed, Invisible, and Unappreciated

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I love today's listener's question about the different travel styles she and her husband have. Our listener, Carrie, wants to know how to vacation when she and her husband have different vacation interests and travel needs. In this episode, I discuss the importance of travel as a means to reconnect and recharge, while also discussing the necessity of compromise and individual preferences during vacations. Plus, I share some personal anecdotes and practical tips for making travel enjoyable for both spouses, ultimately highlighting the value of creating lasting memories together. It's a fun and funny episode today. Enjoy!

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Here are the 7 Secrets of a Fulfilling and Lasting Marriage

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Does it seem like your spouse doesn’t listen to you? Maybe you find yourself wondering how to talk so they will listen and understand you. Listening skills are an essential part of communication in relationships, and one that trips many people up. Today’s episode (a sweet repeat from 2023) will teach you the right communication principles to guide you toward a better understanding and better conversations with your partner.

I discuss common communication mistakes partners make when communicating and the importance of listening skills. I also offer practical and “pro” tips for better communication. We also explore how to approach sensitive topics, the importance of timing and mood, and how to influence your partner to listen to you when you communicate. It's a good one! Let's dive in.

Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

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Check out my From Conflict to Connection Course here.

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Have you considered a separation in your marriage? A listener wrote asking about the right way to do a separation. How long should it be? What are the "rules of engagement"? We're discussing reasons for separation, establishing clear rules, and knowing the realities of the situation, including the need for a timeline and the significance of having a plan for reconciliation (or not!).

Takeaways:

• A separation doesn't necessarily solve the problem.
• Know your why before entering a separation.
• Establish rules of engagement prior to separation.
• Separation can be beneficial if done correctly.
• Seek professional help before deciding on separation.
• A plan is better than no plan at all.
• Resources are available to help couples reignite their marriage

Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

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I know you have good intentions, but want to know if you are helping or enabling? This episode will help you to discover if you are indeed an enabler: what it really means, the signs you might be an enabler, and the dangers of mistaking enabling for grace (especially within Christian circles and families). I share about my strength in setting boundaries, shaped by the experiences I witnessed growing up, and share practical advice for those who recognize enabling patterns in their marriage, parenting, and relationships.

🔎 What you’ll learn:

• What enabling REALLY is (and why it’s not the same as grace!)
• The difference between peacemaking and “peace-faking” ✌️
• How enabling shows up in families, churches, relationships & even parenting
• Why true grace is about EMPOWERMENT, not making excuses 💪
• 4 main reasons we enable (and how to break free!)

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Lysa TerKeurst’s Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: https://amzn.to/43V94wj

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“Peacemaking or Peacefaking?” Rebuilding Us Podcast episode: Listen here.

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