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Permission to be Powerful Podcast

Permission to be Powerful Podcast

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 “Permission to Be Powerful” is your battle cry for breaking free from self-doubt, reclaiming your voice, and living life unapologetically on your terms.

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  • The Wall of Brunettes

    The Wall of Brunettes
    2025/06/01
    Dear Permission to be Powerful Reader,The other night, I went out dancing. Some guy got jealous.He wouldn’t let me dance with his girl.And honestly…I couldn’t have been more flattered.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I joke with one of my lady friends that when I go dancing, I’m doing a public service for all women. Sounds crazy…And extremely arrogant... But that doesn’t mean it isn’t true.Some of these women have been alone or stuck in a lifeless relationship for decades.Some of them can’t remember the last time a man made them feel sexy.Sometimes, there’s an older lady sullen in a corner.Nobody’s dancing with her.I always do.Try to imagine what life is like for me as a salsa dancer.I’m an expert at making women smile, laugh, and play.Sounds like a public service to me.I feel like Batman in my black car.Like I’m fighting crime one woman at a time.By the end of the night, I feel like I have more lady friends than anyone.I dance with everyone twice.And…When I do…I make them feel seen. Not looked at.Seen. There’s another girl. She stares longingly into my eyes for the whole song.This is very unusual.But she does it every time.She never says a word.But somehow, telepathically, we understand each other perfectly.She never looks away.And, she’s not a great dancer.Yet each dance feels like a precious gift for both of us.When the dance ends, she’s filled with gratitude.I’m giving her something she desperately needs.Something rare and hard to find.Last night, after a year of dancing with this silent vixen, she introduced her boyfriend to me for the first time.I look over her shoulder, and he gives me a fleeting look of murderous intent as we dance together.The song ends.Then, off I go to the next one.I know what I like.And I love brunettes.Viscerally. Artistically. Spiritually.I will skip three blondes to talk to a brunette.They do something to me. There’s a frequency brunettes give off. I see a long brunette maine…And I’m like a bull seeing red.And for whatever reason—they tend to love me back.So, yesterday I made a wall. Right above my desk.I call it: The Wall of Brunettes.Now, THAT’S what I call a vision board! My friend Joanne got me this deck of cards for my birthday.She knows me so well. I’ve had them for over a year, but I was too embarrassed about displaying them until now.I didn’t want to be viewed as tacky, or worse.But when I think about the human that I am…I just love women. All day long. Now that I’m out in the dancing scene after a long stretch of isolation, that feeling is clearer than ever.I’m reveling in all the female energy.It’s giving me life. I savor it.There’s nothing like coming home after a night full of dancing and smelling like eight different women.I sniff and reminisce.But then the other day, I asked an internet marketer friend what I should do to grow my brand. She goes:“You need a clear customer avatar. Focus on divorced men.”Divorced men.Yikes.No offense to the bros out there, but that sounds like my actual worst nightmare.Surrounding myself with sad men? No girls anywhere?Shoot me now.I’ll gladly coach men—but not at the expense of writing for women.I have a massive—and I mean massive—preference for women over men. Always have. Always will.If I were the last man on Earth, and the rest of the population was a tribe of Amazons, I’d be thriving. They could feed me scraps and make me sleep in a damp cave—I’d still die smiling.Let the matriarchy rise—I’ll bring the lotion.We need a female president with an all-female cabinet, to bring the United States to a new golden age. Don’t knock it till you try it.It’s to the point where literally all of my close friends are women. And, I’ve noticed something strange...What passes for friendship among men would NEVER fly with women.But that’s a story for another day.Point is: I’m not here to diss men.I just adore women.Why is this so deeply wired in me? Lol. Can you blame me?But, seriously, there are reasons for this.I’m not just some cartoon character.There were forces in my environment which made this preference develop inside me.Growing up in a misogynistic country.Seeing men dominate women.Abuse them.Rape them.Devalue them.And get away with literal murder.Conversely, the women in my life growing up possessed remarkable character.They were far more empathetic.Far more underrated.But it’s clear enough to me now that when I dance — I’m doing it for them.My internet marketer friend got me shook after recommending an all-male audience.It made me want to go in the opposite direction.And write something that caters explicitly to women.So today, this post isn’t for guys.This one’s for women — because you stir something holy and unhinged in me.From here, I’m going to let Romeo Santos do the talking.I must admit, I have a way with words.But when it comes to speaking to the ladies.Romeo is ...
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  • I'm Creating A Course About Boundaries

    I'm Creating A Course About Boundaries
    2025/05/31
    Editor’s Note: I want to send a special shoutout to Michael Reif — my new founding member. I’m so honored that you believe in this cause. Thank you. ⚠️ Heads up before we dive in:This isn’t a finished course yet. You’re about to read a draft sales page I’m using to test demand.If you upgrade today, you’re not buying a product—you’re backing the birth of one.That means:No portalNo modulesNot yet.However, with that said, by upgrading to VIP, you will be part of the creation process, and get to ask me questions live. I’ll build this only if enough people say: “This is what I need.”My thinking is that if at least 3 people upgrade today, I’ll make the course right away. If that’s you, thank you. If not, no pressure—just read and take what hits home.Dear Permission to be Powerful Reader,"The Day I Snapped…"There was a moment. Not a metaphorical one. A literal one.Phone in hand. Thumb hovering over “Send.”I had a choice: finally speak the truth… or keep swallowing it down.I hit send. The message was simple."Please don’t contact me again. I’m done."And just like that, years of resentment collapsed into peace.I stared at the screen, heart pounding like a war drum. And for the first time in my life, I felt like a man.Not just a boy trying to please. Not just someone performing. Not someone scared of being abandoned if he dared to draw a line.A man. With a spine.The aftermath?There were tears. Threats. Guilt trips. Stories twisted. Friendships tested. Rage. Silence. A smear campaign.But you know what else happened?I slept better than I had in years.I walked into rooms taller.I stopped feeling like a victim and started acting like someone who owned his life.And here’s what I need you to hear:The day you set a boundary is the day you start telling the truth.Not just to others.But to yourself.This isn’t about being mean. Or cutting people off just because they annoy you.It’s about reclaiming your time.Your peace.Your dignity.Your f*cking life.Because if you don’t protect your energy… someone else will exploit it.This is the law of the jungle.And if you don’t know how to set a boundary, the world will keep walking all over you — treating you like a doormat.I’ve been there.👉 The slow erosion of self.👉 The thousand tiny compromises.👉 The dinners I didn’t want to go to.👉 The phone calls I didn’t want to answer.👉 The fake “haha”s in text replies I didn’t mean.All of it.Death by a thousand shoulds.Until one day you wake up and you don’t recognize yourself anymore.That’s why I built this course.Not because I’m a therapist.Not because I have a PhD.But because I’ve walked the battlefield.I honed my skills by dealing with some truly formidable adversaries.And I survived.I created a system so you don’t have to collapse first.So you don’t have to wait until you’re shaking with rage and resentment to speak up.So you don’t have to cry yourself to sleep again after agreeing to something you never wanted.This isn’t about being a hardass.This is about being free.And the path to freedom starts with one word:No.Let me show you how to say it—with calm, conviction, and power that cannot be touched.Because let’s be real:Most people will not honor your needs until you force them to.We hope they’ll “just get it.”We hope they’ll “take the hint.”We think if we’re nice enough, they’ll stop.But they don’t.Manipulators don’t stop until you slam the door.Energy vampires don’t quit until you turn off the light.Control freaks don’t change until you stop playing their game.You think you’re being kind. But what you’re actually being… is complicit.You’re enabling their behavior.You’re training them to expect more from you than you’re willing to give.This isn’t your fault.But it is your responsibility.Let me tell you one more story.I was stuck in a soul-sucking marriage.Emotionally abusive. Spiritually draining. Financially controlling.Before I decided to leave, I started setting boundaries.One text at a time.One room at a time.One breath at a time.Three months later, I wasn’t out yet…But I was standing up.Speaking clearly.Saying no.Now? I’m free.And I tell you this:You don’t need to be a warrior. You just need someone to show you how to start.I’ll show you how to start.I’ll show you how to finish.I’ll show you how to protect what’s sacred.Your time.Your mind.Your soul.It begins now.Good Boundaries Change Your Entire Quality of LifeHere are some examples…* Your family expects you to attend every holiday event.* ❌ Without boundaries: You go to all of them, stretched thin.* ✅ With boundaries: You choose what nourishes you and politely decline the rest.* Your date keeps pushing for physical intimacy before you're ready.* ❌ Without boundaries: You go along out of pressure.* ✅ With boundaries: You say, “I need to move at my own pace,” * Your employer asks you to stay late—again.* ...
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    18 分
  • The Cost of Being Too Nice

    The Cost of Being Too Nice
    2025/05/30
    Dear Permission to be Powerful Reader,I have a lifelong habit, and it’s sad. I can’t believe I spent my whole life being this way. Not only that, I never even really noticed. I had been so used to being this way I didn’t know how not to be this way.It just faded into the background. I overshare, overgive… It’s the most obvious truth that I was utterly oblivious to.I am currently so upset with my father for turning me into this. When I was a boy, my father only spent time with me if I did what he wanted. He never took a genuine interest in me but for a few fleeting moments. And, being a child, I was so desperate to get his attention that I made up my mind that if I had to get his attention by doing whatever he wanted, then so be it.This is a terrible way to live your life. People pick up on this vibe very quickly. It speaks volumes about what kind of person I was — a mark. There is a certain kind of person who lusts after a person like me. This type of person desperately craves control. They want more than they will ever give.So, I was set up to be exploited in my personal and professional relationships. I married a woman who fully expected me to bend backward for her, yet she felt perfectly justified in never reciprocating that. She didn’t even know where to start. She was so profoundly used to overtaking.Give and give and give and give.It comes out of my pathological need for others’ approval. Precedents are so important. Once I set that precedent — where people knew they could exist in my life for free — they knew I had no expectations from them. That created a lifelong pattern of being in one-sided relationships. SO EXHAUSTING.These days, I watch this particular pattern like a hawk. I’ve refused to add new contacts to my phone until I’ve seen ample proof that someone deserves to be in my life. It’s a simple fail-safe.Last night, I texted this girl I like. I told myself I wouldn’t text her until she initiated the conversation to see proof that she was invested in me, but I couldn’t resist. I only texted her once but decided to delete her number because I couldn’t resist. That way, I could only keep this interaction going if she demonstrated that she wanted to talk to me.I find this particular habit to be so sad yet revealing. It tells me that when I was little, I decided to do anything for some love and attention. The other party could have me at any price. Whatever you want, I’ll give because I have no value whatsoever.Make no mistake — this is an addiction or a compulsion, at the very least.I like to be giving. And, technically, there isn’t anything wrong with that. The only problem is… I discovered that I was projecting my expectations onto other people. Some people don’t feel obligated to reciprocate when they know they can have your time and energy for free.From my point of view, the whole idea is: I’ll be nice to you, and you’ll be nice to me. But some people can’t tell the difference between kindness and weakness. Sometimes, kindness is viewed as a weakness to be exploited.Remember, this is a fact that the offender will never admit it outright. If they’re nefarious enough to exploit your weaknesses, they already know their actions are wrong. You’re preaching science to a creationist. They’re not going to hear you.I’ve been telling myself privately that I’m an expert in psychology. Technically, that’s not true, but I believe it anyway. Because I spent so much time reading psychology books and working with people, I gave myself a world-class education from self-study.First, my business has been my laboratory for almost 15 years. I’ve conducted thousands of Zoom calls, worked with different types of people, and become extremely good at influencing them.It takes influence to convince someone to pay you $10,000. See what I mean? That’s no small feat. I have to empathize with that person deeply. And I have to be a certain kind of professional for them. I am the expert who can make millions from his words.Writing for Tony’s audience of 2 million people also gave me a gigantic dataset against which to test my copywriting skills. I’ve had hundreds, if not thousands, of discovery calls.Understanding human psychology requires real skill but is a prerequisite for inspiring the masses.I think back to all of the psych books I’ve read. Again, definitely hundreds. I gave myself a completely tailored education. Not a single lesson was wasted. That has taken me to Tony’s doorstep.I got to step into Tony’s mind and his shoes because of all the lessons I’ve learned. What you can achieve by staying the course with one craft is incredible — continually improving over time. My voice is mighty. I live the principles of copy. It’s in my bones. In my very DNA. I am the copy.For whatever reason, my career led me to develop a unique skill set. Those skills helped me overcome this lifelong habit, which is incredible—it’s like voodoo.When I...
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    10 分

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