Ep 127 Description:

“The hospital can be very disempowering. It stops us from going into the role of mother because we seek outside ourselves what they believe is true, yet our body, our innate knowing, knows what's right.” —Amberlee Jay Galea

Pregnancy and birth are often shrouded in fear and misconceptions. Many women grow up hearing horror stories about childbirth, leading to a deep-seated anxiety about the process. However, the human body is designed to birth with power and pleasure, if we can overcome the societal taboos surrounding this natural experience.

Amberlee Jay Galea is a Neuro-Linguistic Programming Master Practitioner and authentic personal brand coach who has rewritten her own birth story, embracing the innate power within her.

Tune in to the first part of the interview with Amberlee as she shares her transformative journey from a disempowered first birth to an orgasmic home birth, where she discovered the pleasure and joy of welcoming her daughter into the world.

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Episode Highlights:

03:15 Why Fear Surrounds Pregnancy and Amberlee’s First Pregnancy

15:12 Discovering NLP

20:15 Preparing for Own Vision of a Home Birth

25:20 EnCaul Birth: Waiting for the Perfect Moment

29:54 Post-Birth Reflections

Ep 126 Description:

“Being able to defend the space that we wanted was really powerful.” —Gowan Batist

Families come in all shapes and sizes, each with their own unique needs and preferences when it comes to childbirth. From the comfort of a hospital setting to the intimacy of a home birth, the journey to welcoming a new life is a deeply personal one. Regardless of the path chosen, each journey is unique and deserves to be honored.

Gowan Batist is a queer Jewish parent, partner, and writer living in the remote wilderness of Northern California. As a passionate advocate for mountain lions and heritage breed sheep, Gowan's lyrical non-fiction essays and birth story inspire others to trust the natural process of childbirth.

Tune in as Gowan discusses navigating rural healthcare as a queer family, creating a supportive birth environment, preparing for labor, the transformative experience of childbirth, and the arrival of their child.

Connect with Debra!

Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com

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Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471

Episode Highlights:

02:06 Navigating Rural Healthcare as a Queer Family

05:54 Creating a Supportive Birth Environment

09:37 Preparing for Birth

13:12 The Experience of Labor

25:01 Making Decisions at Childbirth

29:14 The Importance of Healthcare Systems That Support Families

Ep 125 Description:

“When you feel empowered to make choices about your birth, even if things don't go as planned, you will remain more positively connected to the experience of your body and your baby. Keep your power so your voice and choice are heard.” —Debra Pascali-Bonaro

The concept of risk in childbirth is highly subjective, varying greatly among different healthcare providers and settings. What one caregiver deems as high-risk, another may consider a normal variation. The location of birth can also significantly impact the perceived level of risk, with stark differences in intervention rates between hospitals and home births.

Hence, in this week’s episode, we are going to explore the complex and often misunderstood topic of risk in childbirth.

Tune in as Debra talks about the historical shift from birth as a sacred, communal experience to a medicalized event, the impact of language and fear on the birth process, and practical tips for creating a more positive, pleasurable, and empowering birth journey.

When you feel empowered to make choices about your birth, even if things don't go as planned, you will remain more positively connected to the experience of your body and your baby. Keep your power so your voice and choice are heard.” —Debra Pascali-Bonaro

Understanding risk in childbirth is a pivotal factor in preparing for a birth experience that feels both empowered and pleasurable. However, the concept of risk is highly subjective and can vary significantly depending on the perspective of different healthcare providers and birth settings.

In this episode, Debra Pascali-Bonaro dives into the complex topic of risk in childbirth, discussing how risk is perceived, how it can be influenced by language and fear, and how different birth environments (e.g., hospitals vs. home births) may impact perceptions of safety and intervention rates.

Episode Highlights:

🌟 The historical shift from birth as a sacred, communal experience to a medicalized event
🌟 How language and fear shape our understanding of risk in childbirth
🌟 Exploring the subjective nature of risk: hospital birth vs. home birth
🌟 Practical tips for navigating risk while keeping your voice and choice
🌟 How empowered decision-making leads to a more positive, confident, and pleasurable birth experience

Join Debra as she discusses how understanding risk can empower you to make informed choices and maintain your connection to your body and baby, no matter how your birth unfolds.

Additional Resources:
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Connect with Debra!

Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth

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YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/OrgasmicBirth1

Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@orgasmicbirth

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471

Episode Highlights:

01:19 Understanding Risk in Childbirth

03:45 Impact of Language and Perception of Risk

07:29 The Role of Stress and Fear in Childbirth

08:43 Empowering Birth Through Knowledge and Support

10:35 Birth is Powerful, And So Are You