Priestess Training in Vienna! March - July 2025

The next run of the Priestess Training will be in Vienna.

All the course details are at : https://omrupani.org/practitioner-mastery

Please reach out if you have any questions.

— Om Rupani

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Of Vegans and Nice Guys and Submissives

A broad conversation on my favorite topics of BDSM, Masculinity and Man-Woman Relating in today's culture.

— Om Rupani

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SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS ARE ABOUT GIVING YOUR PARTNER WHAT THEY NEED, WANT & DESIRE.

My personal relationship philosophy is no more complex than the above statement. Give your partner want your partner wants. Contribute to them. Make their life easier. Make their life better. Contribute to their expansion.

Two people doing that for each other — that’s the golden state. That’s heaven on earth as far as human relating is concerned.

Do whatever works.

I personally have no particular philosophy or ideology on HOW A WOMAN SHOULD BE, or HOW A MAN SHOULD BE.

Be however you want. You are a free and sovereign soul. Do your thing. Express yourself as you please. Your life is yours to live.

But, if you want to play the man-woman game, or any relational game, then who you are, how you are, what you do, how you do it - all of that goes into whether you will succeed or fail at being able to give your partner what your partner needs, desires and wants from you.

Everything I teach and talk about is constructed on this metric. My personal approach to creating successful man-woman relating is trying to find as many big pieces that are valid generalizations as to what men want from women and what women want from men. I personally have no other measuring stick, no authority, no higher source regarding men & women. What works? What works most of the time? Let’s try that.

What generalizations are consistent regarding what women want from men?

What generalizations are consistent regarding what men want from women?

Let’s follow those. Let’s build on that data. It’s a pretty reasonable approach.

What makes this simple approach a bit more complicated to implement, is that human beings are not obvious creatures. Our needs and desires are not always plain to see and understand. Many times, men and women themselves don’t have clear understanding of their true needs and desires. This is where a little digging is needed. This is where insight into our nature is needed.

These insights often ruffle feathers among people when they go against people’s self-concepts of what it means to be a good man or woman. But arguing with the insight, or the insight-bringer, is not really necessary. You be the judge of what is working in your relationships. If you and your partner are mutually happy and thriving, ignore everyone blabbering their relationship advice. What do you care? You are already succeeding at your relationships. You are happy and thriving. Keep doing what you are doing.

If what you have been doing has not been working and creating great results in your relationships, then it might be worthwhile to consider that some new data and action might be needed for you to create the needed success. Try something new if you want, or don’t. All up to you.

— Om Rupani

https://omrupani.org/bdsm-principles-dom-sub-exploration-course

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