In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey podcast, Lisa Harper speaks with Todd Emrick, Director of Business Development at Wheaton | Bekins, about the complexities of the moving industry, especially as it pertains to older adults. They discuss the importance of understanding the differences between local and interstate moves, the role of brokers, and the significance of Senior Move Management. Todd shares insights on how to navigate the moving process, including packing strategies and the value of certified Senior Move Managers. The conversation emphasizes the emotional and logistical challenges families face when relocating aging loved ones and offers practical advice for ensuring a smooth transition.

Takeaways

The moving industry is vast and varied.
Understanding local vs. interstate movers is crucial.
Brokers may not be the best option for personal moves.
Senior move managers help navigate emotional decisions.
Packing strategies differ for personal vs. professional movers.
Researching movers is essential to avoid scams.
The emotional weight of moving for seniors is significant.
Certified senior move managers can ease the transition process.
Communication with movers about packing is key.
The first impression of a new home is often shaped by the move.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Aging Journey Podcast
01:24 Understanding the Moving Industry
05:08 Navigating Local vs. Interstate Moves
10:34 The Role of Brokers in Moving
13:31 The Importance of Research in Moving
16:12 Senior Move Management Explained
20:32 Packing Strategies for Seniors
23:32 Partners in Packing Program Overview
28:20 Preparing for a Move with Senior Move Managers
30:01 Key Takeaways for Interstate Moves

In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper engages in a heartfelt conversation with Influencer, Speaker, Educator, and Gerontologist, Sondra 'Sam' Cradduck about the complexities of aging and caregiving. They discuss the importance of focusing on living rather than just the inevitability of death, the role of education in empowering caregivers, and the need for honest conversations about aging. Sam shares her unique approach through her organizations, The Living Room and More Than Heart, which aims to provide support and resources for families navigating the aging journey. The conversation also touches on the emotional aspects of caregiving, including grief and the importance of maintaining relationships while managing care responsibilities.

Takeaways

• Aging should focus on living, not just dying.
• Education is key to empowering caregivers.
• Honest conversations about aging can reduce stigma.
• Social media can be a powerful tool for caregiving education.
• Family dynamics play a crucial role in caregiving.
• Grief is not just about loss; it's about changing relationships.
• Caregivers need to give grace to themselves and their loved ones.
• It's important to honor the wishes of aging loved ones.
• Aging comes with limitations, but it doesn't mean losing agency.
• Building relationships is essential in the caregiving process.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Aging Conversations
02:02 The Living Room Senior Care: A Unique Approach
05:56 The Importance of Living in Aging
09:49 Changing Perspectives on Aging and Limitations
11:53 Breaking the Stigma: Honest Conversations about Aging
19:20 Navigating Family Dynamics in Caregiving
25:13 Grace in Caregiving: Understanding Roles and Relationships
28:23 Navigating Grief and Loss
30:01 Understanding Anticipatory Grief
31:49 The Emotional Journey of Caregiving
33:33 Resources for Caregivers
37:00 Maintaining Relationships Amidst Caregiving
39:21 The Importance of Open Conversations
41:08 Finding Beauty in Aging
43:09 Honoring Wishes and Living Life Fully

In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper speaks with Dr. Karina Loyo about her book, Longevity Blueprint for Health, Wealth, and Purpose - Embracing the Rest of Your Life, which provides a comprehensive guide for navigating aging with confidence and control. They discuss the importance of planning for aging, the need for legal documents, and how to engage aging parents in conversations about their future. Dr. Loyo shares her personal experiences with caregiving and emphasizes the significance of community, connection, and leaving a legacy. The conversation highlights the need for proactive planning and the benefits of intergenerational discussions.

Takeaways

• Planning for aging is essential and should start early.
• Women often face financial crises due to caregiving roles.
• Aging in place begins at 40; preparation is key.
• Legal documents should be in place by age 18.
• Conversations about aging should involve the whole family.
• Planning is a gift to your children, reducing their burden.
• Health and wellness are crucial as we age.
• Community and social connections are vital for mental health.
• Sharing stories and legacies enrich family bonds.
• Embrace the journey of aging with intention and purpose.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to Aging Conversations

02:21
The Longevity Blueprint: A Personal Journey

06:46
The Importance of Planning for Aging

10:17
Adulting 101: Preparing for Aging

12:10
The Longevity Economy and Generational Planning

13:55
Engaging Family in Aging Conversations

16:38
The Gift of Planning for Your Children

22:00
Taking Control of Your Aging Journey

24:06
The Importance of Planning Ahead

26:53
Navigating Family Dynamics and Grief

28:17
Mental and Physical Health in Aging

30:07
Building Community and Social Connections

30:56
The Value of Storytelling and Legacy

33:38
Engaging with Older Generations

37:42
Embracing Life's Journey

40:04
The Best You is Yet to Come

In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper speaks with Jami Shapiro, the creator and host of the Grandma Has ADHD podcast and a Senior Move Manager - owner of Silver Linings Transitions Team in San Diego, CA. They talk about the importance of proactive conversations regarding aging and the emotional complexities involved in moving and managing life transitions. They discuss the significance of understanding ADHD in seniors, the concept of grief hoarding, and the need for families to engage in meaningful discussions about legacies and belongings. Jamie shares insights on how to make moving a magical experience and emphasizes the importance of planning for the future with grace and curiosity.

Key Takeaways

• Proactive conversations about aging lead to better outcomes.
• Senior Move Management is a vital service that many are unaware of.
• Understanding ADHD in seniors is crucial for effective support.
• Grief hoarding can complicate the process of downsizing.
• Families should engage in discussions about legacies and belongings.
• Creating a magical moving experience can ease stress for seniors.
• It's important to distinguish between hoarding and disorganization.
• Planning for the future should be a shared family responsibility.
• Embracing the aging process can lead to a more fulfilling life.
• Community support is essential for those navigating ADHD.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating the Aging Journey
05:35 Embracing Aging with Humor and Grace
11:04 Making Moves Magical
20:56 Navigating Grief and Hoarding
26:05 Sharing Stories and Legacies
29:50 The Not Ready Yet Conundrum

Resources

https://grandmahasadhd.com/

https://silverliningstransitions.com/jami-shapiro-informative-speeches/

In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper and Mark Oelze discuss the importance of navigating difficult conversations, especially regarding aging and family dynamics. Mark introduces his PLEDGEtalk framework, which consists of six sequential steps designed to facilitate conflict resolution and improve communication. The conversation emphasizes the need for emotional intelligence, active listening, and the importance of giving space and time for reflection in conversations. Mark shares personal anecdotes that illustrate the effectiveness of the PLEDGEtalk approach, encouraging listeners to engage in proactive discussions with their loved ones.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Difficult Conversations
04:59 The Importance of Pausing
10:24 Echoing and Validating
20:27 Navigating Family Conversations
24:40 Giving Space and Time
30:20 The Value of Relationships

Takeaways

Conflict resolution is essential in all relationships.
The PLEDGE framework consists of six steps: Pause, Listen, Echo, Disarm, Give, Engage.
Taking a pause can help diffuse emotions and prevent escalation.
Listening to understand, not to respond, is crucial.
Validating others' feelings can disarm tension in conversations.
Conversations about aging should be approached with empathy and understanding.
It's important to give loved ones time to process information.
Engaging in meaningful dialogue requires both parties to be open and willing to listen.
Proactive conversations can prevent crises and improve relationships.
The PLEDGE framework can be applied in various contexts, not just marriage.

More info

https://pledgetalk.com/

https://www.amazon.com/PLEDGE-Lifetime-Connection-through-Conflict/dp/171710102X