You don’t have to tell everything to help someone heal.

In this powerful episode, Heather O’Brien is joined by coach and podcast host Kristin Kurtz to explore how discernment helps you know what—and when—to share from your story. If you’ve ever been afraid to speak up or wondered if your testimony even matters, this episode will remind you: your voice carries healing. And silence doesn’t mean you’re broken.

Whether you feel stuck, scared, or unsure what God wants you to say, this conversation will help you partner with Him to unlock healing—for yourself and others.

• How to discern what parts of your story to share
  
  

• Why sharing your testimony brings healing even if you feel unqualified
  
  

• What it looks like to be a spiritual first responder with your voice
  
  

• How to overcome fear of judgment or “not enough-ness” when sharing
  
  

• Why your voice still matters—even if it's not perfect or public
  
  

• 🌐 Website: https://newwingscoaching.net
  
  

• 🎧 Podcast: Hope Unlocked on Apple Podcasts
  
  

Scripture: “Open your mouth wide, and I will fill it.” – Psalm 81:10

Prayer: Father, thank You for the story You’ve written in me. I surrender it back to You.
Teach me to discern—not just what to say, but when to say it.
Make me bold when You lead, quiet when You ask, and always in tune with Your Spirit.
Let my voice be a first responder for healing in someone else’s life.

Declaration: God, You said, “Open your mouth wide, and I will fill it.” Therefore, I am Spirit-led and I will speak with boldness. {insert your name}, you are discerning and you will unlock hope through your testimony.

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Forgiveness is hard. Forgiveness after betrayal? It can feel impossible.
If you’ve ever said, “I forgave them… but I’m still hurting,” or “I can’t let go of what I did,” you’re not alone—and you're not broken.

In this episode, I was honored to be a guest on Beyond Broken Vows with Emily & Johnny Spigelmire, where we talk about the deep work of forgiveness after betrayal, sexual sin, and shame. This isn’t surface-level forgiveness. It’s a deliverance path that brings real peace.

We talk about why you still feel pain after forgiving, how to grieve with God, and why full healing includes blessing the person who hurt you.

• What forgiveness from the heart actually means (biblically)
  
  

• How to know if you’ve really let go—or just tried to
  
  

• Why grief is the missing first step in most forgiveness journeys
  
  

• How betrayed and betrayer alike can break shame and receive healing
  
  

🎧 Listen now—and if you’re ready to walk this out personally, my Journey to Healing from Injustices workbook is your next step.
It’s short, powerful, and designed to walk you through these exact steps with God.

👉 Get the workbook: heatherobrien.net/healing-from-injustices

Scripture: “Forgive from your heart… just as your Heavenly Father forgave you.” – Matthew 18:35
Prayer: God, I don’t want to carry this any longer. Teach me how to grieve with You, forgive with You, and bless even those who’ve hurt me.
Declaration: God, You said to forgive from the heart. Therefore, I am and I will walk in freedom. {insert your name}, you are and you will forgive fully and walk unchained.

🎧 Listen to Beyond Broken Vows Podcast with Johnny & Emily Spigelmire: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/beyond-broken-vows-christian-marriage-adultery-pornography/id1689785999

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Even the most faith-filled believers secretly wonder: “What if God’s promises aren’t for me?”
This episode isn’t just a message—it’s a moment. A raw, real-time deliverance session that exposes the lie that healing is for everyone but you.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in shame, spiritually dry, or like you’re cheering everyone else on while silently wondering if you’ll ever get your breakthrough—this episode is for you.

In this live coaching session with Lisa Moore and Regina Hehir, you’ll witness the exact 3-step deliverance process to break agreement with the “But Me” lie and finally believe what God says about you.

• How to discern the subconscious lies keeping you spiritually stuck
  
  

• What real deliverance looks like in the middle of emotional healing
  
  

• Why healing with prayer isn’t optional—it’s your invitation to freedom
  
  

🎧 Press play and then grab your seat for the next Prophetic Healing Workshop on May 19 → heatherobrien.net/workshop

Scripture + Prayer + Declaration

Scripture: “You shall know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” – John 8:32
Prayer: God, I break agreement with every lie that says I’m the exception to Your love and healing.
Declaration: God, You said, “You shall know the truth…” Therefore, I am and I will walk in truth. {insert your name}, you are and you will be free from the “But Me” lie in Jesus’ name.

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