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The difference between being pursued and being parked isn’t always loud — sometimes, it’s hidden in delayed replies, “busy” excuses, and just enough effort to keep you confused. In this episode of Weekend Red Flags, we’re calling it out: breadcrumbing, delulu dating, glamorized inconsistency, and the twisted trend of mistaking anxiety for attraction.

Is he really trying to get to know you… or just keeping you on the bench until something better comes along?

Hosted by Erica Bell, Eric Marquette, Lacey Monroe, and Jalen Rhodes — this is your weekly wake-up call to stop mistaking mixed signals for mystery. Let’s get into the red flags you keep giving the benefit of the doubt.

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In this episode we unpacks the emotional mind games, the slow fades, the “I’m not ready” lies, and the passive men who want your energy without giving effort. We’re calling out the difference between chemistry and anxiety, attention and intention, presence and performance.

Because if you’re constantly wondering where you stand — you already have your answer.

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This episode unpacks the harsh reality of why the guy who seemed perfect over text vanished the moment things got real. Eric, Erica, and Ruby break down the psychology behind disappearing acts, exposing how men can build digital intimacy without ever intending to follow through in real life. From love-bombing in the DMs to silence after the first date, they dissect why these so-called connections feel so deep—and why they collapse so fast. If you’ve ever been blindsided by a man who called you “his peace” one week and disappeared the next, this one’s for you. Real talk, real stories, and the clarity you didn’t get from him.

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This episode exposes the digital mirage of modern romance, where texting chemistry often leads to real-life disappointment. Eric, Erica, and Ruby dive into why online flirts so often fizzle offline, breaking down the psychology behind the digital dopamine rush that keeps us hooked on the idea of connection—while ignoring the lack of substance. They unpack how false intimacy thrives behind screens, why some men peak in the DMs and disappear in person, and how to stop confusing emotional exposure with emotional availability. No sugarcoating, no excuses—just raw, unfiltered truth and the tools you need to start vetting for real connection.

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What does it really mean to speak your partner’s love language—and are you even fluent in their emotional needs? In this episode, we break down the Five Love Languages and explore how to apply them in real-life marriages. Whether you’re feeling disconnected or simply want to deepen your bond, we’ll share practical tools, mindset shifts, and examples to help you build a love that speaks volumes—without saying a word.