In this powerful episode of Coursen’s Corner, host Spencer Coursen sits down with Katerina Schload to discuss the evolution of identity through marriage, motherhood, and professional transformation. From redefining success and navigating family dynamics to the importance of fitness, masculinity and femininity, and showing up for yourself — this episode delivers real, grounded advice on becoming who you're meant to be.

Whether you're in a transitional season, exploring self-worth beyond titles, or looking to find alignment in your daily life, this is a must-listen.

Timestamps:

- [00:00 - 04:28] – Intro to Katerina and the conversation setup

- [04:28 - 08:56] – The roles we inherit vs. the ones we create for ourselves

- [08:56 - 13:24] – Biggest lessons learned from marriage and self-awareness

- [13:24 - 17:52] – How adrenaline only takes you so far in long-term growth

- [17:52 - 22:20] – Why fitness is the one thing we can always control

- [22:20 - 26:48] – Perspective on showing up for yourself daily

- [26:48 - 31:16] – Parenting as an identity shift and empowerment experience

- [31:16 - 35:44] – The formula for adults pursuing new passions later in life

- [35:44 - 40:12] – Reframing what success looks like as a parent and professional

- [40:12 - 44:40] – Moving beyond performative hustle: redefining "hard work"

- [44:40 - 49:08] – Masculine vs. feminine energy needs in modern relationships

- [49:08 - 53:36] – “Hard work” doesn’t mean burnout: the American family dilemma

- [53:36 - 58:04] – Analogy for clarity: not knowing what you want vs. showing up anyway

- [58:04 - 01:02:32] – Emotional intelligence as a success metric

- [01:02:32 - 01:07:00] – Closing thoughts: why presence matters more than productivity

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In this episode of Coursen’s Corner, host Spencer Coursen welcomes Brittan Morris for an honest conversation about ambition, identity, and managing multiple passions. From acting and entrepreneurship to emotional growth and relationships, Brittan shares the lessons he’s learned navigating career pressure, family patterns, and the inner dialogue that fuels—or fractures—success. This episode offers powerful takeaways for creatives, entrepreneurs, and anyone struggling to show up fully in all areas of their life.

Timestamps:

- [00:00 - 04:28] – Opening: intro to Brittan Morris & self-awareness in high-performance spaces

- [04:28 - 08:56] – Emotional regulation, childhood conditioning & family communication

- [08:56 - 13:24] – Impact of growing up fast & rebuilding identity

- [13:24 - 17:52] – Masculinity and trauma: what boys inherit about success & silence

- [17:52 - 22:20] – Defining love languages vs. survival responses

- [22:20 - 26:48] – Working on emotional presence in relationships

- [26:48 - 31:16] – Why actors rarely watch their own work & the fear of seeing yourself

- [31:16 - 35:44] – What Brittan believes contributed most to his personal and professional success

- [35:44 - 40:12] – Fear-based behavior and the art of surrender

- [40:12 - 44:40] – How identity shows up in career transitions

- [44:40 - 49:08] – Masculinity, ego, and performance in personal development

- [49:08 - 53:36] – Avoiding burnout and perfectionism traps

- [53:36 - 58:04] – Comparing your chapter 2 to someone else’s chapter 20

- [58:04 - 01:02:32] – Managing multiple ventures & staying intentional

- [01:02:32 - 01:07:00] – Why we’re often better when time is scarce

- [01:07:00 - 01:11:29] – Finding groundedness through structure & creative chaos

- [01:11:29 - 01:15:00] – Processing comparison, envy & purpose

- [01:15:00 - 01:20:18] – Brittan’s go-to quote for hard days + closing reflections

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Laura Desiree is a trailblazing figure in the realms of sex education, intimacy coordination, and erotic performance. With over a decade of experience, she has redefined the landscape of adult content and advocacy. As a certified intimacy coordinator, she has worked on productions like SNCTM, ensuring that performers navigate intimate scenes with safety and authenticity.

Laura’s seven-year tenure as producer and lead anchor for Naked News showcased her ability to blend journalism with sensuality, bringing a unique perspective to adult broadcasting. She further amplified sex-positive narratives through projects like Red Umbrella Talk, a podcast series that delves into the realities of sex work, aiming to destigmatize and humanize the profession.

Beyond the screen, Laura has graced stages worldwide as a burlesque and cabaret performer, infusing her acts with themes of empowerment and liberation. Her commitment to enhancing the adult industry has been evident in her previous role as Lead Brand Strategist for PS: Group and Director of Creator Communications and her current Director of Creator Communications title with Skinfluential Media, where she advocates for improved working conditions and earning opportunities for content creators.

In this bold, unfiltered, and thought-provoking conversation, Laura Desiree joins Spencer Coursen to explore identity, confidence, sensuality, and the evolving cultural conversations around eroticism, performance, and empowerment. They dive deep into what it means to command presence onstage, how sexual pride often conflicts with social norms, and why authentic confidence requires unlearning shame.

Timestamps:

- [00:00 - 04:28] – Opening thoughts on intimacy, connection & first impressions

- [04:28 - 08:56] – The foundation of erotic performance & building confidence in public

- [08:56 - 13:24] – Learning to find your voice through vulnerability

- [13:24 - 17:52] – Erotic visibility, shame, and being seen without fear

- [17:52 - 21:18] – Women, pride, and the sexual identity conflict

- [21:18 - 23:00] – Question 1: Do you create the whole show concept yourself?

- [23:00 - 25:00] – Question 2: How much improvisation is involved in burlesque?

- [25:00 - 29:09] – Establishing connection and reading an audience

- [29:09 - 32:58] – Telling vs selling: vulnerability, seduction, and cheating

- [32:58 - 39:04] – Burlesque as a learning curve: discipline and performance

- [39:04 - 44:00] – Why some men struggle with authentic confidence

- [44:00 - 48:30] – If you want to be confident, this is what it takes

- [48:30 - 53:17] – Sexual climax and the disconnect from its deeper value

- [53:17 - 55:58] – Shared emotional roadblocks between men and women

- [55:58 - 01:01:00] – How to make someone feel secure in intimacy

- [01:01:00 - 01:06:00] – Unrealistic relationship expectations in the age of immediacy

- [01:06:00 - 01:13:00] – The power of disagreement: intelligence vs ego

- [01:13:00 - 01:25:23] – Closing thoughts: being seen, and embracing complexity

Links & Resources:

Follow Laura Desiree on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauraxdesiree/?hl=en

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