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Building Unshakable Confidence: Master Your Inner Dialogue, Competence, and Environment
- 2025/03/28
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Welcome to The Confidence Coach: Building Self-Esteem and Self-Belief. I’m Kai, and if you’ve ever doubted yourself, felt like you’re not enough, or questioned your worth, this episode is for you.
Confidence isn’t something you’re born with or without—it’s a skill you build, like a muscle. And just like strength training, it takes consistency, intention, and patience. Self-esteem is how you see yourself, while self-belief is your faith in what you can do. Together, they shape how you show up in the world.
Let’s start with the inner voice. Research shows our thoughts directly influence our confidence. The average person has over 6,000 thoughts per day. If most of those are self-critical, your self-esteem takes a hit. That’s why building self-awareness is step one. Catch the negative inner dialogue and replace it with compassionate, honest affirmations. Not fake positivity—real, grounded truths. You don’t have to say, “I’m perfect.” Instead, say, “I’m learning,” or “I’ve faced hard things before and can do it again.”
Next, let’s talk about competence. You build confidence by doing. Break your goals into small, doable steps. Every action you take builds evidence that you’re capable. Whether it’s speaking up in a meeting, going for a job interview, or sharing your art, the more reps you put in, the more your confidence grows. Mastery leads to belief.
Another powerful tool? Environment. Surround yourself with people who reflect your potential, not your insecurities. Studies show that we become the average of the five people we spend the most time with. Choose supporters, not doubters. If your circle doesn’t inspire progress, it might be time for a shift.
And let’s not forget the role of the body. Movement influences mindset. Exercise, posture, breathwork—all proven to impact feelings of strength and confidence. Stand tall. Breathe deeply. Move with purpose, and your mind will follow.
Lastly, practice self-compassion. Confidence doesn’t mean never failing. It means you trust yourself enough to fail and still keep going. Making peace with imperfection creates the space for courage to thrive.
You already have everything you need within you. This isn’t about becoming someone else—it’s about uncovering who you truly are.
Thanks for listening to The Confidence Coach: Building Self-Esteem and Self-Belief. Make sure to subscribe so we can keep growing, together.
Confidence isn’t something you’re born with or without—it’s a skill you build, like a muscle. And just like strength training, it takes consistency, intention, and patience. Self-esteem is how you see yourself, while self-belief is your faith in what you can do. Together, they shape how you show up in the world.
Let’s start with the inner voice. Research shows our thoughts directly influence our confidence. The average person has over 6,000 thoughts per day. If most of those are self-critical, your self-esteem takes a hit. That’s why building self-awareness is step one. Catch the negative inner dialogue and replace it with compassionate, honest affirmations. Not fake positivity—real, grounded truths. You don’t have to say, “I’m perfect.” Instead, say, “I’m learning,” or “I’ve faced hard things before and can do it again.”
Next, let’s talk about competence. You build confidence by doing. Break your goals into small, doable steps. Every action you take builds evidence that you’re capable. Whether it’s speaking up in a meeting, going for a job interview, or sharing your art, the more reps you put in, the more your confidence grows. Mastery leads to belief.
Another powerful tool? Environment. Surround yourself with people who reflect your potential, not your insecurities. Studies show that we become the average of the five people we spend the most time with. Choose supporters, not doubters. If your circle doesn’t inspire progress, it might be time for a shift.
And let’s not forget the role of the body. Movement influences mindset. Exercise, posture, breathwork—all proven to impact feelings of strength and confidence. Stand tall. Breathe deeply. Move with purpose, and your mind will follow.
Lastly, practice self-compassion. Confidence doesn’t mean never failing. It means you trust yourself enough to fail and still keep going. Making peace with imperfection creates the space for courage to thrive.
You already have everything you need within you. This isn’t about becoming someone else—it’s about uncovering who you truly are.
Thanks for listening to The Confidence Coach: Building Self-Esteem and Self-Belief. Make sure to subscribe so we can keep growing, together.