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  • 126. The power of fantasies with Artemisia

    126. The power of fantasies with Artemisia
    2025/01/07

    Welcome to BARE Lifestyle podcast.

    You want to really pay attention to this bare and juicy conversation I’m having with Artemisia about fantasies. Here’s a snip of what we discussed:

    • How fantasies have an real effect on us

    • How to create a real story and experience from our fantasies

    • How to have good sex


    Find out more about Artemisia de Vine go to: Artemisiadevine.com and follow her Ig: https://www.instagram.com/artemisiadevine/, Substack: https://artemisiadevine.substack.com/, FB: https://www.facebook.com/ArtemisiadeVine

    Receive Artemisia gift: MyFantasyIs.com


    Indulge in the BARE Menu

    • Enroll in ⁠Play Power Pleasure⁠ to learn how to build a BDSM scene

    • ⁠Queen’s Dungeon ⁠- workshop for women

    • ⁠Kink’s Dungeon ⁠- workshop for men


    Devour delicious desert on us

    • Watch ⁠Dare Be BARE training⁠ so you can embrace your body and your kinks.

    • ⁠10 Key to unlock a BDSM Lifestyle ⁠- because you have to start from somewhere

    • ⁠Kinks Menu⁠ - find out your kink, and get inspired to create your own menu


    Want something extra?

    • All things BARE - ⁠⁠https://simonaspark.com/bare/⁠⁠


    Stay fun and kinky,

    Simi Spark


    Email transformation@simonaspark.com

    Instagram @simonasparkworld

    Website simonaspark.com
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    45 分
  • 125. Getting vulnerable with Angela and James

    125. Getting vulnerable with Angela and James
    2024/12/31

    Welcome to BARE Lifestyle podcast.

    My guests today are Angela and James.

    Please join our bare conversation about:

    • How to approach most common taboo topics

    • How kink is the key to the deep intimacy, expansion and deeper connection

    • How our sexual development work expands our pleasure

    Find out more about Angela and James at www.loveintentionally.com Email: angela@loveintentionally.com and follow them IG: @loveintentionally.co FB: Love Intentionally

    Receive this GIFT from Love intentionally Sex For Busy Couples


    Indulge in the BARE Menu

    • Enroll in ⁠Play Power Pleasure⁠ to learn how to build a BDSM scene

    • ⁠Queen’s Dungeon ⁠- workshop for women

    • ⁠Kink’s Dungeon ⁠- workshop for men


    Devour delicious desert on us

    • Watch ⁠Dare Be BARE training⁠ so you can embrace your body and your kinks.

    • ⁠10 Key to unlock a BDSM Lifestyle ⁠- because you have to start from somewhere

    • ⁠Kinks Menu⁠ - find out your kink, and get inspired to create your own menu


    Want something extra?

    • All things BARE - ⁠⁠https://simonaspark.com/bare/⁠⁠


    Stay fun and kinky,

    xx Simi Spark


    Email transformation@simonaspark.com

    Instagram @simonasparkworld

    Website simonaspark.com
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    48 分
  • 124. Body shame, kinks and sexuality with Tyler

    124. Body shame, kinks and sexuality with Tyler
    2024/12/24

    Welcome to BARE Lifestyle podcast.

    In this bare conversation, Tyler is sharing with us about their insecurities, fears and shame around their own body, intimacy, kinks and BDSM space.

    Get ready for a raw conversation about

    • How to deal with stigma inside of LGBTQ community
    • How to accept our bodies and our sexuality
    • 'Coming out' is a forever process


    Find out more about Tyler at ⁠www.tylerryanhall.com⁠⁠

    Email: ⁠tyler@trhcreativegroup.com⁠ and follow IG @iamtylerryanhall


    Indulge in the BARE Menu

    • Enroll in ⁠Play Power Pleasure⁠ to learn how to build a BDSM scene

    • ⁠Queen’s Dungeon ⁠- workshop for women

    • ⁠Kink’s Dungeon ⁠- workshop for men

    Devour delicious desert on us

    • Watch ⁠Dare Be BARE training⁠ so you can embrace your body and your kinks.

    • ⁠10 Key to unlock a BDSM Lifestyle ⁠- because you have to start from somewhere

    • ⁠Kinks Menu⁠ - find out your kink, and get inspired to create your own menu

    Want something extra?

    • All things BARE - ⁠⁠https://simonaspark.com/bare/⁠⁠


    Stay fun and kinky,

    Simi Spark


    Email transformation@simonaspark.com

    Instagram @simonasparkworld

    Website simonaspark.com
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    1 時間
  • 123. A kinky conversation with Sari

    123. A kinky conversation with Sari
    2024/12/17

    Welcome to BARE Lifestyle podcast.

    My guest today is Sari Cooper- AASECT Certified Sex Therapist

    Join our bare conversation about

    • How to find the right facilitator for what we need

    • How to explain sexual desires and kinky bruises

    • How to deal with stigma around kink and BDSM practices

    Find out more about Sari and her work at ⁠www.centerforloveandsex.com⁠ and at ⁠www.eroticacademy.net⁠

    Contact Sari ⁠eroticacademy24@gmail.com⁠ and Follow her on social @saricooperofficial


    Indulge in BARE Menu

    • Enroll in ⁠Play Power Pleasure⁠ to learn how to build a BDSM scene

    • ⁠Queen’s Dungeon ⁠- workshop for women

    • ⁠Kink’s Dungeon ⁠- workshop for men


    Devour delicious desert on us

    • Watch ⁠Dare Be BARE training⁠ so you can embrace your body and your kinks.

    • ⁠10 Key to unlock a BDSM Lifestyle ⁠- because you have to start from somewhere

    • ⁠Kinks Menu⁠ - find out your kink, and get inspired to create your own menu


    Want something extra?

    • All things BARE - ⁠⁠https://simonaspark.com/bare/⁠⁠


    Stay fun and kinky,

    Simi Spark


    Email transformation@simonaspark.com

    Instagram @simonasparkworld

    Website simonaspark.com
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    44 分
  • 122. Dominatrix and BDSM healing with Cabana

    122. Dominatrix and BDSM healing with Cabana
    2024/06/18

    Welcome to BARE Lifestyle podcast!

    Buckle up because you are in for a ride today!

    Cabana and I are having a conversation about dominatrix, BDSM practices and the power of healing through pleasure.


    Timestamps:

    1:30 - Meet Cabana - mortician by day, burlesque dancer by night and so many other things!

    2:44 - Becoming a professional dominatrix

    5:00- Discovering both - a personal kink and a profession

    6:30 - All the best tops started on the bottom

    9:00 - If you have never been in a sub role, you don’t know what your subs are going through.

    11:00- Let go of labels and embrace new experiences by trying new things!

    11:15 - Power bottoming and service topping

    13:13 - If is not mutually pleasurable and enjoyable, than it’s abuse

    15:00 - Use the BDSM as tool to access and heal trauma

    16:05 - What is your worst memory?

    18:18 - Masturbate to memories that once upon a time were traumatizing experiences

    19:40 -The shame is hot

    22:22 - Why limit ourselves?

    25:40 - Hire a professional to help you access your desires

    28:45 - Worry about being emotional open with someone who are no in a relationship with

    32:32 - The End


    Follow Cabana on INSTA https://www.instagram.com/cabanamacabre/ and learn more about her https://www.cabanamacabre.com/


    🔥Meet me in a dungeon 🔥- a space for self discovery and self exploration of your relationship with self, pleasure and intimate infinite possibilities:

    King’s Dungeon - playshop for men https://simonaspark.com/kings-dungeon/

    Queen’s Dungeon - playshop for women https://simonaspark.com/queens-dungeon/


    ** FREE Private Coaching Session - Spark Your Inner Fire - ⁠https://calendly.com/simonaspark/sparkyourfire


    *** 🔥Take the Kink Appetite Quiz to find out your BDSM inclinations: https://simonaspark.click/kinkquiz


    *** Ready to explore/ discover/ invite BDSM practices in your sexlife? - Book a FREE Private session today - Ignite the Spark in the Bedroom https://calendly.com/simonaspark/ignite-your-spark-private-session


    *** Read my story: Raising My Voice. The Memoir of an Immigrant


    Contact me:

    * Email transformation@simonaspark.com

    * Follow and DM me on IG @simonasparkworld


    Let’s be Bold, Authentic, Radical, Expressed!

    xo

    Simona Spark
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    33 分
  • 121. 'Coming out' as kinkster with Siggy

    121. 'Coming out' as kinkster with Siggy
    2024/06/11

    Welcome to BARE Lifestyle podcast!

    Join the conversation today as Siggy and I are talking about ‘coming out’ as a kinkster and polyamorous in the dating space.

    Timestamps:

    2:00 - If we are not ‘out’ is as if we are having a ‘secret’

    3:30 - We can be authentic without repercussions

    7:30 - Let’s dissolve the LGBTQ Community

    12:10 - Expressing our desires can be scary because is not ‘what you supposed to be doing’

    13:30 - Rejection is just a natural filter to move on, not a match

    17:15 - Going out on dates is fun

    20:25 - Take yourself on a date- can you have fun on your own?

    24:00 - You are an adult, you don't need anyone’s permission to do whatever you want!

    26:06 - The End


    🔥Meet me in a dungeon 🔥- a space for self discovery and self exploration of your relationship with self, pleasure and intimate infinite possibilities:

    King’s Dungeon - playshop for men https://simonaspark.com/kings-dungeon/

    Queen’s Dungeon - playshop for women https://simonaspark.com/queens-dungeon/


    ** FREE Private Coaching Session - Spark Your Inner Fire - ⁠https://calendly.com/simonaspark/sparkyourfire


    *** 🔥Take the Kink Appetite Quiz to find out your BDSM inclinations: https://simonaspark.click/kinkquiz


    *** Ready to explore/ discover/ invite BDSM practices in your sexlife? - Book a FREE Private session today - Ignite the Spark in the Bedroom https://calendly.com/simonaspark/ignite-your-spark-private-session


    *** Read my story: Raising My Voice. The Memoir of an Immigrant


    Contact me:

    * Email transformation@simonaspark.com

    * Follow and DM me on IG @simonasparkworld


    Let’s be Bold, Authentic, Radical, Expressed!

    xo

    Simona Spark
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    26 分
  • 120. Shame around kinks and fetishes with Mike

    120. Shame around kinks and fetishes with Mike
    2024/06/04
    Welcome to BARE Lifestyle podcast! This podcast is a double production: BARE Lifestyle podcast and The Palmer Show podcast. Join Mike and I in a conversation about the shame around kinks, fetishes and BDSM practices. Timestamps: 2:00 - What are the misconceptions of kinks, fetishes and BDSM practices that contribute to the feeling of shame? 4:00 - Fear of being judged and not accepted if revealing our sexual preferences 6:00 - Privacy vs Taboo 7:30 - You have to decide where you draw the privacy line on social media 9:00 - The day I published my book I was so sick, I thought I'd die (read my book: Raising My Voice. The Memoir of an Immigrant) 10:00 - Identity shifts 10:50 - How the societal view on kink, fetishes and BDSM practices influences individual's shame about their own preference? 11:00 - Judgment and self judgments 12:30 - Have you ever felt shame around your kinks and fetishes? 16:00 - You could ignore your desires, but they never die 19:00 - What will have to be the requirement that a man will say ‘No’ to it? 21:45 - Take the BDSM test https://www.bdsmtest.org/ 26:30 - How to ‘come out’ to your partners without experiencing shame? 28:35 - God did not put a desire in my heart to feel embarrassed, is there for me to have it 29:30 - How do you think religion and cultural beliefs impacted the shame associated with kinks and fetishes? 33:00 - Pleasure without consent is pain 34:00 - Finding the right support to heal trauma and deal with shame, guilt and fear 36:00 - Healing the trauma 37:00 - Is it easier to open up to my partner or my therapist? 42:00 - Everyone has a kink, but not explored it or express it 43:30 - How do men support each other? 45:00 - We are not all built for what’s expected of us as men/women 47:00 - Advice for those who struggle with shame about their kinks/fetishes. 47:30 - Book a FREE call and find out more about VIP weekends - Spark Your Inner Fire - ⁠https://calendly.com/simonaspark/sparkyourfire 49:00 - Best solution for you is the next available step out of your comfort zone 51:30 - It’s impossible to satisfy everyone, so mind as well, satisfy just yourself. Period. 53:48 - The End Contact Mike at Mike@mikeandmikeproduction.com 🔥Meet me in a dungeon 🔥- a space for self discovery and self exploration of your relationship with self, pleasure and intimate infinite possibilities: King’s Dungeon - playshop for men https://simonaspark.com/kings-dungeon/ Queen’s Dungeon - playshop for women https://simonaspark.com/queens-dungeon/ ** FREE Private Coaching Session - Spark Your Inner Fire - ⁠https://calendly.com/simonaspark/sparkyourfire *** 🔥Take the Kink Appetite Quiz to find out your BDSM inclinations: https://simonaspark.click/kinkquiz *** Ready to explore/ discover/ invite BDSM practices in your sexlife? - Book a FREE Private session today - Ignite the Spark in the Bedroom https://calendly.com/simonaspark/ignite-your-spark-private-session *** Read my story: Raising My Voice. The Memoir of an Immigrant Contact me: * Email transformation@simonaspark.com * Follow and DM me on IG @simonasparkworld Let’s be Bold, Authentic, Radical, Expressed! xo Simona Spark
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    54 分
  • 119. ‘My body, my choice’ with Crystal

    119. ‘My body, my choice’ with Crystal
    2024/05/28

    Welcome to BARE Lifestyle podcast!

    Today’s topic: ‘My body, my choice’ with Crystal

    Key moments:

    1:00 - Meet my fabulous guest: Crystal

    4:00 - The decision of having a plastic surgery

    4:44 - ‘Why do you want to be plastic?”

    8:08 - Where is the line? When do we stop?

    8:11 - Plastic surgery can be an addiction.

    11:30 - Why go to the gym for one year when you can achieve the same results in one hour?

    13:13 - You have to train your body and mind to maintain the surgery’s results

    14:14 - I want to look good and young, and age beautifully

    15:30 - Women need to compliment women more

    16:30 - How we see ourselves is not how others sees us

    19:00 - Find your tribe

    20:00 - Follow Crystal on IG https://www.instagram.com/postop_crystal/ and learn more about her work here: https://linktr.ee/CrystalAlexi

    23:30 - Let’s all be kinder with each other


    🔥Meet me in a dungeon 🔥- a space for self discovery and self exploration of your relationship with self, pleasure and intimate infinite possibilities:

    King’s Dungeon - playshop for men https://simonaspark.com/kings-dungeon/

    Queen’s Dungeon - playshop for women https://simonaspark.com/queens-dungeon/


    ** FREE Private Coaching Session - Spark Your Inner Fire - ⁠https://calendly.com/simonaspark/sparkyourfire


    *** 🔥Take the Kink Appetite Quiz to find out your BDSM inclinations: https://simonaspark.click/kinkquiz


    *** Ready to explore/ discover/ invite BDSM practices in your sexlife? - Book a FREE Private session today - Ignite the Spark in the Bedroom https://calendly.com/simonaspark/ignite-your-spark-private-session


    *** Read my story: Raising My Voice. The Memoir of an Immigrant


    Contact me:

    * Email transformation@simonaspark.com

    * Follow and DM me on IG @simonasparkworld


    Let’s be Bold, Authentic, Radical, Expressed!

    xo

    Simona Spark
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    25 分