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  • 47: Transform Family Dynamics & Empower Your Child
    2025/05/21
    When raising a child with autism, ADHD, or sensory challenges, many families focus primarily on child-centered therapy. While occupational therapy, speech therapy, and behavior therapy are incredibly important, family support is just as crucial for long-term success. At Pure Hearts Therapy, we believe real change happens when parents are empowered too. In a recent episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene sat down with Lisa Chan, a parent coach, pediatric occupational therapist, and expert in child behavior, to discuss how parents can transform family dynamics and empower their child’s emotional growth. Why Family Support Matters in Autism Therapy As Lisa explains, parents are the most important factor in a child's progress. Therapists may only see a child once or twice a week—but parents guide daily routines, manage emotions in real-time, and provide the secure foundation that every child needs. Without strong family dynamics, even the best therapy services can't create lasting change. That's why autism family support and parent coaching for autism are becoming such essential resources today. Emotional Regulation: The Foundation of Growth One of the key areas Lisa focuses on is emotional regulation strategies. Children are not born knowing how to manage big emotions. They learn it by experiencing it alongside a regulated adult. Co-regulation—the process where parents model emotional calmness—helps children build their own ability to stay calm during challenges. It’s not about suppressing emotions or “just staying calm” on the surface. It’s about truly understanding and validating your child’s feelings while staying grounded yourself. ✅ Tip: Practice noticing your own emotional triggers. During your child’s meltdown, focus on staying steady, not perfect. Your child will learn from your energy more than your words. Setting Boundaries Builds Security Many families worry that firm boundaries might upset their child more—but Lisa emphasizes the opposite: Firm, loving boundaries create emotional safety. Children thrive when expectations are clear and consistent. When boundaries constantly shift, children feel uncertain, which can lead to more meltdowns, anxiety, and resistance. ✅ Tip: Stick to your “no” when necessary—with kindness and validation. For example, "I know you really want that candy, and it’s okay to feel upset. We’re not getting it today, but I’m here with you." This approach supports secure attachment and builds resilience over time. Social Skills Struggles: How Parents Can Help Another common concern for families today is helping children with autism develop social skills. If a child struggles with emotional regulation or reading social cues, they may feel isolated or left out at school or on the playground. Instead of hoping they'll "figure it out," Lisa recommends active social skills coaching. ✅ Tip: Practice role-playing common social situations at home. Pretend to be another child and guide your child through ways to join games, start conversations, or handle conflict. This kind of practice can build confidence and reduce social anxiety—key parts of social skills support for autism. Final Words of Encouragement for Parents Lisa shares a powerful reminder: "If you're noticing struggles—whether it's with your child or your own confidence as a parent—don't wait. Get support now. Early intervention helps both children and families thrive long-term." Today's families are carrying more stress than ever. Between social media comparisons, isolation from extended family, and the daily demands of parenting, seeking help for yourself is a sign of strength, not weakness. Ready for More Support? If you’re looking for: ● Family-centered autism support ● Parent coaching for emotional regulation ● Social skills development strategies ● Help navigating family dynamics with autism Pure Hearts Therapy is here to walk alongside you. We offer playful, personalized, and respectful therapy services to help families grow stronger—together. 👉 Learn more about our services and how we can help you here! 🎧 Listen to the full episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast featuring Lisa Chan here. Special Offer: Lisa is offering a 40% discount on her Emotional Regulation Course and a 30% discount on parent coaching packages for Mother's Day (available throughout May)!
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    35 分
  • 46 Empowered Advocacy: Navigating Autism, Community, and Equity with Dr. Martine Laventure
    2025/05/07

    In this powerful episode, host Brian Keene welcomes Dr. Martine Laventure, a licensed
    social worker, mother, and passionate advocate for autism and inclusion. Together, they
    explore the complexities of navigating an autism diagnosis as a parent, the importance of
    building a village, and how cultural understanding shapes access to care.
    Dr. Martine shares her personal journey as a mother to an autistic child, how she uses her
    lens as a clinician and parent, and offers encouraging, real-world advice for families trying
    to find their footing. They also discuss disparities in autism care within Black and Brown
    communities, the importance of culturally competent services, and how to avoid therapy
    burnout.

    Key Topics Discussed:
    - Building your support system and treatment team
    - Talking to your child and family about autism
    - Understanding and honoring cultural differences
    - Self-advocacy and caregiver empowerment
    - When therapy becomes too much – recognizing the signs of burnout
    - The need for culturally informed care and inclusive assessments
    - Encouragement for teens, young adults, and parents to seek support

    Guest Info:
    Dr. Martine Laventure is a licensed social worker, school clinician, per diem therapist, and
    founder of LaVenture Consulting. She offers training and consulting on autism, cultural
    competence, and family empowerment. She’s also releasing a children’s book on autism!
    Connect with Dr. Martine Laventure:
    - Website: http://laventureconsultant.com
    - Instagram: @laventure.csllc

    Resources Mentioned:
    - ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences)
    - Philadelphia Expanded ACEs Study
    - Autism education and caregiver advocacy

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    Connect with Us:
    - Website: https://www.pureheartstherapy.com
    - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pureheartstherapy
    - Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/autismfamilyresource
    - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/purehearts_therapy

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    27 分
  • 45 Calming the Chaos: Understanding Mouthing and Chewing Behaviors in Children
    2025/04/16

    Autism Family Resource Podcast Episode 45 (Sensory integration series Part 2)

    Welcome Back!

    In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, we delve into the world of sensory needs and explore the often-misunderstood behaviors of mouthing and chewing in children. Join us as we welcome back occupational therapist Dipali Devani for the second episode of our Calming the Chaos Sensory series.

    Dipali sheds light on the reasons behind these behaviors, how sensory needs influence these actions, and practical strategies to support your child.

    Guest: Dipali Devani

    Dipali Devani is a licensed occupational therapist specializing in sensory integration and a certified Ayurveda practitioner. She works with individuals of all ages to help them process sensory input, develop emotional regulation skills, and build independence in daily life. Her holistic approach blends modern therapy techniques with ancient wellness practices to promote overall well-being.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Mouthing & Chewing: Children may put non-food objects like clothing, toys, or even their own hands or arms in their mouths excessively. This can disrupt daily activities and may be accompanied by chewing or sucking on these objects.

    • Sensory & Regulation: Mouthing and chewing often stem from a need for oral sensory stimulation and regulation, especially in children with autism or sensory processing disorder. These behaviors can be triggered by anxiety, boredom, or a lack of deep pressure input.

    • Red Flags: Mouthing and chewing are typical in children under three. If these behaviors persist beyond age five, it's crucial to seek an evaluation from an occupational therapist (OT).

    • Potential Impacts: Excessive mouthing and chewing can lead to difficulties with eating, social interaction, and overall health. This can include nutritional deficiencies, increased risk of infections, and social isolation.

    • Strategies & Interventions: OTs can help identify triggers, develop sensory diets, and provide interventions such as chewable jewelry, weighted activities, and sensory breaks.

    • Home Strategies: Parents can incorporate strategies like blowing bubbles, using an electric toothbrush, engaging in animal walks, and creating a safe corner with sensory toys.

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    24 分
  • 44 Embracing the Autism Voyage: Parenting, Life Planning, and Entrepreneurship with Michael Pereira
    2025/04/02

    Autism Family Resource Podcast Episode 44

    Episode Title: Embracing the Autism Voyage: Parenting, Life Planning, and Entrepreneurship with Michael Pereira

    Welcome Back!

    Parenting a neurodivergent child is a journey filled with unique challenges, unexpected turns, and moments of profound growth. In this episode, we embark on an insightful conversation with Michael Pereira, founder of The Autism Voyage, as he shares his personal parenting experiences, practical daily living strategies, and financial planning insights for families with special needs.

    We'll also explore how entrepreneurship can offer parents greater flexibility, allowing them to create a lifestyle that supports both their family's well-being and their professional aspirations.

    Guest: Michael Pereira

    Michael Pereira is a father, autism advocate, and founder of The Autism Voyage, a blog and newsletter dedicated to supporting families on their autism journey. With expertise in financial and insurance planning, he provides guidance on life insurance, disability income insurance, and long-term financial security for families raising children with autism.

    Key Takeaways:

    • The Autism Voyage Blog and Newsletter: In both the The Autism Voyage blog and the newsletter, Michael offers practical guidance tailored for special needs families with topics in three key areas—Daily Living, Life Planning, and Entrepreneurship.

    • Daily Living Strategies: Learn effective approaches for managing everyday challenges, from sensory-friendly haircuts to preparing for new experiences like swimming lessons.

    • Financial & Life Planning: Understand why life insurance, disability income insurance, and long-term care planning are crucial for securing your child's future.

    • Entrepreneurship & Flexibility: Discover ways Entrepreneurship can provide the freedom and flexibility to balance work and family life while being present for your child.

    • Building a Supportive Community: Learn how The Autism Voyage is creating a network of support for families navigating similar challenges.

    Resources:

    • My Autism Voyage Website

    • The Autism Voyage Blog

    • Michael Pereira on LinkedIn

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    28 分
  • 43 Navigating Divorce with Care: Mediation Tips for Protecting Your Kids
    2025/03/19

    Welcome Back!


    Divorce is never easy, and when a child with special needs is involved, the process can feel even more overwhelming. In this episode, we explore key legal and emotional considerations to help families navigate divorce while prioritizing their child’s well-being.

    Our guest expert, Anna Krolikowska, a seasoned family law attorney and mediator, shares practical advice on choosing the right divorce process, effective co-parenting strategies, and minimizing conflict to create the best possible outcome for your child.

    Guest: Anna Krolikowska


    Anna Krolikowska is a respected family law attorney and mediator with nearly 20 years of experience helping families through divorce. She specializes in working with families of children with special needs, offering compassionate legal guidance tailored to each family’s unique situation.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Choosing the Right Process: Understand the differences between litigation, mediation, and collaborative divorce to determine the best approach for your family.

    • Co-Parenting with Intention: Learn how to communicate effectively, share decision-making, and create a detailed parenting plan that meets your child’s needs.

    • Minimizing Conflict: Discover ways to reduce stress and protect your child from emotional strain during and after the divorce.

    • Planning for the Future: Gain insights on legal tools like special needs trusts to ensure your child’s long-term financial security.

    Resources:

    • Anna K's Website

    • Arizona State Bar Association

    • American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers

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    29 分
  • 42 Calming the Chaos: Understanding and Addressing Sensory Sensitivities in Children
    2025/03/05

    Welcome Back!

    Join us as we explore how sensory sensitivities impact neurodivergent children and share practical strategies for creating a calmer, more supportive environment.

    Our guest, Dipali Devani, an occupational therapist and Ayurveda practitioner, shares expert insights on recognizing sensory triggers, creating calming spaces, and empowering children to regulate their responses. Whether your child struggles with certain textures, loud noises, or strong smells, this episode is packed with actionable tips to help you build a more harmonious home environment.

    Guest: Dipali DevaniDipali Devani is a licensed occupational therapist specializing in sensory integration and a certified Ayurveda practitioner. She works with individuals of all ages to help them process sensory input, develop emotional regulation skills, and build independence in daily life. Her holistic approach blends modern therapy techniques with ancient wellness practices to promote overall well-being.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Recognizing Sensory Triggers – Learn how to identify the sights, sounds, and textures that may overwhelm your child.

    • Creating a Calming Environment – Simple, practical changes can make home and community spaces feel safer and more comfortable.

    • Supporting Self-Regulation – Explore strategies like desensitization, sensory tools, and calming techniques to help your child manage sensory input.

    Seeking Professional Guidance – Occupational therapists can create personalized sensory plans to support your child’s unique needs.

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    29 分
  • 41 Redefining Inclusive Education for Neurodiverse Students
    2025/02/19

    Welcome Back!

    In this episode, we sit down with Gail Ewell, the founder and executive director of Hope Technology School (HTS), to explore how friendships and inclusive environments can profoundly impact neurodiverse learners. Gail shares practical strategies for fostering inclusion at school, in the community, and at home. She also offers guidance on advocating for accessible spaces and the critical role of communication in empowering children to thrive. Whether you're a parent, educator, or community member, this episode is filled with actionable insights to help create a more inclusive world for all.

    Guest: Gail Ewell

    Gail Ewell is a leader in inclusive education and the visionary behind Hope Technology School, an award-winning K-12 institution dedicated to integrating neurodiverse and neurotypical learners. With over 20 years of experience in teacher training, advocacy, and accessibility, she has transformed educational spaces to be more inclusive and empowering for all students. Gail frequently speaks at conferences and universities, sharing her expertise on building meaningful community connections.

    Website: Hope Technology School

    Social Media: Hope Technology School Instagram, Facebook, Gail’s Instagram

    Key Takeaways:

    1. The Power of Friendship – "Having a strong circle of friends can significantly reduce the incidence and impact of bullying." Gail emphasizes how structured peer interactions, like buddy systems and mentorship programs, can help neurodiverse learners build confidence and social skills.

    2. Creating Inclusive Spaces – Whether at school, home, or in the community, inclusion starts with intentional design. Gail shares ways to foster welcoming environments that support all learners.

    3. Advocating for Change – Parents and caregivers play a vital role in shaping inclusive policies. Gail provides steps for educating others, building online support networks, and initiating school-based inclusion programs.

    4. Communication is Key – "Don't lose sight of communication, because no matter what kind it is, it’s so important." Gail encourages parents to explore different methods of communication, from AAC devices to assistive technology, ensuring every child has a voice.

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    26 分
  • 40 Thriving with Neurodiversity: J.D. Barker on Autism, Creativity, and Parenting with Purpose
    2025/01/01

    Welcome Back!
    In this episode, we sit down with J.D. Barker, a New York Times bestselling author known for his thrillers, to discuss his inspiring journey as a neurodiverse individual. Diagnosed with autism as an adult, J.D. reflects on his career transformation, shares strategies for navigating neurotypical expectations, and offers invaluable insights for parenting neurodiverse children. This heartfelt conversation is filled with practical advice, empowering takeaways, and hope for families navigating similar paths.

    Guest:
    J.D. Barker is an acclaimed author of numerous bestselling books, including Heavy Are the Stones and The Writer (co-written with James Patterson). Diagnosed with autism in his 20s, he combines his unique perspective with his passion for storytelling to advocate for understanding and acceptance.

    Website: https://jdbarker.com/

    Social Media: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter

    Key Takeaways:

    1. Leaning into Strengths: "Find the one thing your child loves and encourage it. That can open so many doors." J.D. credits his love for reading and writing as his gateway to success.

    2. The Role of Community: J.D. highlights the importance of a supportive network, from his wife’s life-changing encouragement to his daughter’s school team.

    3. Overcoming Challenges: Social interactions can be tough, but J.D. has developed strategies like slowing down, maintaining eye contact, and focusing on one response at a time.

    4. Parenting with Compassion: J.D. advises parents to embrace their child's unique strengths and to view neurodiversity as a collection of superpowers.

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    25 分