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  • EP29: Why Work Friendships Feel So Intense — And What to Do When They Don’t Last
    2025/05/27

    We’re diving into the world of office BFFs, coffee run confidants, and that work bestie who might just be your real bestie… or not. In this episode, we’re talking all about work friendships — why they form so fast, what happens when promotions or quitting throw them for a loop, and how to tell the difference between a forever friend and a proximity pal.

    We’ll share real-life stories of friendships that survived (or didn’t) beyond the break room, the messy emotions that can come up, and our best tips for keeping things classy when work drama hits.

    Whether you’re a Slack queen, a lunchroom gossip, or just trying to figure out if your office buddy is really your ride-or-die, this episode is for you.

    What you'll learn:

    • The psychology behind why work friends feel so intense.

    • How to handle it when your friend gets promoted… or ghosts you after quitting.

    • The do’s and don’ts of navigating work friendships — without calling HR.

    • Tips to keep things supportive, healthy, and genuinely connected.

    Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Submit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com

    Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

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    1 時間 6 分
  • EP28: 'Am I the A*hole': When Friends Expect Too Much — And Give Too Little
    2025/05/20

    What do you do when a friend asks for too much, or you’re caught in the middle of a family secret? In this ‘Am I the Ahole?’ episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re breaking down four sticky scenarios where boundaries, loyalty, and friendship collide. From being labeled the ‘rich friend’ to feeling pressured to reveal a devastating secret, we’re asking: Who’s the A*hole here — and what can we learn from it?

    What You’ll Learn:

    • How to set financial boundaries without feeling guilty
    • When honesty is the best policy — and when it’s just plain harsh
    • How to deal with friends who overstep without damaging the friendship
    • Why some secrets are better left unsaid (or are they?)

    WIBTA if I told a close family friend that her husband cheated on her 4 years ago?

    AITA for refusing to pay and leaving my friends in a restaurant as the ‘rich friend’?

    AITA For asking my friend to bring her own food when she asks to come over?

    AITA for telling a friend exactly why my wife and I wouldn't go on a trip with her?

    Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Submit your own stories for future episodes: artofclassiness@gmail.com

    Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

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    1 時間 7 分
  • EP27: Rich Friend, Poor Friend: When Money Gets Messy in Friendships
    2025/05/13

    What happens when one of you is living that bottomless brunch life and the other is barely making rent? In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re diving into the sometimes awkward, often unspoken tension of money and friendship — and why no one wants to talk about it.

    What You’ll Learn:

    • How money can quietly shift friendship dynamics
    • Why it’s not rude to ask, “What’s the plan?” when splitting the check
    • How to handle group trips, birthday dinners, and “let’s all chip in” moments when you’re on different financial levels
    • How to support a friend financially without feeling taken advantage of
    • Why some friendships thrive on split burritos and others crumble over champagne toasts

    If you’ve ever felt guilty about saying no to a big group trip or awkward about being the one who’s suddenly earning more — this one’s for you.

    Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Submit your own stories: artofclassiness@gmail.com

    Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

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    54 分
  • EP26: We’ll Raise Our Kids Together! (And Other Lies We Told Ourselves)
    2025/05/06

    You said you'd raise your kids together, plan matching playdates, and still text every day… and then real life happened. In this Mother’s Day episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re digging into how friendships evolve—and sometimes drift—when one of you becomes a mom and the other doesn’t.

    What You’ll Learn:

    • Why motherhood can create both distance and deeper connection in friendships

    • How to navigate mismatched lifestyles, guilt, and unmet expectations

    • Real-life examples of staying close when your seasons of life don’t match

    • What to say (and not say) when parenting enters the chat

    • Tips for supporting a mom friend—or staying close when you’re the one in the thick of it

    Whether you’re feeling left behind, stretched too thin, or just missing your old friendship rhythm, this episode is a reminder that love evolves—and real friendship can survive the plot twists.

    Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Submit your own stories: artofclassiness@gmail.com

    Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It’s not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

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    1 時間 1 分
  • EP25: The TV That Raised Us: Can Men and Women Really Just Be Friends?
    2025/04/29

    TV taught us a lot—but did it totally screw up how we see friendship between men and women?

    In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re kicking off a new kind of conversation with The TV That Raised Us: a look at the shows that shaped how we think about friendship, romance, and everything in between. From Friends to New Girl to HIMYM, we’re breaking down the “will-they-won’t-they” trope and asking: Can opposite-sex friendships really exist without turning romantic? And why does Hollywood always need a kiss to make it count?

    What You’ll Learn:

    • Why TV is obsessed with romanticizing male/female friendships

    • The difference between friendship chemistry and romantic chemistry

    • What happens when one person catches feelings—and the other doesn’t

    • The real-life consequences of fictional expectations

    • Which TV friendships got it right (and which totally fell apart)

    We’re also revisiting our own experiences, reflecting on how these portrayals shaped our beliefs, and calling out the storylines that should’ve just stayed friends.

    Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Submit your stories, friendship meet-cutes, or class/crass scenarios: artofclassiness@gmail.com

    Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

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    1 時間 7 分
  • EP24: 'Am I the A*Hole': Navigating Friendship Friction
    2025/04/22

    What happens when your friend never has time for you—but still expects you to wait around? In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we're diving into real friendship dilemmas from Reddit’s “Am I The A-Hole” thread. From calling out flaky behavior to navigating post-divorce boundaries, we’re unpacking the moments where friendship etiquette gets complicated.

    What You’ll Learn:

    • When it’s okay to walk away from a one-sided friendship
    • How to give feedback without being a jerk
    • Why setting expectations isn’t the same as being passive-aggressive
    • When it’s better to accept quirks vs. when to speak up

    Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Submit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com

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    AITA for telling my friend she can get back in touch when she stops being perpetually busy?

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    AITA for telling my friend her “quirky” behavior is just being rude?

    25:34

    AITA for refusing to share my streaming after my friend cancelled hers to save money?

    31:13

    AITA for insulting my friend

    Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

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    51 分
  • EP23: Living with Your Best Friend: Tips, Truths, and What to Expect
    2025/04/15

    Living with your best friend might sound like a 24/7 sleepover dream—but what happens when someone leaves dishes in the sink or hogs the bathroom mirror? In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re exploring the beautiful chaos of bestie roommates, and how to navigate friendship and cohabitation without losing your mind (or your bond).

    What You’ll Learn:

    • The pros and cons of living with your closest friend
    • How to spot red flags before you move in together
    • Common roommate conflicts—and how to resolve them with grace
    • Why friendship dynamics shift when you share a home
    • How to set boundaries without hurting feelings
    • Tips to keep the friendship fun, respectful, and drama-free

    If you’ve ever dreamed of living with your bestie—or you’re currently knee-deep in a passive-aggressive post-it war—this one’s for you.

    Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Submit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com

    Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

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    56 分
  • EP22: When Burnout Makes You a Bad Friend (And What to Do About It)
    2025/04/08

    Burnout doesn’t just affect your job—it affects your friendships, too. In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re diving into the emotional exhaustion so many millennials are feeling, and how it quietly reshapes our social lives.

    What You’ll Learn:

    • Why burnout makes it hard to show up for friends (and why that’s okay)
    • Signs you're in a friendship burnout loop
    • How to reconnect without overwhelming yourself
    • Tips for being a good friend when your tank is low
    • Why honest conversations about capacity might save your friendships

    Did you know? 84% of millennials report experiencing burnout at their current job, with nearly half citing it as a major reason for leaving. (Source: Deloitte Millennial Survey, 2022)

    If you've ever canceled plans for the fifth time and still felt bad about it—or wondered if your friendships are fading because you're too tired to text back—this one’s for you.

    Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness

    Submit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com

    Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

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    1 時間 1 分