In this powerful episode, I’m joined by Kimberly Haar, a licensed professional counselor and author of the new book Healing From Life’s Deepest Hurts: Reclaiming Your Life After Grief, Loss or Trauma. Kimberly shares her incredible testimony of surviving a multiple hour assault by her ex-husband, the attempted murder of her then-boyfriend and navigating the long road of healing from deep trauma, grief, and abuse.

We talk about:

• The moment her life changed forever—and how God met her there

• What it looks like to walk through complex trauma as a believer

• How to rebuild emotionally and spiritually after domestic violence

• Why counseling, faith, and truth-telling are all part of healing

• How to move forward with hope even when your past is full of pain

Whether you’re walking through a hard season or love someone who is, this conversation will stir your faith, offer tools for healing, and remind you that God never wastes our pain.

Bio:

Kimberly Haar, LPC, LMFT, is a survivor of domestic violence, a licensed professional counselor, and a licensed marriage and family therapist with nearly two decades of experience helping others find healing and wholeness in life. She holds an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy from Southern Nazarene University and is a featured cohost on Oasis Radio Network. Kimberly's therapy practice is located in Tulsa, Oklahoma, where she continues to inspire hope and strength in those facing life's challenges.

Anchor Verses:

Psalm 23

Psalm 34:18

Connect with Kim:

Website: https://kimberlyhaar.com

IG: https://www.instagram.com/kimberly.haar

FB: https://www.facebook.com/KimberlyJHaar/

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What happens when the life you dreamed of falls apart—and somehow, God uses it to write a better story than you could’ve ever imagined?

In this episode, I’m talking with Amy Eaton, author of Hope When It’s Heavy, a woman of deep faith, a military wife, mom, and grandma with a story of radical redemption and honest hope. Amy grew up in a nontraditional home, but she met Jesus at 20—and everything changed. That doesn’t mean the road was easy. After walking through betrayal in her first marriage, Amy held onto trust in God—even in the middle of heartbreak.

She shares how meeting her now-husband Justin—who adopted her son and became a godly father—was a picture of true redemption. Her journey is proof that grief and joy can coexist, and that God is not afraid of our hard questions.

Amy opens up about her new book, Hope When It’s Heavy, written for the woman who feels like she has to fake it in Christian spaces. This is for the one who’s been shamed for asking the hard questions or saying “I’m not okay.” Amy reminds us: You don’t have to walk through pain alone. You can let people in. You can be honest. And most of all, you can find peace in Jesus—even when the weight is heavy.

We talk about:

• ​ Grieving with honesty and grace
• ​ Letting go of shame in faith communities
• ​ The painting behind her book cover—and the moment of peace it brought during her father’s final days
• ​ Why you don’t have to retreat in the hard things
• ​ What it means to see hope, even in the darkness

This is your permission to be honest. You don’t have to fake it. Jesus meets us right where we are.

Bio:

Amy Eaton writes from a deep well of having walked through many heavy seasons. She acknowledges the wrestle and reality of holding seemingly conflicting truths with a grace and tenacious hope that is contagious. She deeply loves Jesus, her family, the Church, and her community.

Amy’s background in local church ministry, psychology, and corporate human resource work uniquely equip her to write and speak to the whole person (spiritually, emotionally, and mentally) as an overflow of the Lord’s kindness in her life to carry her through so much.

An encourager, her greatest hope for any project she produces is for women to draw closer to God and to rest in His infinite love for them.

Amy and her husband are empty nesters, residing on a mini farm in Southeast Tennessee with their ever-shifting number of chickens, two cats, and three of the sweetest, fluffiest dogs.

Anchor Verse:

Isaiah 26:3

John 6:12

Connect with Amy:

Website: https://amyeatonauthor.com

Bio.Site: https://bio.site/amyeaton

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In this empowering episode, Gina sits down with Lisa J. Allen—wife, grandmother, former Proverbs 31 executive, and now confidence coach, speaker, and first-time author of Your Confidence Compass: From Self-Doubt to Self-Leadership. Lisa shares her journey of rooting her identity in Christ, rediscovering her confidence, and stepping into a new season of leadership and purpose.

They unpack what true godly confidence looks like, how boundaries and self-awareness are tied to freedom, and why confidence isn’t about being the loudest in the room—it’s about being rooted in your creative design. Lisa opens up about her early struggle with identity, her career shifts, and how her definition of confidence is anchored in courage, action, and grace.

Key Takeaways:

• Confidence grows through identity in Christ, mindset renewal, and self-leadership

• True confidence allows us to create margin, cultivate purpose, and walk into uncertainty with peace

• Vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s the bridge to connection, leadership, and transformation

• Boundaries are a gift that protect your freedom and help you lead with clarity

Whether you’re starting a second act, building a side hustle, or stepping out in faith for the first time, Lisa offers wisdom, encouragement, and practical insight to help you lead yourself well.

Bio:

Lisa Allen is a Jesus-loving, coffee-loving, leopard-print loving woman. She has a passion for and connection to women and uses this passion as a speaker, coach and ministry leader. She comes with a combined two decades of non-profit leadership with a national women's ministry and as staff of a large church. These 20 years of experience give her a unique connection to and understanding of women of faith, women pursuing faith and women desiring to walk out their faith authentically.

Lisa has been featured as a keynote speaker at Proverbs 31 Ministries’ annual She Speaks Conference, the She Laughs Conferences, and various Women’s Ministry keynotes and conferences. She has offered her insights for the Charlotte Today Show as a contributor. She has also been a contributing writer for the She Laughs newsletter, womensministry.net, Proverbs 31 Ministries’ COMPEL Writers Training, and more.

Her experience as a Board-Certified Life Coach has uniquely influenced her style. She is as comfortable delivering passionate keynote messages that leave her audience with a sense of calling and confidence, as she is to facilitating one on one coaching and/or training workshops for ministry and staff leadership teams.

Lisa is obsessed with personality assessments and enjoys the certifications she’s received for Team Coaching, DISC Personality Profile, Enneagram Coach, and Gallup StrengthsFinders.

Lisa loves fashion and Pilates (though confesses her favorite part of any workout is the end). She lives in Charlotte, NC, with her husband and family, embracing her favorite title—LiLi (grandmother).

Anchor Verses:

2 Timothy 1:12

Ephesians 2:10

Connect with Lisa:

Website: https://ljallencoaching.com

IG: https://www.instagram.com/lisaallenconfidencecoach

FB: https://www.facebook.com/LJAllenCoaching

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Today on the podcast, I’m joined by Krissy Miles—speaker, author, and leader with the Nfluence Network. From growing up in a home marked by poverty, trauma, and instability, Krissy’s journey is one of radical repentance, transformation, and total submission to God.

She shares candidly about the pain of her past, the deep emotional wounds she carried, and how her desire to escape it all only led her deeper into confusion and despair. But when Krissy surrendered her life fully to Jesus, everything changed. In just four months, the trajectory of her life shifted dramatically—including the miraculous way she met her husband.

Krissy now equips others to walk in freedom through biblical discipleship, obedience, and hearing God’s voice clearly. Her testimony is a powerful reminder that no matter how far we feel from God, He’s still able to reach us—and restore us.

🔑 Key Takeaways

• Repentance is the starting point to true freedom.

• We don’t need to polish ourselves up—freedom comes from total surrender.

• Emotional healing begins when we stop blaming others and start submitting fully to God.

• God can do a quick work—radical transformation is possible in a short amount of time.

• Scripture, especially Proverbs 3:5-6 and Romans 12: 1-2, was foundational in renewing Krissy’s mind and directing her steps.

• Miraculous things happen when we stop striving and start serving.

🕊️ You’re going to be moved, encouraged, and challenged to press in, let go, and fully trust the One who makes paths straight.

Bio:

Known for her wisdom and practical solutions, Krissy Miles is a pastor, business strategist, and media executive. She serves as the Executive Pastor of the Nfluence Network and Nfluence Church, as well as the CFO and co-founder of Miles Media, Inc., a full-service media production company located in the Midwest.

Not only is Krissy a gifted speaker and Bible teacher, but she’s also a skilled business consultant with a Master’s Degree in Non-profit Business Administration from the University of Notre Dame. Krissy consults regularly with ministry leaders, entertainment professionals, and political figures on issues of faith, using media to impact culture, Christian leadership, and public policy.

Krissy is a “Maximum CEO” trainer with the Leadership Institute founded by Dr. Dean Radtke, and serves as committee member and consultant for “Arise Women’s Conferences,” founded by Mary Hudson, mother of pop-icon Katy Perry.

Krissy hosts a weekly YouTube show called, “Get More Out of Life,” which focuses on taking the eternal truths from the Bible to help people produce extreme results in their lives.

Krissy is an expert at navigating both for profit and non-profit start-ups, and has been an associate producer on several faith-based and family friendly films released on platforms such as Netflix, Redbox, Sony and more.

Krissy resides in Granger, Indiana with husband, Lucas Miles, Senior Pastor of Nfluence Church, and co-founder of Miles Media, Inc.

Anchor Verses:

Proverbs 3: 5-6

Romans 12: 1-2

2 Corinthians 10:5

Connect with Krissy:

Website: https://krissymiles.com

FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1B7tTKvEYy/?mibextid=wwXIfr

IG: https://www.instagram.com/krissymiles

LINKTREE: https://linktr.ee/krissymiles

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In this raw, powerful episode, I sit down with Tabitha Yates, author of the newly released audiobook Jesus and Therapy, to unpack her courageous journey through mental illness, spiritual abuse, and rediscovering the kindness of God.

Tabitha opens up about surviving intense childhood trauma, narcissistic abuse cloaked in spiritual authority, and being told her depression was a sign of rebellion. Her story is one of survival—but even more, one of redemption. From being disowned by her father to enduring psychological and physical abuse within the church, Tabitha vulnerably shares what it looked like to walk through the valley of the shadow with God, even when the church felt like the enemy.

We talk about:

• What it’s like to be spiritually gaslit when you’re already struggling mentally

• How EMDR, therapy, and the Word helped Tabitha untangle lies from truth

• Why she almost didn’t publish this book—and the wrestle of sharing your pain for the sake of someone else’s healing

• How motherhood became the turning point in her healing journey

• What it looks like to walk alongside others who are hurting without doing more harm

• The verses that finally broke through the pain and helped Tabitha see God’s true heart

This isn’t just a conversation about mental health. It’s about the bravery it takes to heal, the lies we need to unlearn, and the freedom that comes when we realize Jesus never asked us to fake it till we make it—He meets us in our pain and brings us home.

🛑 If you’ve ever been told your depression is a spiritual failure, or felt like your trauma disqualified you from faith—this one is for you.

🎧 Listen now to Jesus and Therapy—available on audiobook wherever you get your books.

Bio:

Tabitha Yates is the author of #1 Best Seller, Jesus and Therapy: Bridging the Gap between Faith and Mental Health. She is a mental health advocate, suicide attempt survivor, and speaker, known as The Redeemed Mama on social media where she writes about faith, mental health, and God’s redemptive plan. Tabitha has been published in Yahoo News, MSN, Relevant Magazine, The Mighty, Love What Matters, and more. Through practical advice, personal anecdotes, and biblical insights, Tabitha has used her platform to help renew the faith of millions of individuals struggling with where their faith and mental health intersect. She lives in Southern Arizona with her family.

Anchor Verses:

Jeremiah 31:3

2 Timothy 2:13

Connect with Tabitha:

Website- www.theredeemedmama.com

Facebook- The Redeemed Mama-Tabitha Yates | Facebook

Instagram- Tabitha Yates (@tabitha_yates_author)

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Today on the show, I sit down with Kristen Strong—author, military wife, twin mama, and encourager of the soul—as she shares her freedom story and the journey that led her to write her newest book, Desperate Woman Seeks Friends: Real Talk About Connection, Rejection, and Trying Again for the Friendships You Need (out today!).

Kristen opens up about her move from Oklahoma to Ohio and how that shift uncovered her deep need for true connection—along with the realization that she didn’t really know how to make friends from scratch. Sound familiar? You’re not alone.

We talk about the loneliness that creeps in during transitions, the awkwardness of initiating friendships, and the grief of losing friends who were once close. Kristen also shares how working on her friendship with Jesus became the foundation for healthy, life-giving relationships with others.

Whether you’re navigating new seasons, dealing with friendship anxiety, or wondering if you’ll ever find your “ride or dies,” Kristen offers hope, truth, and a whole lot of grace.

We also dive into:

• How to take online friendships offline

• Practical steps to rebuild your friendship muscles

• The importance of boundaries (and how to lovingly set them)

• Why 300 hours builds a deep friendship

• And the truth that friendships are for a reason, a season, or a lifetime—and that’s okay

This is a conversation for the woman who’s been hurt, but still hopes. Who’s lonely, but still showing up. Who’s ready to risk again for the kind of friendship that goes deep and lasts.

Grab Kristen’s book wherever books are sold—and if you’re in a season of rebuilding your circle, start right here.

Bio:

Kristen Strong, who has authored books include Girl Meets Change and When Change Finds You, also compiled the 90-day devotional, Praying Through Loneliness. She writes as a friend walking alongside you in your lonely season to a more helpful, hopeful destination. She loves sharing laughs, long talks, and meaningful stories with family and friends while holding a cup of strong black tea. She and her US Air Force veteran husband, David, have three beloved adult children. Together this military family zigzagged across the country (and one ocean) several times before settling in Colorado Springs, Colorado.

Anchor Verses:

1 Peter 5:7

Romans 8:31-32

Connect with Kristen:

Website: https://kristenstrong.com

IG: https://www.instagram.com/kristenstrong

Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kristenstrong

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In this episode, I’m joined by Laine Lawson Craft, the author of Warfare Parenting, a powerful book dedicated to equipping parents and loved ones who are fighting for a prodigal or struggling child. Laine shares her personal journey, her heart for parents, and the incredible revelation she had that prayer is the most powerful weapon in the battle for our children. Through her experience of walking through the challenges of marriage and parenting, she discusses how to actively engage in the spiritual warfare that often accompanies the journey of raising children, especially when they’re lost or hurting.

Takeaways:

1. Understanding the Battle:

One of the most impactful moments in Laine’s journey was recognizing that her battle was not against her children, but against the enemy. She encourages parents to focus on spiritual warfare and prayer rather than becoming frustrated with their children’s actions. She emphasizes that God’s love for our children is greater than we can imagine, and He is always in the battle with us.

2. The Power of Prayer and the Blood of Jesus:

Laine shares the power of praying over her children and invoking the blood of Jesus for their protection. By visualizing the blood of Christ covering her children, she trusted God’s protection over them, especially during their most challenging years.

3. The Miracle of Presence, Not Perfection:

Sometimes, the miracle we pray for isn’t the one we envision. Laine shares her story of a lost child and the pain of seeing them struggle, but she reminds us that even in the darkest seasons, God is present and working in ways we can’t always see. Whether or not our prodigal children come home in the way we wish, the miracle is that we continue to stand firm in our faith.

Closing Thoughts:

Laine’s message is one of hope for all parents, especially those navigating the heartache of a prodigal child. Her journey of surrendering control to God, relying on prayer, and trusting in God’s bigger plan is powerful. No matter how far off course our children may seem, God is always at work in their lives, and He has not given up on them. For parents fighting the battle of raising a prodigal, remember—you are not alone, and the power of prayer is the key to victory.

Bio:

Laine Lawson Craft, dynamic speaker and host of top-ranked podcase Warfare Parenting, is the best-selling author of several books, including Spiritual Warfare and The Parent’s Battle Plan.

She has been featured on major media outlets, including FOX News,The 700 Club, CBN, CTN, TCT, various radio programs, and in many online features.

Married for over thirty-seven years, Laine lives in Florida. As a mother and grandmother, she leverages her experiences to empower and support moms and families worldwide.

Anchor Verses:

Isaiah 54:17

Ephesians 3:20

Connect with Laine:

Website: https://lainelawsoncraft.com

IG: https://www.instagram.com/lainelawsoncraft

Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lainelawsoncraft

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On today's episode is my friend, Abby McDonald, author of Surrendering Certainty. Abby shares her powerful story of moving from a place of fear and uncertainty to embracing God’s guidance and surrendering control. After a tough season of postpartum depression and struggling with her faith, Abby came to the life-changing realization that she had never fully surrendered her life to God. Her journey of healing, both physically and spiritually, has shaped her ministry and writing, inspiring others to trust God’s direction, even when the outcome isn’t clear.

Abby’s new book, Surrendering Certainty, explores how to trust God with the unknown and be free from the constant need for control. She discusses the importance of surrendering fear and letting it propel us toward Jesus, not away from Him. Abby’s message is one of hope and encouragement for anyone feeling stuck in uncertainty and seeking clarity in their relationship with God.

Takeaways:

1. Surrender is Freedom: Abby’s story highlights that true freedom in Christ comes when we fully surrender control. Letting go of certainty and trusting God’s plan allows us to step into His peace and direction, even when things don’t go as expected.

2. Fear Can Propel Us Toward Jesus: Fear often leads us to retreat or avoid difficult decisions. However, when we choose to face our fears with God, it becomes a catalyst for deeper connection with Him and a stronger sense of His presence and peace.

3. The Power of Discernment: When uncertain about what God is asking, Abby suggests two questions to ask ourselves: “Does this show my love for God?” and “Does this show my love for His people?” These questions can guide us in discerning God’s voice and moving forward in His will with confidence.

Abby’s journey from fear to freedom and her invitation to surrender to God’s will is a powerful reminder that we can trust Him in the uncertainty. As we lean into His love and guidance, we find peace and purpose in every season of life.

If you’re feeling uncertain or stuck, Abby’s story and message are a powerful reminder that God is with you, guiding you every step of the way. Surrender your need for control and trust in His perfect plan for your life.

Bio:

Abby McDonald is the author of Shift and Surrendering Certainty. She is also a writer, speaker, wife and mom whose work has been featured on (in)Courage, For Every Mom, Crosswalk, and more. She writes for for Proverbs 31 Ministries' daily devotional, Encouragement for Today, and her passion is to empower women to grow in faith and hope, even when life is messy. She earned a Bachelor’s Degree in English from the University of South Carolina, and loves to teach at writing conferences each year.

When she's not reading or writing, you can find her wrangling her three kids and black lab while drinking copious amounts of coffee. Abby lives with her husband and three children in western Maryland.

Anchor Verses:

2 Corinthians 12: 9-10

Connect with Abby:

Website: https://abbymcdonald.org

IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymcdonaldwriter

LINKTREE: https://linktr.ee/abbymcdonaldwriter

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