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A Journey from Swingers to Exclusive Polyamory
- 2022/06/19
- 再生時間： 32 分
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Interview: A Journey from Swingers to Exclusive PolyamorySummary: Crys interviews a poly couple and explores the challenges and benefits of the lifestyle, their origins, solid advice for newcomers, and valuable resources for those who are curious
- Average American married couple of 18 years and in alternative lifestyles for 17
- Origin stories: How did it all start
- Communication is the key to the spice of life
- Breaks are needed: Everything is good in moderation and gives you the bandwidth to regroup
- What swinger encounters and poly dating look like
- There are different swingers: Soft swap, full swap - the level depends on the couple.
- How we became exclusively polyamorous
- Growing pains in any relationship, but it strengthens the couple and builds friendship, trust, respect, and love
- Who handles overly aggressive advances?
- What are the club rules or lifestyle party rules?
- Are there single men and single women (unicorn) swingers?
- How do you set boundaries and say no?
- Reasons why people join the lifestyle vary from being married to young and wanting to explore or being bicurious, or even the wrong reason like trying to fix a marriage
- Know your intent going in, and your marriage and poly relationships will be strong.
- Some tools to get you started are apps like LL (Lifestyle Lounge); SLS; 3fun; Kasidie
- How do you maintain a poly relationship?
- Advice for new couples: it is all about communication and being vulnerable