In this episode of Ministry Mix, Phil and Richard dive into one of the most critical but often overlooked aspects of evangelism—building trust with those who are spiritually disconnected. Drawing insights from the book I Once Was Lost, they explore the first key threshold people must cross before embracing faith: trusting a Christian. With skepticism toward church leaders at an all-time high and many self-identified Christians not actively engaged in church, trust is a crucial foundation for meaningful gospel conversations.

The hosts unpack six signs that indicate you’re building trust with spiritually disconnected people, from learning their stories and receiving honest conversations to becoming someone they turn to in moments of need. They also discuss practical ways to break down barriers, avoid treating people as projects, and genuinely care for others beyond a Sunday morning invitation. If you want to cultivate real relationships that lead to spiritual transformation, this episode is for you.

Reflection Question:

1) Have you intentionally taken time to ask about and understand the background and story of the spiritually disconnected people in your life?

2) Are there non-believers or disconnected Christians in your circle who feel comfortable enough to ask for help when they need it? If not, why might that be?

3) Do spiritually disconnected people feel safe enough to be themselves around you, or do they seem to filter their words and actions in your presence?

4) Does your online presence align with the character and faith you live out in everyday life? Are there areas where you might be unintentionally harming your witness?

5) How will you invest time in friendships with spiritually disconnected people outside of church events and evangelistic efforts?