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#309 'Bad' Behavior is a Symptom of THIS Problem -- Fixing the Parent/Child Connection (ages 3-25) Fixes the Behavior
- 2025/04/23
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Are you struggling with constant meltdowns, defiance, rebellion, or other 'bad' behavior from your child—whether they’re 3 or 23?Do you feel disconnected from them and like they won't listen, share, confide, or trust you?Here’s the truth: “bad” behavior is almost never the real issue. It’s a signal—a symptom of something deeper going on beneath the surface… usually a broken or weakened emotional connection with you, their parent.In this episode, we dive into the root cause of most behavioral challenges—and it’s not what most parents think. Whether you’re dealing with a sassy teen, a withdrawn preteen or tween, or a tantrum-prone toddler, the answer isn’t more discipline. It’s more connection.We unpack what emotional disconnection looks like in everyday parenting—and how to rebuild the bond in ways that transform your child’s behavior from the inside out. You’ll learn practical ways to:Rebuild emotional safety, even after years of strainAvoid the common parenting habits that sabotage connectionCreate small, intentional moments that build trust and attachmentRecognize when your child is asking for love — through misbehavior —without creating bad habitsThe tools we share can help you reconnect with your child at any age and create a family culture where trust, closeness, and cooperation naturally flourish.💥 Want to go deeper? Learn how to become a better parent from the inside out with our new Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method. 👉 For a LIMITED TIME join here as a Founding Member with LIFETIME AccessBehavior is communication, and connection is the cure.Key Takeaways:Family work is the most important work.Good parenting comes down to good connections with your children.There is a direct connection between early attachment and later behavior.Neuroplasticity allows us to change and recreate our relationships.Presence and emotional attunement are critical in parenting.Engaging in activities together strengthens bonds with children.Physical affection is essential for emotional health and regulation.Co-regulation before correction is necessary in effective parenting.Building strong relationships prevents behavioral issues in children.Investing in relationships leads to a happier family lifeChapters00:00 Reflections on Family Legacy and Connection02:20 The Importance of Family Work04:16 Understanding Attachment in Parenting07:31 Neuroplasticity and Rebuilding Connections09:20 Creating Bonds with Children12:14 Long-Term Parenting Strategies14:10 The Role of Dads in Parenting17:21 Identifying Attachment Disorders20:18 Strategies for Rebuilding Connections23:26 The Power of Presence in Parenting28:34 Engaging with Children Effectively30:26 Practical Tips for Connection33:12 The Importance of Physical Affection40:07 The Importance of Touch and Co-Regulation43:30 Emotionally Attuned Parenting48:07 Navigating the Balance of Support and Independence54:32 Rebuilding Attachment and Connection59:21 Engaging in Shared Activities for Bonding01:08:51 The Role of Parents as Emotional Anchors01:16:00 Creating a Life of Connection and FulfillmentRESOURCES:👉 For a Limited Time, become a Founding Member with Lifetime Access to our complete Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method online parenting course.Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.Rachel’s Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read MomsGreg's Recommended Reading List for Parents & YouthFollow us on Instagram: @worldschoolfamily or @greg.denningGet Rachel's Family Systems & ChartsJoin the 28-Day Challenge for MomsJoin the Family Life Coaching Workshop Series for busy momsJoin Greg’s 7-Day Challenge JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort in PortugalRead our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/