In this episode of the Young Dad podcast, host Jey Young speaks with Robert Delena, a father who defied expert opinions regarding his son Ryan's developmental challenges. Robert shares his journey of advocating for Ryan, who was diagnosed with pervasive developmental disorder and faced extreme behavior modification techniques in therapeutic schools. Through skiing, Robert discovered Ryan's untapped potential, leading to a radical shift in their parenting approach. The conversation explores the importance of trusting parental instincts, the impact of diagnosis, and the healing power of nature. Robert emphasizes the need for parents to be advocates for their children and to question professional advice when necessary.

Takeaways

Robert's story highlights the importance of parental advocacy.

Skiing became a transformative experience for Ryan.

Trusting your instincts as a parent is crucial.

Diagnosis can sometimes hinder rather than help children.

The educational system often fails to accommodate individual needs.

Nature has a healing power that can benefit children.

Parents should question professional advice when it doesn't feel right.

Finding a passion can change a child's life trajectory.

Support and love are essential for a child's development.

Every child deserves the chance to thrive beyond labels.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Fatherhood and Advocacy

01:44 Defying Expert Opinions: A Father's Journey

03:16 Questioning the System: A Father's Perspective

08:34 The Struggles with Therapeutic Schools

15:46 The Impact of Skiing on Ryan's Life

21:45 Navigating Mental Health and Medication

28:55 Finding Passion: The Power of Skiing

31:16 Education and Individualized Learning

32:07 Rethinking Education for Modern Kids

33:16 The Importance of Outdoor Activities

35:37 Navigating Interests and Hobbies

37:47 Supporting Kids' Passions

39:13 Growth Through Shared Experiences

41:56 Advice for Parents Facing Challenges

43:07 Navigating Mental Health and Medication

46:15 Trusting Parental Instincts

50:17 Fun and Lighthearted Questions

53:30 Advice for Young Fathers

56:13 lifestyle-outro-low.wav

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